I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
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ok this is wierd but i have been with my bf for 4 years. i love him but i am starting to think our relationship is not as strong as it used to be. now we met online in a group for wrestling fans. well in the past year i have been chattin with this one guy and we exchanged phone numbers nd we chat alot and we call each other and swap pix often ... i am starting to feel the same way i did before i moved in with my current bf. like, he anawesome guy and i think i may be falling for him ... but i still love my current bf. whatni wong with me? some one just tell me im insane. what am i feeling and why? (link)
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you are not crazy so do not worry.
When you first get into a relationship it is fun and exciting to be with someone new. As time gets on it grows and grows, but it does get to a point where you become very comfortable with the person you are with. When that happens it's not the same feeling you had when you first went out. You feel safe, and secure with the person. and the times that you have been through build up your relationship together making you closer.
You might not feel the exact same for your current bf as you once did, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. If you feel that you have fallen out of love with him than of course you should break up with him and try to find someone new.
But if you think that you still love him, but you want that same feeling you had years ago try to do some new things together instead of the normal things you would do together.
Ultimately if you still think you like him then talk to him and tell him how you feel, communication is key.
About guy # 2 if you love your current bf like you say i do then i would distance your self from guy # 2 a little bit, because when you get too close to someone of the opposite sex (especially) one you might like it a lot easier for mistakes to happen. IF you don't want to fall for him then just distance yourself a little, not completely.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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I am really getting into watching anime. I'm watching a few anime series right now, like:
Bleach
Code Geass
Spiral
Reborn
Kamichama Karin
Ghost hunt
Fate stay night
Kyou Kara Maou!
I'm looking for an anime were the main character gets stronger throughout the series though. Preferably they have a power of some sort and they don't know about it at the beginning, you know? They learn about themselves throughout the series and uncover a lot of hidden abilities.
I don't mind fighting scans or action, but not all the time. I need a short line! Mystery and suspense are good additions in an anime too. The plot has to have twists and turns keeping me on the edge, of course, otherwise I will just get bored with it. I guess that's why I am drawn to the ones where the main character is finding new traits about himself/herself. Yeah, it doesn't matter if the main character is male or female.
Sorry that is sounds like I'm so picky when it comes to anime. I just REALLY want a GOOD one that I can get into and enjoy. I like the ones I'm watching but I am still looking for more, of course. Any suggestions? (link)
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Naruto is definitely a great anime to watch that meats your requirements.
yuyu hakusho
Dragon Ball z is a classic and might be a little too much fighting for you.
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so about a month ago my computer started to act weird. 98% of the time windows media player, internet explorer, and zune will not come up. (firefox does come up though) i click on them and they show up and then disappear in 5 seconds. i'm 99.9% sure i have no viruses so i don't know what's wrong. i am dying without listening to music or updating my zune!
also, this may be unrelated but when internet explorer DOES work, i can go on youtube all i want but with firefox it lets me be go to youtube and watch about 2-3 videos then it won't change the page to go to another part of youtube. if you don't know why this is then ignore this half but i don't what's wrong.
thanks so much for any help and for reading this! (link)
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Well if the program is opening then closing you might need to reinstall those programs, but the more likely solution is that you do in fact have a virus.
Also about the second part if firefox is only letting you view 2-3 videos then it might be a slow internet connection, or youtube's servers might be going under maintenance. If it's only youtube thats freezing you so that you can not go on another video than it is on youtube's end not yours.
If you need anymore advice/help just message me and i will be happy to help.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
Well first off if it is youtube's servers there is nothing anyone can do about it except those who maintain the servers.
Also if it is a virus you will just need to get rid of it. If it's something simple these two programs are good anti maleware/ anti virus http://www.malwarebytes.org/
and
http://free.avg.com/
both are fairly lite weight anti virus / malware programs.
If these programs do not work then try reinstalling your windows media player, zune software, and Internet Explorer.
If all those fail and it is still acting up i suggest you go to your local computer store and get a virus removal. If you cannot afford it then i suggest just reinstalling windows.
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my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we really love eachother and he goes threw soo much for me just an example, i have had cancer and ben hospitalized so many times for bein psycho and it hurts him so bad as hes ben with me threw it all.. we're both 15 nearly 16 (link)
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Well a guitar is most likely out of the question.
Guitars are hundreds of dollars or more. Also if hes an amazing musician he would have a fairly decent guitar to begin with You don't have to get him something huge, or even anything that costs money. With 1 year anniversary's it is more about the time you have spent together and the sentimental value of what you give him more than the value.
.Maybe get him an accessory like maybe a guitar pick that would remind him of you when he used it.
Or
Maybe burn him cd's of some of his favorite music, or songs that remind him of you, and you could color or decorate the front of the cd to personalize it.
Or
Write him a letter explaining to him how strongly you feel toward him and how much it means to you that hes been there for you through thick and thin and how much you appreciate it.
Those are just some ideas, you could use any combination of them or none.
I hope I helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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i'm having boyfriend troubles. my boyfriend is someone very very very famous, & i miss him because he is always so busy!!!!!!!!!!!! should i break up with him? (link)
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Christopher Drew Is not famous. You should get over him.
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13/f
soon to be 14.
for my age, my boobs are HUGE. well, compared to my body. B36 and theyre still growing. but, this one with really bothers me about my breasts. theyre pointy. not like madonna's cone bra. noo. not like that.
but like. idno.
and im very pale and m veins in them are very visible.
please do not lecture me saying "everyones body is different"
i know that. but how can i change this? (link)
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Plastic surgery or lose alot of weight so that your boobs shrink and maybe fill out
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If you're a virgin, and you've never done anything.
Are you automatically tight?
and howdp you know if you're tight? (link)
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Everyone starts off tight. Some tighter then other depending on body type.
You would know if your tight by what you can fit in there. Tampon, finger ect...
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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What are the rules about legal curfews? I heard that if you're caught out after dark you'll get fined. Is this for people walking around, or driving? And what age? (link)
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It depends on
A. where you live
B. if your walking, or driving.
C. Age.
My best advice would be google your city name (or state name) with curfew.
SO for me it'd be Ohio's curfew. OR Cleveland's curfew.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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Do you enjoy the taste of vagina or no? (link)
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It depends on the girl honestly. The vagina taste and smell are dependent on the diet of the girl+ how often she washes.
So there isn't a definite way of saying if you like the taste of vagina's.
But so far i like it.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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where can i get these offlines or can i only buy them online? (link)
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http://www.drmartens.com/dealers/dealersearch.cfm
This is a store locator for doc martens. so just search your way to the closest store near you.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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on myspace, the little "forget password" thing. well when you click it, you have to enter your email and then myspce will send you the password for that account. so, i keep entering my email, (a yahoo email) and it wont send me my password! i double and triple checked each time the spelling is right. is been a couple days and i keep trying and it wont send! its not in the spam, junk, or trash folders either. ive tried everything. what should i do!? (link)
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You might have entered it under another email address. If you have any other email accounts try those.
If that doesn't work ask myspace technical support for help
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im 16/f
and hes 18/m
ill try to make this as short as possible.
we've been dating for a little over a month.we kinda rushed as you would say, we've been through the sex and i love you stage. and im geting kinda lost. hes on probation, and he has a bad rep of being a man whore sort of. well he gave me his password to change his about me, because i wanted to write it, so i was looking and i found sent messages that he sent girls on those truthboxes, saying, well nasty things, just weeks before we dated, and he was telling girls i love you and all this other things. we've already been through the "your not cheating on me are you" and then people all say hes not good news and i get frustrated and tell him what people are saying. i dont want him to think that i dont trust him, which i actully dont really completely or that i was snooping, which i was. i know i should talk to him but i really care about him, even if we did rush into things. any advice?
thank you sooo much. (link)
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Well this is a very tricky situation because your in a rushed relationship where you have already given yourself to someone and then find out that hes saying things like that to girls days before you go out, but what makes it worse is that he didn't tell you, you found out by snooping and if hes this bad boy you say he is then then he won't be too happy to find out you snooped and found something like that out.
So theres a few ways you can go about this.
Option 1 is not do anything and try to forget what you saw and go back to as if you never saw a thing.
Option 2 is talk to him about what you found. Be truthful! Tell him as you were changing the myspace the you saw some comments that worried you. Assure him that you trust hes not cheating, but you want to know how he feels about you, and other girls. Ask him if he feels rushed into the relationship.
Maybe he has feelings for other girls? Maybe hes a player?
You know him better then i do so you could either ask him about those or find out or trust him.
I know you have feelings for him when it's been such a short time and this is going to be difficult.
If you choose to talk to him you run the risk of him getting angry at you for snooping, and not trusting him. OR You will both talk it out and both get your feelings out there and figure out whats what and get your answer
If you choose to not talk to him then you'll be in a constant state of distrust and your relationship will most likely suffer.
So thats the advice i have, and outcomes i see.
I say talk to him and use option 2 as a guide.
I hope it helps and hope it goes well.
Tell me how it goes.
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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My best friend insists i like her crush but i don't!!! I've told her over and over and over again i don't, because i don't. he's not cute at all or anything! I'm barely even friends with him, we're like acquaintances if anything! She doesn't even believe me though. ugh. so what do i tell her, or what do i do, to get her to believe me?! (link)
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Tell her that you are her best friend and have always been there for her. She has no reason not to trust you. Tell her that you barely know him and don't even talk to him so you couldn't like him.
Also help her with dating him. Encourage her to talk to him more, so not only will she get her crush it will prove you don't like him and all is good.
Hope it Helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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I've been searching the net for the easiest way to earm money for three months now, but i haven't found any. It's either i am not eligible or the offer is not available in my country. Please, isn't there any way i can earn money as a teen, without having to pay a cent, from my country, Nigeria? (link)
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Just to add onto life_luv_music16's advice you could do chores that other people dislike like cleaning.
If your good with your hands you could make small toys for children out of everyday things and sell them for however much you want.
Or if your artistic you could paint, sculpt, draw, something for someone.
Lastly if your non of these things good old hard labor is something everyone can do.
Hope it Helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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i cant remember when my last period was. i had sex a few weeks ago, or a few days or something. but i cant remember if i ever did or didnt get my period after that!
ive been smoking weed a lot, (which i probably wont ever do again) and its kind of messing with my memory. also, if i was pregnant, would smoking weed harm the fetus, even if it is just a few months or weeks or something??
thank you. (link)
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I just wanted to comment on what the last advicer said about mary j.
Weed effects short term memory temporary, which you have obviously been feeling, but thats it. Marijuana doesn't have any harmful side effects except for temporary short term memory loss.
And to address your problem, don't worry sex screws with your menstrual cycle, and so do a lot of other factors. It's even believed that if you live in a house with another person that's gets thier period that they can screw with each other.
My mom got hers like every 2 weeks for like 4 months, when my sister started hers, and then my sister didn't have hers for 5 months. So you never know.
Just get a pregnancy test and get tested for HIV just in case.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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15/f
So I know no one would remember but I posted a few questions up here a few months ago about this senior in my school who would always look at me but nothing ever happened..BUT we're hanging out this weekend :] and im excited but EXTREMELY nervous. we're both shy people and we have never ever talked in person before or at all for that matter so i'm thinking its going to be very awkward. my friend, who is friends with one of his friends, set us up. we're hanging out at one of his friends house whom i've never talked to (more awkwardness). I just really dont want to screw this up because i dont think i like him since i dont know him but i really want something to happen out of it. anything i could say, do, anything at all to make it fun and not awkward would be a big help! also we'll be drinking but when i drink i tend to get a tad bit slutty and i dont want to give him the wrong idea. i mean i dont mind kissing him although it will be our first time even talking but idk we'll see how it goes. What do I even talk to him about?! I literally know nothing about him. I need major help or else im going to have a panic attack! haha but anything will really help me out. thanks a lot (link)
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Just be yourself and don't do anything you normally wouldn't just to impress him. If you want something to happen that's going to make you happy then you must be yourself.
Second I would suggest you don't drink when you hang out with him for many reasons.
1.Underage.
2.You get slutty and i doubt a senior will stop at just kissing if your intoxicated.
3.He could take advantage of you and you don't even know him, so he could be a rapist for all you know (exaggeration)
You can always hang out with him and have fun while sober, and if he only wants to hang out with you drunk then you know hes only after your body.
So just try to relax, don't get too excited or crazy because your seeing him, and be yourself.
Hope it Helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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19/f
I am 5'8"...about 147 pounds right now.... I look relatively thin. I've always eaten alot. My metabolism is in my favor; at one time I've lost a little weight when i wasnt trying to. Sometimes it would be alot at once, or sometimes i just eat often. I have always enjoyed eating vvvvvery much. Sometimes it comforts me, or it just makes me happy. But more recently, I don't always seem to enjoy eating.
Now it seems more like an addiction. Like, with the withdrawl and the cravings that i cant seem to discipline myself to resist. I eat when i'm not hungry. I eat when I'm full. I eat things I'm not even sure if i want. I just cant stop eating!
My mom got mad at me because she told me not to eat her chocolate candies, and I knew she would be mad if i ate them, but i was willing to take a yelling at because I nnnnnneeded it.
Now i feel like sometimes i hate eating. And eating is annoying sometimes.... I just really hate feeling like I cant control this. It is controlling me. And I am starting to gain a lllittle weight now, and I would like to be able to control this so that I wont go insane over it, and so i wont end up gaining too much weight.
I need help.. what can I do to resist eating un-necessarily? Something satisfying or occupying... because drinking alot of water wont work... (link)
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I used to have a similar problem when i was younger on a smaller scale, but my metabolism sucked.
When i looked back on it i would always eat when something bad happened. I would eat massive amounts of junk food.
So, first of all you need to figure out what is your trigger for why you are eating. It could be stress in your life, anger, sadness, or it could be something else.
Next time you go on an eating binge think of how your feeling right before you started eating. Happy sad mad ect..
Second try to eliminate w.e. the trigger is in your life. If your sad when you eat, take out w.e's in your life thats making you sad.
Third, try to remove as much junk food from the house as possible. If you remove temptation then you can't eat.
Well thats my two sense. Hope it Helps.
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
Just following up.
Since you said you feel bored, or anxious when you eat sometimes try to be doing something at all times to take your mind off food.
Hang out with friends.
Pick up a new hobby.
Workout
Do anything that will occupy your time.
Also since you want closer friends then i suggest that you try to build on friendships you have that are close, and also go out and meet new friends.
Good luck!
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14/f.
SORRY FOR THE LONGNESS . BUT PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE .
Okaay . SO this guy named Chris and I have dated twice . I broke up with him first , in grade six , because i wasn't ready for a boyfriend . Then in grade seven , I actually started having feelings for him , and I admitted it to him. He told me the same and we started going out again . I really like(d) him and he was the only boy I'd ever felt that way for . We were in two different classes and on two different lunches too. It was hard to get together because we were both so busy. I was there for him through everything then. I cared about him alot . When he got a suspension because of some lie a girl told , i missed my bus comforting him . I also got presured A LOT that year to break up wtih him becasue he was SUPPOSEDLY flirting with other girls . I really liked him.
But later that year , he broke up with me . It was because we never saw each other anymore. Even though i didn't show it , I was terribly sad and still really liked him A LOT .
Not even my best friends knew I still liked him until grade eight (WHICH IS NOW).
We are now on the same lunches and his class is across from mine. When he broke up with me , he never said he didn't like me . But i never know , he could've moved on . But he's the onlyy boy i've EVER liked and i just can't think of anything else when he's there . He flirts with me , and says I remind him of his girlfriend , and he asked me if i was still going out with my boyfriend (last time i had one , summer 08). He says he misses talking with me and stuff like that ... do you think he still likes me ?
thank youu !
-maycee (link)
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Well since he has a gf your chances are smaller.
Your going to have to find out how much he actually likes his gf, and if he likes you enough to leave her for you.
You say you really like him, and he left you because you never hung out well fix that.
Even if it's as friends and he doesn't know you like him, hang out with him as much as you can, talk to him as much as you can and get closer to him. If he has any feelings left they will start to come out the more you two hang out(either in a group or alone). Once you have proven you can be there for him express you feelings for him and hopefully fate will take it from there.
Hope it Helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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OK so my brother like's most of my friend's most of his gf has been my friend's but most of them i hooked him up with,just cause i was bored but now he starting to like more and they don't like him we always make fun of him,but what i wanna no if it is okay if my brother goes out with my friend's he is in the 10th grade now and is 15 and me and my or 13 (link)
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In my personal opinion i wouldn't do it, but it's up to you. I think you shouldn't hook him up but if he really likes them that much to get to know them (without your help) and they like him back then i say it's ok. But at 15 guy's hormones are raging so beware for your friends
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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This question may sound stupid, but I'm really confused. How do anorexic atletes lose the bulkyness of their leg/arm muscle? I know the body eats away at fat when its starved, but how does the muscle break down? Thanks. (link)
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Your misinformed. When the body is lacking nutrients it eats away at muscle (which is counter productive for athletes ) The body will just eat at the places where you have the most muscle then once most to all the muscle is gone it will focus on using fat for energy.
There is no scientific way to lose specific parts by just not eating.
If you are anorexic i suggest you seek help. It's a terribly destructive behavior and it hurts those around.
My Best friend went through it and it was horrible.
Well Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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