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aggressive with boyfriend?
why do i want my boyfriend to be so aggressive in bed? i get pretty aggressive too but i dont get why i always crave that type of thing?
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it's just how you like it, a lot of people, women and even men, love being dominated by their partner, its nothing bad or anything to worry about, its just what gets you on. i like being dominated too, its just what we like.
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'Cause you are human?
Wanting to be dominated in bed is the most common female sexual fantasy.
It's not really important why, in my opinion. It's perfectly normal and a lot of fun. What does it matter why?
But, if there are some theories.
Some biologists/neurologists suggest that because, for many centuries rape, and coercive sex was very, very normal for human beings, early women adapted to be aroused by being 'taken' roughly. Women who could take some pleasure in being a sexual object in that way, where more likely to survive and bear children.
I'm not sure I accept that, but it's been offered as a possible explanation.
Other explanations run the gambit from the rather nuttier second wave feminist idea that all penetrative sex is inherently violent, and women and the culture must sexual that violence to make it permissible... and still other doctors and scientists say fantasies are just fantasies and are truly nothing more than our very complex brain at work making contentions and playing games with a bundle of interesting ideas.
In the end, it really doesn't matter why. We can't ever know for sure.
What we can know is that wanting to have rough sex is not a sign of any mental problems, it's very common and very normal. As long as you and your partner are having fun and being safe, go for it.
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