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Why am I feeling like this?
I am in an odd situation (to me anyway). I am going to start with a few months ago. I told my best friend that I had feelings for her but she said that she didn't feel the same. So I tried to move on from her and I thought I did.
So then this girl asked me out, she lives too far away for me to meet but we Skype everyday. So I've been going out with her for a month or two now (not counting the time I knew her before she asked me out)and I've recently realized that I still have feelings for my best friend.
I can't understand why I am feeling like this. I should have been over her ages ago. I don't believe that this is fair on my girlfriend. So why am I feeling like this? Should I tell anyone about this?
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Coming from a girls point of view, I wouldn't tell your girlfriend unless something happens between you and your best friend (i.e., you kiss) Telling her now would alarm her, and probably ruin the realationship. But if something DOES happen, or the feelings don't go away in a few months, you should sit her down, tell her, and work things out from there. Weather the decision is to break up or stay together is up to you.
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Simetimes it takes awhile to get over someone. As I have always said a relationship over the internet is not a relationship, It's a fantasy.
Sometimes in order to move on we need to find a real relationship where we can get to know that person. You're friend does not feel the same way you do and in time you will learn to except that. In the meantime I think you may want to look to meet someone you can have a real relationship with.
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