Q: ok so i am a female. 17 and i jus started dating this boy lets call him boy a and me and boy a been dating for about a month and i really really like him alot !!! he.s funny and smart and everything bt now im nt so sure if i like him anymore =/ so anyways i saw my ex today boy b and me and him went out for about 6 months and when i seen him my heart started beating really really fast !! like i dont even noe why !! ughh im so confused i think that my feelings are beginning to come back for boy b bt i REALLLY like boy a and the funny thing is that my ex me and my boyfreind now all have the same class together !!! thats crazy right. me and boy b have alot of history togehter and i think he still has feelings for me too bt im nt sure we didnt even talk to each other today. ughh well i guess what i am asking is do you think that i still in love with my ex? and what do you think i should do about boy a ? should i break up with him? im so confusedd can someone please give me advice?

Q: ok so 14 female..
alright soo i have a friend well call her moneky anyways me and monkey have been friends for a long time ! and me and her "supposeably" enfasis on the " boyfriend go to the same school right? anyways me and him have a couple classes together she had the nerve to tell me that today in class that i was ALLL over her man and that she heard i was tryin to kiss him which i was def NOT!! like what the hell do i look like and plus i have a BOYFRIEND i dont need or WANT hers like get over yourself shaking my head then some other boy that i put her on with he's a college boy and she going to sit her and tell me that he goes to my school and i go out with him like are you kidding me???? he goes to college are you dumb !

anyways i guess what im asking is should i tlak to monkey about the situation or jus drop it and like change my number and stuff like that? and do you think by her starting this rumor do you think that my boyfriend might hear about it and think that its true? like she is so fake and i blieved all her bull crap just because i thought she needed a friend...

Q: i got my tongue pierced about 2 hours ago and the spit glands under my tongue havent stoped producing saliva since. i have to swallow or spit every couple of seconds. is it just because im not used to it or what?

Q: aww thanks you hunny.
the only thing am nervous is when somebody goes to order what they want i guess i will have to write it in a piece of paper because the computer doesnt do it for you i think. they only have the register to put in the money and to take out money to give back :(
am soo scared i dont even know what to do :(

Q: I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

Q: hey! am going to start working at a pizzeria store next week.
i just want to know is it easyworking in a pizzeria. am going to start working in the front first like taking the customer's order. is it easy to work as a cashier?
i just need help because am a littler bit nervous :(

Q: hello. so i am going to be graduating with my associates of art after this semester. then with my associates in criminal justice after two semesters. but after taking a couseling and development class and psychology im looking more towards psychology major with a minor in communications. can you tell me what your plan was to get your degree and any other advice.

Q: I am a married 41 yr. old mom of 2. Ages 13 and 5. I am on unemployment from cert. nursing aide, been doing this since age 18. Too physically demanding. Need a career change. Like either medical billing/coding, can sit at a desk. Schooling isnt too long for this. But will it be challenging/rewarding enough for me? I also like Medical assisting, schooling isnt too long, but I will still be walking, on my feel most all day, can I do this? X-ray/medical asst, like medical asst, but can do limited scope xrays, will be on my feet, but pay will be probably little better than both of the previously mentioned, and I'm sure it will be challenging and rewarding. Am I too old? Can I commit to this? Need to make sure, I'm afraid to make the wrong decision, need some advice. I kind of want to have a desk job, but the mental stress of all those codes may haunt me. Any other ideas? Thank you!

Q: Okay. So this is pretty big for me. I had a really bad break up three months ago. I'm still hurting from it, but I AM over my ex. I like this new guy. He's sixteen; a new junior and I am fifteen; a new sophomore. He's always been a pretty good friend. But he's a really really really good kid so I never really hung out with him much... He doesn't drink or smoke or hook up or anything. He's basically perfect... He's smart, sweet, athletic and really cute! I like him. A lot. We've kind of been talking... kind of. We've been texting a lot and being pretty flirty... But I'm worried becuause right after my ex and I broke up three months ago, I went for a rebound I thought I really liked too... True, its been a long time and I feel liek I'm in a much better place, but I'm still worried. I'm also worried that I might be too... I don't know. See I made a mistake with my ex. We went too far... physically and he told everyone about it. There were all sorts of messed up things that led up to me giving into his pressuring, and in some of the cases, it was physical force, and someday (when things get more serious) I will explain it to this new guy. I didn't want to go as far as I did... Ugh its really complicated. I don't want this new guy to judge me on what happened... I want to explain to him but it's not to the point yet that I feel comfortable telling him about it... So it's kind of a catch 22. What happened might keep me from getting to a level where I feel comfortable explaining to him what happened... Ya know?? So what do I do? I like him a lot... I just want it to work.

Q: Hey so i posted a question about this already, but it didn't make sense. So i have a friend and ever since she's become a christian and well she always thinks that her point of view is right and we always end up getting in a fight about it. She treats me like crap. On Saturday she didn't want to watch this movie and wanted to watch something else and kept saying it was bad because they were cursing, and i told her i didn't care what she though. And she said well you wouldn't be saying that. And the weekend before i was eating and watching a movie and i came back and i said out loud that i didn't understand the movie and she rudely replies with well maybe if you weren't eating and paying attention to the movie and i got mad and started telling her off. She's such a bitch. I mean i try to talk to her but she just says well your mean too and justifies what she does be cause she thinks what she does is ok. I am getting sick of her. And not only that whenever we hangout i'll ask her what time and she says oh i don't know. And whenever we do hangout and this happens a lot but not all the time, she always wants me to come over to her house. it's annoying. noto nly that but she'll say something rude to me and then i'll say something back and will be like i don't care what you think i have jesus in my life. blah blah blah. I don't know what to do. it bothers me a lot even though in a way it doesn't matter because she's leaving on friday. what should i do?

Q: So my gf left me for her ex. About 2 weeks after that she started textin me and finally asked me to come hang out. So I did and ended up staying 2 nights. Had great sex, she told me she did have sex with her ex but pictured my face, knows she made a big fuck up, would do anything in the world to have me back in her life that we could and would make it together this time so I was gonna give her another chance but I needed time to get her trust back. She didnt understand what the wait was for and felt I was givin her the run around. I wanted to tell her the day after i left there in person i did wanna try again, but she went to her exs house and stayed the night. she said you expect me to wait on you forever im gonna be with her i just think its for the best and I do love and care for her. This was a week ago. She just now put on her myspace shes in a relationship and like 2 pics of her ex and one of them kissing. I left her a comment that said never let go of us, she hasnt deleted it and I am still on her top friends list. I do wanna be with her in time but what should I do? Not to mention her ex kicked her out of the house and if it wasnt for family shed be homeless.

Q: So I go to a pretty good sized state university about 2 hours away from my home. The truth is, I don't really like it here. I've met a few nice people but other than that i just do not feel like I fit in. My best friend goes to school in Boston, which is like 40 minutes from my house. Every time I visit her, I love it. I have so much fun, and love the people and the atmosphere. So, Im thinking about transfering. I just dont know if thats the right thing to do. Here, I just feel lonely and unwelcomed. I want to be somewhere where I know people and feel comfortable. Is the whole mess of transerring worth it? Or should I just stick it out for the next 4 years and hope something changes?

Q: So me and this guy, mike, were together in June and had a great month, but i went to a party, drank a bit much and kissed another guy, zack. We had ups and downs and he was gonna forgive me but i told him i wanted a break, i didn't tell him why but it was because i fell for zack. Mike ended up breaking up with me a few days later. In Sept sometime me and zack broke up for different reasons but i realized i really was in love with mike. mike and i got back together, but not really officially openly bf/gf, i love him and he loves me, we talk about our future together. i went to another party without mike and i felt like i couldn't dance with guys and i just wanted to flirt. i haven't really been with other guys besides mike and zack i wanna marry mike one day, but right now i just wanna have fun, flirt with guys. and i feel wrong for saying that, i regret cheating on him so much because i never wanted to be that person. what do you think i should do?

Q: okay so i have this friend and she is the biggest complainer ever..like thats all she does every day and shes always in a bad mood. and so a few days ago she just flipped out on me because of a harmless little joke (that ive said to her in the past and she laughed about it)..i even apologized but then she said something that just really pissed me off. we call each other sluts and stuff (just kidding of course) but she said "did you say that because you're jealous of me?" i seriously wanted to go off on her so bad but i didn't because i don't want to cause unnecesary drama my senior year of high school. it just pisses me off so much of the fact that she thinks i'm jealous of her..i love my own life and i have plenty self confidence, thanks. i hate to lose a friend, especially one that i used to be so close to but i seriously don't want to be close with someone thats always negative and makes me feel like shit all of the time. so my questions are, 1. do you think this is a good decision on my part? and 2. how do i slowly just drift away? we have classes together so i don't want to cut her off completely, i still wanna be nice but i don't wanna be close anymore. thanks everyone.

Q: I'm 15/f and my friend is 15/f. My friend constantly talks about herself. She will relate stuff to herself, or her clothes, or her grades or the sports she plays. It seems like whenever I am with her it's always about her. I will tell her something that was funny or what happened to me and she will give absolutely no feedback. She'll relate that thing back to herself or she'll go on with her story or interrupt me. My mom and sister tell me to ditch her because she's so self conceited. My friends also get annoyed about how much she talks about what clothes she bought. Our neighbor, who has met her, even said she was very self conceited. She also knows I don't get the best of grades (or atleast I thought she did) and one day she flipped out about getting an A- on her final with me standing right there. I want to tell her how I feel or just put her in line. I want to tell her "Hey sometimes I matter too!", but i'm not sure how to put it in nice terms. Any advice?

Q: 19/f

I am 19 and my parents dont really allow me to do much. I feel like a child. My friends all make fun of me for being under such close watch and not being allowed to go places and do things like most 19 or 18 year old do, because i always have to ask my parents and hope that they will permit me to do something... I have no freedom. I've fairly recently gotten in trouble for trying to go out, because I said so, and I was like... its time to stop being controlled by my parents and get out and have some fun.
I had to deceive my parents so that i could do what i wanted to do. I couldn even leave the house without my mom looking out the door to see who was picking me up and to see if they were there yet...etc.... I didnt know my mom was going to follow me to the door, so that foiled my plan. I was going to walk up the road, but my mom was like "no, tell your friend to come pull up infront of the door". And then she saw that it was a male friend and not the female friend i told her it was. I got in a lot of trouble and got yelled at and lectured.. Now my parents say they dont trust me and i cant go anywhere or do anyyything. My friends say "you're 19, you can do what you want....etc."..

I want to know if it would be f***ed up or not if I were to just slip out the house and move one day and not tell my parents anything until I get there. I want to live with a certain guy, but, i mean, when i am ready to move in with him and when i'm sure thats what i want to do. And I will call my parents from my new residence, or better yet text them and be like "umm.... yeah.... i moved..."

They dont even want me meeting with this guy. They dont want me to meet with no guy or do anything. And I am so tired of my parents! I need to get away from them! I'm not going to even bother with introducing them to the guy, because they wont want me with him cuz he's 22 and i told my mom a little bit about him and she's like "you dont need to be with him. you dont need to be with anybody. You need to focus on school and focus on gettin yourself together first (work on myself in terms of anxiety problems etc.)" They just want to keep me as their boyfriend-less child for as long as they possibly can.

And I dont want to bother with telling them i plan on moving out. So do you think it would be messed up if i just moved out, and in with this guy, and just told them about it after the fact? Just so they know what happened to me.. and that way they cant do anything about it

Q: what do you do if your parents accuse you of something you didnt do?

Q: what is it mean to "be there for someone"? and how do you be there for someone? is it considered being there for someone if your friend didnt go to you for advice but you came to them and you ask them what's wrong and they tell you whats wrong with them?

Q: This past week I admitted to my ex that I still missed him after we had broken up last summer. We had been on/off since the beginning of last year, but after this summer we broke up, seemingly for good, and we both found other people to date. But neither of those relationships worked out for either of us. And so I admitted to him that I missed him, and he said he had been thinking the same thing. So we decided we were going to give us another shot. We agreed not to make anything official yet, but then I asked if this was for real, or if this was just a fling, and he said he wanted to committ to it. So the next day when I went to see him, we hooked up and made plans for a double date with some friends of mine. But later that night, he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship like he thought he was, and he was sorry about it all. I understand this, but I just want outside opinions: Do you think we have a chance of being together if I wait for him? Or should I just move on because of the instability of our relationship?

Q: I have been dating a guy since they very begining of September all intentions on getting married. We have had rough patches. example: my son and i were sleeping, his friend and him were in the other room had taking cold pills doing air guster and drinking. he was being a jerk telling me to get out of the house etc. i stayed. it was like 3 am. My sons father keep texting me and i keep telling me to leave me alone (i know from the past that if you tell him what he wants to hear he leaves you alone) so i told him that i missed him in a sacastic way. my ex got mad.. there has been this number calling my boyfriends phone i asked him about it he told me it was leon.. leon was over and the number started calling i asked him about it he goes oh its an old buddy who smokes pot so i didnt tell you because youd get mad. a week ago i had a guy feeling something wasnt right. i looked at his phone which i never do. nd there was text messages saying i miss you and i can not wait to see you. and mwahh.. they had plans for last sunday. she didnt know he was dating me or even living with me i moved out the next morning. he keeps telling me how sorry he is how much he loves me and he wants me back that im the only girl he wants. he told me he did it because he got scared about getting married and she was supose to just be a friend but she told him everything that he wanted to hear. and he wants to work it out with me hell give up drugs and drinking. take his phone away till i trust him again. i feel like i love him but i also feel he wants someone to help with bills. he doesnt have a car so hes stuck at home besides work. i dont know if i can trust him last time i seen him i couldnt even look him in the eyes the same. but hes telling me what i want to hear because i want him back but i like being single.. i just need some advice please.

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