I'm weird in a very very scary way.I hate myself for it. buh-bye.
E-mail: SilentStalker411@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: student
Member Since: December 29, 2004
Answers: 28
Last Update: April 22, 2005
Visitors: 2073
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Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...) (link)
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Do what you wanna do. If you truly loved your bf, you would do anything and wait until he's ready to tell his parents. That's all I can do.
Hope I helped.
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ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!! (link)
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Dump him! Hitting U?! Leaving marks?! That doesn't sound like a very nice guy. Someone who treats U like that is NOT worth going after.
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i have been going out with this guy brandon,brandon has an ex gf thats very jealous and wants him back shes made a huge deal about it she threatened me, my friends,shes been saspended.brandon said he would never go back out with her that shes stupid shes gotten so many people in trouble and upset.I kno the only reason why brandon ever went out with her in the first place is becuase he wanted sex,she did everything for him she did his hw,shed sleep with him whenever,just everything.he called me and told me things werent working out between us and he wanted to break up i agreed are relationship wasnt as good as i thought it was i wasnt upset about it i didnt really care until my friend karina called and told me he was hooking back up with his ex gf.I think thats so fucked up its really bothering me and i dont kno how to face it school starts agian monday and i have to see them both i kno someones going to mention something and ask me why he is with her i dont kno what to do help (link)
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DAMN HIM AND HIS EX GIRLFRIEND!!! they have serious issues! ignore them both. if he's gonna be like that, then let him be like that. you'll find someone else who you'll be happy with.
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my boyfriend said we were going to hangout today and he called me last night and told me hed call me today....well he hasnt called me or anything and its 3:30 already...i called him at 1:30 and his brother answered and said he was in the shower...and hed have him call me back...im mad because hes home and stuff and he hasnt even called me....its like...we only hangout if i call him....why doesnt he call me? but when were together its amazing....i love him alot...he said we'd do something today....=\ (link)
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he's a bastard. he's too lazy to call anyone by himself. he only picks the phone up 'cuz he has to,probably. if he keeps doin' this then ditch him. start to ignore him and if he reacts to this and asks you why you're doing this, tell him and mayB he'll start to change his shitty ways.
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Im a 15yr old girl, i met this girl on holiday 3 yrs ago, she wrks in a bar and i've been back to the same place 4 times since we first met. We get on extremely well, shes 30 and got a boyf wit a step son who she tries to hook me up with just for a laugh. When im on holiday there i go 2 the pub n we jus sit n chat all day, bout any random stuff. She really nice and when im home i txt her regularly. since my last couple of visits however i think about her alot, most days, not like sexually or anythink jus in a nice way. im really worried incase im like becoming obsessed with her. i count the days till i will next see her, please tell me if this is wierd?! (link)
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no, i don't think this is weird. you really like talking to her and she enjoys talking to you. hope i helped you.
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ok, i'm 19/female. my best friend(steve) died in march. the night before he did we admitted to each other that we were in love with each other and had been for years. it was the happiest day of my life. all i had to do was break up with my man. the next morning, steve was found dead at a nearby park. the police still dont know if it was suicide or if he was killed, but anyways. that death destoryed my whole life, took my heart right down in the grave with him. then i met neil, and i still love steve, i always will... but i connect with neil, and i see things in neil that i saw with steve. i think that steve sent neil to me to make sure im ok. well.. neil was on probation, and broke it by leaving the county, and now is facing a 1-3 yr sentence. i dont know what to do. i cant lose both of them. please help.
desperate (link)
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wow, two guys that have come for you. interesting. stick with neil and see what happens, keep in touch with him.
hope i gave good enuff information to a 19 yr old.
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Hey i was just curious about dreams. Are they meant to predict the future, or are they just your brain's way of sorting through everything that's going on in your head. Is there an actual purpose for them or what? (link)
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well, i can't give you an exact answer but i'll try to help. in my OPINION, dreams are just images that happen to pop into my head. it's just a bunch of thoughts put together.
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ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do? (link)
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why are they mad? so your rich, big deal. it's not like your bragging it to everyone.they're just jealous but they shouldn't be. they should be happy for you! you know, it's really shallow to be jealous 'cuz someones richer than you are...
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ok so there is this guy.. he is a senior and he knows i like him... and i think he has been dropping little hints that he likes me too, like one day he had sugar all over his mouth and he asked me to wipe it off for him... and it was so sweet.. he is always so flirty around me but idk... im not the most attracted girl and this guy is pretty popular... what do i do? (link)
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hey, if he likes you then he likes you. who cares if you're attractive or not. no one should get in the way of a good relationship. don't you think?
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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=( (link)
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she did what and he did what to who?! this is a BAD kid.she should dump him right on the spot! call the cops or somethin', this guy is goin' DOWN!
what kind of bitch doesn't even listen to her friend.this girl is putting her "BF" whom she's know for only 3 weeks in front of her friends whom she's known for OVER 3weeks?!
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please help me. im 14 and when i was 9 my mum left me and i was left with my dad but my dad blaimed me and he started hitting me and then he has been taken to court but he wont get sent to prison because i cant give evidence because i cut myself and im 'suicidal' so they say im mentally unstable what shall i do i want to die and im scared. (link)
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...i can only imagine the pain you feel. what kind of shitty parent treats their child like that,huh?! go ahead and leave him! go live with another family member or friend who actually cares about you.
sorry if i sound kinda tense but i'm at maximum rage right now after hearing this...
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16. (link)
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ok, talk to him about this and try to talk more. he's not worth it if he just ignores you.tell him to get another girl who is comfortable with this kinda stuff.not the best advice but don't blame me, i'm just 13...
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okay, i know everybody says your beautiful no matter what, but i dont feel that way. I feel as though im an ugly duckling. i mean im fat, ugly and i just dont feel like i am beautiful. If anyone has any tips on how i can feel more better about myself..then please help!! Cause i dont feel good..i feel alone & i feel like killing myself but i wont. (link)
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everyone is beutiful in their own way. whether it's appearances, or spirit. i think that everyone feels like this sometimes. i feel like i'm the ugliest person in the world but i know that i'm still beautiful in my own way.i hope i helped,feedbacks please.
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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it (link)
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Same here, I hate guys, or so I think...well, guys can be like that some times so i just ignore it. My parents say that's natural for a growing girl like me and that I'll eventually grow out of it. Don't let it get to you so much.
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I am a very shy, quiet person. I guess that you could also say that I am also somewhat of a geek... I kinda live on the computer... but. I have two friends, and don't get me wrong, I love them and appreciate them soooo much! But neither of them go to my church. The kids at my church are very rude and mean to me. They always leave me out. I am the outcast. I hate it! I mean, I am too shy to do anything about it, but I can't stand them just being so rude! I sit by myself, I talk to myself, I am always by myself because they are so mean! They make fun of me and stuff all the time! I don't care what they say, I have learned to let it bounce off. But I still don't have friends at my church. I also dress differently. I am very self conscious, and I can't help it. I dress in non-form fitting clothes, and I don't wear skirts. I don't put myself out there. I don't have a b/f. I do have a lot of family/home problems, that kindof makes me really quiet and insecure. Am I being too shy and quiet? What are some ways to get over being so insecure? Is there a way to get over self consciousness? I have several mental blocks against : guys, men, letting my hair down, form fitting clothes, and large crowds. I know that I can't get over some of it because of my home life. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry that it was this long, but I had to make myself clear. (link)
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Just act the way you are right now. I mean, if people can't like you for who u are then who needs them. They aren't the only people in the world. They are the kind of people who aren't willing to make a change. They like everyone who are EXACTLY like them such as wearing a skirt, or wearing their hair down(don't feel lonely, I hate skirts and wearing my hair down too).I hope I helped...
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My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :) (link)
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Well, first of all, when U get the chance then as him what he meant by "his" girl(s). Second, I think he was trying to make an impression or get your attention by walkng right past U with the two girls. And third, i give and get advice myself:)
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In school theres this kid who is always annoys me and when im around this guy I have A HUGE crush on he always say SHE LIKES YOUUU!! practicily screaming! I feel so embarassed and mad at this idiot. Before winter break let out about a week ago I told him he was a dirty bastard and to never talk to me again since then he hasnt but he keeps coming on to my friend and hes being REALLY PEVERTED and saying peverted things to her? What do I do? (link)
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PERVERT!PERVERT!
Ok...ahem...tell the guy to mind his own damn business. Threaten him or even better, do what I do and blackmail him. Blackmailing mayB pure evil but it always works for me.hope I helped.
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My boyfriend is absolutely the bestest person in the world. I don't love him yet seen as I'm only 14 and we've only been dating now for about a month and 3 days. But still, he always hangs up on me when we get into stupid arguements. He pranked me the other day with his friend, which I knew was him and I asked him about it and he called me a stupidass bitch!! I hung up on him and left a message on his voicemail saying I didn't want to date anymore. But we're still dating. I dont know whats wrong with me. I told him I hate when he says mean things to me and when he hangs up but he still does it. I can't break up with him either because no matter what I do I always tend to run back to him because I think I need him in my life. He means so much to me and I don't want to lose him. This is the longest relationship I've ever had in my life. And I don't know. What should I do? (link)
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OH HELL!!! IF I HAD A BF WHO DID THAT TO ME, I'LL KICK HIS ASS SO HARD...sorry for the language but i can't stand to see a girl being treated like that. Well, when a guy treated me like that, I kicked his pranking, lying, hairy ass! Well, all I can say to conclude all this is to dump him...I am only 13 and U R 14 so we have our whole lives to choose the right guy.
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Okay, there is this teacher at school that I feel very close to, she is amazing and helps me all of the time with my problems, i think of her as a mom. I spend all of my study hall time with her because its her free period. I call her at home all of the time and we talk and joke around. I am 16 (17 in feb) and she is 26, i call her by her first name and we are really good "friends". I am going through a rough time with my mom and may be going into foster care, well, she said if that happens i can live with her. AM I weird for being this close to a teacher? (link)
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I don't think that's weird. She cares about U. If I had a teacher that was that close to me, boy, I would never want to change anything. well, that's just me and i have my reasons. I think U should enjoy being friends with a teacher that really wants to care for U.
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I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.
twin delama (link)
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hmm...i curse but i'm breaking away from the habit so i thnk i can help. Try to tell your parents or some guardian to help U wit your problem. myB they'll try to get your brother away from them.
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