thanksss =D that was good im going to take your advice

thanx for the help

awww thankss :)

thank you for reading and thank you for your input =] . It was a valid point to say that I need to be able to make my own money and be able to afford to pay rent; but in my case, my anxiety controls me in ways and it stands in the way of me getting a job. It is difficult for me to attend my classes also. Thats why I'm not doing so well in school. I understand that my parents want me to go to college, benefit from it, succeed, etc.. but going to college is not for me. So i feel like i dont know what i am going to do in my life. I am nnnot living with my parents forever... I cant even go to school for a career, or get a job to make money to be able to move out.... I was liking the idea of moving in with this guy who will love me and take care of me. And it seems like my only option. I want to move in with him after i've spent enough time with him and when i'm sure it would be a good idea to live with him, and he understands me.. understands that certain things are obstacles for me because of apprehensions and anxieties. Now i am feeling like he will accept that and he will care about me alot and want me to live with him. There's a possibility that later he will not like that i'm so dependent... i dont know... but my parents tell me that i have to be independent and not have to depend on a man, but i cant be independent. I cant do anything on my own... i cant work... what are my options? Not that i am just in a hurry to move out and away from my parents just for the sake of it, or not that i'm going to rush moving in with this guy; but i really want to be with him.. and i will see how things go.. see if i want to live with him... and a bonus would be getting away from mom and dad... What do you think i should do in my case? I cant even support myself.... at least not without lots of therapy so that i will be able to work... i cant live with my parents forever.. i cant live with a room mate who expects me to go half on rent because i cant make money because i cant get a job... What should I do?? =[ *crying*

he hadn't slept with the girl yet i caught him before they were goig to hang out. and hes not addicted he does it what his friend shows. up but i understand what you are saying.

Oh, yea! we used to do that, but I totally forgot that was a possibility! thanks!

thank you so much!

Thanks, I'll keep it in mind...he actually replied today, so as usual, I was looking into it too much

thank you so much.this makes a lot of sense. I have put her out of my sight to that point where I only listen to what she has to say about things going on in her life. She is a mental case, but wutevr, I'm doing the right thing. Thank You so much!

thankyou so much(: you have no idea how much that helped

you are right....yep, i'm sure sticking with that decision. i just always felt so unhappy with him and down and i couldn't be myself, but now i can because he is not there.lol..bt anyway...your advice has helped me a lot. thank you!!!

THANKS ALOT! you help alot!

that was perfect :) thank you you know what you are talking about :)

Thanks so much :) To tell you the truth, the actual story didn't go like that but I changed it for Advicenators. And it wasn't that he wanted sex, he just wanted more then I wanted to give. He was really cool but it's really his loss, right :)

thank you!=]

Thanks so much!!

wow. I owe you a big thanks! your advice really makes me want to change for the better =]

You have a point. I think I just need to keep myself in check until I'm sure things are really okay. Thanks. =)

thank you i made plans with a couple girl friends to go out to a party this weekend and hopefully by halloween ill be okay thank you again!

iv done all that altho we always kiss when we sit soo its different, thanks!

thankz y0u s0 much...y0u really helped me al0t:)

Thank you and i am careful i was nervous about meeting him at first that's why i made him come to my work

Thanks =] This gave me the 'ooumph' i needed to tell him..

Thanks i didn't think about it that way before. this really helped me.

Thanks :)

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