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My boyfriend lives in Florida and I live in Minnesota. We can only talk over Im and i doubt i will ever be able to visit him. We love each other very much and I would like to know what we could do. I don't have a webcam and there is no way i could see him without traveling to Florida..
Every time we aren't talking I feel sad..
Please give me your advice.
Thank you.
Ps. I am 14 and he is 15.
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i feel your pain, i've been in some internet relationships myself, and some people just lack the capacity to see that its what makes us happy. they cant see that people can meet over the internet. now, on to your problem. what i usually do is if it gets pretty serious, we make plans to meet. like if over the summer, you 2 will be in the same state, you can make plans to meet ^^
p.s: dont let anyone tell you tht online dating isnt real, it can be just as real as dating in real life. the love that bonded that relationship is just as real, good luck to you 2 <3
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There are a few problems here
1, You both are young and as hard as it is for you to except 99% of the time young couples don't work out.
2, You both are in completely different states. From MN to FL it is about 1800 miles away which is impossible to just up and walk. That is over 24 hrs to even get there
3, You are not being realistic, Assuming to met over the internet, You do not know him. You know only what he wants you to know and as disappointing as is he may not even be a 15 yr old.
Internet relationships are not real. They are a fantasy. You cannot be affectionate or spend time with someone on a computer. All it is just words on a screen
If you want a boyfriend find someone you know, Someone that is real and you can actually have a relationship with. Not some guy that lives in another state.... The internet is probably the worst place to find someone anyway
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