Question Posted Wednesday September 8 2010, 4:44 pm
ok so i am a female. 17 and i jus started dating this boy lets call him boy a and me and boy a been dating for about a month and i really really like him alot !!! he.s funny and smart and everything bt now im nt so sure if i like him anymore =/ so anyways i saw my ex today boy b and me and him went out for about 6 months and when i seen him my heart started beating really really fast !! like i dont even noe why !! ughh im so confused i think that my feelings are beginning to come back for boy b bt i REALLLY like boy a and the funny thing is that my ex me and my boyfreind now all have the same class together !!! thats crazy right. me and boy b have alot of history togehter and i think he still has feelings for me too bt im nt sure we didnt even talk to each other today. ughh well i guess what i am asking is do you think that i still in love with my ex? and what do you think i should do about boy a ? should i break up with him? im so confusedd can someone please give me advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jami answered Thursday September 9 2010, 9:08 pm: If you are not sure that you still like your new guy so much anymore, don't lead him on. Just be friends with him so that his feelings don't end up getting crushed if you decide you don't want him anymore. You can't be all that into him if your ex is on your mind. You should see if things between you and your ex are really over and take it from there. Think about why you broke up in the first place and if it can be repaired. If he feels the same way you will have to decide if getting back with him is worth missing out completely on this new guy because it is likely to happen once he finds out.
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inevitable_pain16 answered Thursday September 9 2010, 12:16 pm: Well you said that you don't really have anymore feelings for boy a anymore so I think you should not continue to be with a guy that doesn't make you feel all good inside. Now your ex has came back into your life and yes the two of you have history but you have to ask yourself why did you and him break up in the first place? If you want to you can talk to your ex and see if he still has feelings and if it's true and you feel good about it ask him if he would like to give it another shot. GOOD LUCK!!! [ inevitable_pain16's advice column | Ask inevitable_pain16 A Question ]
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