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how do i win back my boyfriend? My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years now, I love im dearly but I feel as though he is not in love with me anymore. I am 37 and I am a girl. He is cold and heartless towards me. How can I win him back?
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your still young...don't waste your time on someone who doesn't love you. If he is cold and heartless toward you he doesn't love you. Your love will fade for this guy...there is too many fish in the sea who wants to make you their Queen. Move on...for your sake. ]
it sounds like you're trying to win his heart to me, but if you want him to feel something for you again, try doing some of his favorite things with him. take him to his favorite places or get him his favorite food. show him you're a great catch and win his heart again. ]
There isn't exactly a direct answer to your question.
I could give you various ideas IE - cook a nice meal, do something etc but those would all be pointless and temporary actions.
If he is cold and heartless towards you and he makes you feel unloved the only way to actually resolve an issue is to... unfortunately.. talk about it!
You need to sit down, alone, quietly & say what is bothering you and upsetting you. Ask him is he aware, why does he do these things - all the things you want to know. If he admits he doesn't love you anymore then you know it's time to break away, if he says he loves you, then you find out what the problem is and then ask.. how are you going to resolve it.
The only way you are going to stop feeling the way you do is to talk to him. Which can be very hard, but trust me, it works. ]
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