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Well Hey hey howdy ho! My name is Bryndon. Yes, I know its spelled weird but its pronounced like Brendan. I like Basketball, Soccer, Football, Baseball and I'm a die hard Oklahoma State fan. I'm not really popular but I'm not really unpopular either. I'm just one of those people in the middle with a bunch of friends. Trust me, when your in the middle, you have more friends then ANYBODY! I like to be in productions. Musicals, Plays, Whatever it is, I'll be in it. I just got done in Once on This Island and hope to do like 100 more plays and musicals in my life. Ask for any type of advice and I'll try my best to answer them. Hosta la bye bye
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Hey guys. Okey so i tried typing this into a online translator but the sentence gets all screwed up..and it's not like its a homework or anything..i want to let this guy i like know that i like him. And i thought it would be cute to do it in french since that's how we met..he was tutoring me :) anyway this is hwta i'd like translated : Iäm writing to let you know that i can't stop thinking about you. You are constantly on my mind. You are a unforgettable person with an amazing personality. I'd never be able to describe what i like about you..because that would take me forever.
Can anyone translate that?
Or does anyone know something else you could say in french? THANK YOU soo sooo sooo incredibly much.
Lots of love :D (link)
J'écris vous fais savoir que je ne puis pas cesser la pensée à vous. Vous êtes constamment sur mon esprit. Vous êtes unforgettable avec une personnalité étonnante. Je pourrais ne jamais décrire ce que j'aime au sujet de vous parce que cela me prendrait pour toujours.

Hope I helped. Good luck!


does anyone know any very funny movies for teens? thanks i rate. (link)
Napoleon Dyanmite
Anchorman
Dodgeball
Eurotrip
Wedding Crashers
Scary Movie 1,2,3
Pirates of the Carribean
Monty Python movies
School of Rock
Pretty much anything like that



does anyone know how to make icons?? is there a program er something?? any ideas??

thanks!!!!!!! (link)
You can make funny icons at http://www.buddyiconbuilder.com/


what does 143 mean? (link)
I Love You


My dad has blood cancer and has been in the hospital for the past 6 months. His whole family is basically just waiting for him to die so they can get his money. None of them have even visited him in the hospital in the whole 6 months. Actually, his brother did--on his birthday. It's my mom's family that has been there for us and my dad. They don't want anything from my dad.


Everyone has been telling my mom to not even give them the chance at my dad's money if, god forbid, anything should happen to him. But we don't know if there is any legal way we can keep them from getting anything. Does anyone have any knowledge of this or any ideas?
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Do you have a will for him? If you do:

When a person dies and leaves a Will, the executor named in the will must apply to Supreme Court for a grant of probate. A grant of probate is a decision by the Probate Division of the Supreme Court that the Will is properly made and was intended by the testator to be their last Will and Testament. The application is made on a standard form ("Common Form"), and this is available from the Probate Division of the Supreme Court.

http://www.equalityrules.info/guide/deathinherit.htm#top

Please rate


OK,
So next year I'll be trying out for High School and I play all positon's including goalie. And to be on the High School team and to go farther in life playing soccer I really need to find a position and work on it really hard. I just can't choose. Foward I love but I don't really have good endurance but I have speed and a hard kick. Midfield I'll always be moving and usually touching the ball but once again i don't really have the endurance for it. Defence I love too there's nothing really anything bad I can say about that. Then goalie I love to be goalie espically when I save the ball and everyone cheers (lol duh) but then i hate it because feel like I let my whole team down. Well i just can't decied what position to play and work on. What position would the High School probably need?

Thanks, sorry for the length (link)
Well I don't think you should be goalie cause if yo ever do miss a ball and let a goal be scored you will feel bad about yourself. I think you should be Center Defense. I play that and goalie, but for defense you need a hard kick, speed, and you need to know how tyo play all spots of defense to direct other people. But I think the perfect position for you would be Center Defense. Hope this helped. Good Luck! Please rate.


How can I bulid up my arm strength so I can throw the ball farther? (link)
push-ups, pull-ups, lift weights, practice throwing the ball and use a punching bag. Thats what I do. I play goalie and I can throw it further than half field.


okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied. (link)
Don't show off or anything just be yourself (not the self that hates talking to boys but you know what I mean) Yeah if you talk to him face to face he might like you. It seems kind of akward but usually it will work. Just tell him that you like him face to face and don't tell one of your friends to do it. Try and conquer your fear of talking to boys and just go do it. If he says he doesnt like you, it might be akward to see him after that but just think to yourself you tried and thats all I can do. If you need more advice, talk to me again. Hope my advice works. Good Luck!


There was this guy that I was sort of friends with. We weren't that close, and I had a little crush on him. Well, things fly around my school really fast obviously, and he found out. Now he doesn't talk to me. What should I do? (link)
Well first of all, dont go goth cause there was this one girl at my school who liked me and thought very icky things and now it seems like shes going goth or something like that. Yes well go talk to him in the hallway (or if you have any classes with him do it there) and tell him "I know you know I like you but can you please talk to me cause you are hurting my feelings." Don't say it snotty though cause boys would usually laugh at that if it was snotty. Yes, he would probably talk to you if you went and talked to him face to face. Hope my advice helps. If I didn't answer your question enough just email me at Cdefense15@aol.com. Good Luck!


O.K.
I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
I rate high! (link)
How about a story about a collage student trying out for a sport with low grades. Her parents won't let her join if they dont get their grades up. While going to the tryouts she gets in a carcrash. Think of some more stuff to pt into that topic and if i think of anything else ill comment again. Good Luck!


I've been having alot of problems with my life latley ; and it's all starting to really weigh me down.
1) I was diagnosed with scoliosis the other week. Now I might have to get a brace or even surgery.
2) Today I went to the dentist to get my gums checked out before I got braces on. Turns out my lower gums are weak and I need surgery to fix them. Then I need two permenant teeth pulled then I will finally get my braces on.

3) I'm going to be kicked off of the cheerleading squad cause I will be missing 7 games during my recovery from the surgery. I will also miss several practices with my every other week check-ups on my back.

4) My dad's getting a pay cut in 2 weeks.

5) We're moving.

Since my dad is getting a paycut ; we are watching our budget. Now that I have all these surgerys, and other problems, I will cost my parents over $8,000 in treatments ; check ups ; and surgeries. My mom is constantly reminding me that I'm the one thats costing them so much money. There is nothing I can do about it though! I didn't purposley screw up my back. I didn't all the sudden decided I want weak gums to have to get surgery and cost them thousands of dollars. What do I dO ? I can't take the guilt and pain. The Surgerys are scaring me half to death, my mom isn't helping, and all of my families troubles are my fault. Help is appreciated .. if it's not to much to ask. (link)
Holy crap I'm so sorry. I feel really bad and I really feel that if I could donate some money to you I would. Oh wow.... Yeah maybe try to work someplace that doesnt require much work but you can still earn money. Also talk to like a school consuler or something about these problems. Im soooo sorry


one of 'system of a downs' songs is called B.Y.O.B what does that stand for/mean? (link)
Bring Your Own Bombs and other stuff


There is this really beutiful, really nice girl at my school. I really like her but I don't know if she likes me back. I got her phone number and called her a few times, but she could just be being nice. How can I tell if she likes me back. She looks at me alot and I look at her alot. But I still can't tell. How can I tell????!!!!!! (link)
You can't really tell off of anything. You wouldn't wan't to try because if you were wrong and you spread a rumor that she liked you she could... well yeah... You should just go confront her and then ask her out. I don't think you are shy and if you think she likes you you should go tell her that you like her or ask her out. I hope this advice helps. Good Luck!


hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachotehr? (link)
Hmmmm... This is a hard one, but just ask your friend what he would think of someone more than a year older than his sister to go out with her. What I think might happen is that if you don't ask him before then he will be in disbelieve and then accept it later on. Even though hes protective, you are his friend and he trusts you so he will learn to live with it. If you ask him before, then he will feel more trust because you asked him first to see if that is okay. I think that either way would be a win situation so just go ahead and pick one. I hope this works out for you. Good Luck!


i want to lose about 20 pounds. how do i do this? what is the best way? what to eat and what not to eat? im a very lazy person. i need motivation and i need actual exercizes and plans. if someone could write out a day by day plan for me i would appreciate it! THANKS! (link)
If you want to loose 20 pounds, you just need to eat healthy and exercise. You need to limit yourself from eating junk food. Eat it sparingly or maybe don't eat it at all. I know people can be tempted to not eat junk food sparingly, but just try to stay away from it. You need to eat healthy things. For school lunch, try some fruit and vegitables everyday and try to get the main food with the least fat in it. Also, in gym class, don't be the one who talks to friends instead of playing the game. Participating in gym can help a lot. While you are at home try not to stay on the computer all the time. Go outside once in a while maybe play some basketball on a neighbor's hoop. If you really want to be on the computer, every ten minutes of using it, try to go do 20 sit-ups or 10 push-ups and get back on. If you can follow these instructions and do even more healthy things than I told you to do, then you'll feel confident and proud of your body. But even now don't think that you need to lose 30 or more pounds. You are only 14 and if you lose that much weight it could stop your growing for a while and do other harmful things to you. Heres a Daily workout plan for right before you go to bed:

Sunday: 30 push-ups + 40 sit-ups
Monday: 40 sit-ups + Run around the block or run on the treadmil (If you have one)
Tuesday: 30 Push-ups + 50 Crunches
Wednesday: 15 Pull-ups + 40 Sit-ups
Thursday: Run Around the Block + 50 Crunches
Friday: 15 Pull-ups + 30 Push-Ups
Saturday: 40 Sit-ups + Jump for 5 Minutes

Each Week you do this increase each activity by one (40 sit-ups and then 41 sit-ups) Drink plenty of water while working out.

I hope this works for you. Good Luck!


i need lyrics on missing your best friend. mine moved away onlye liek a town over but we kinda lost touch and now she must moved back to our school and i just want a quote to show her to make her realize that we were best friends and we had the best of times and now look and how much i missed it all (link)
I think the lyrics:

"You were the one who made things different, you were the one who took me in. You were the one thing I could count on, above all, you were my friend."
- Tom Petty

would be good to give her. Hope this works. Good luck!


hey i have a question for all guys: are guys turned off by big feet? i wear a size 8 1/2, and so i was just wondering. thx for all answers, i'll give all NICE answers 5s! ♥ (link)
No almost all boys wouldn't be turned off by big feet, and your feet aren't big. I know a girl who has size 13 shoes and a lot of people like her. Yeah 8 1/2 isn't big or small. I'm a guy and I have 11 1/2 but yeah big or small feet don't matter.


I like this guy but he doesn't talk to me. He pretends that I don't even exist. What should I do? (link)
Confront him. Ask him why he doesn't talk to you. Ask if you can be friends. Tell him you really want to be and that you feel hurt the you aren't yet. As time passes and you become better friends, ask him if he likes you and tell him your affection to him. If he isn't stuck up and isn't self-centered, he'll probably be nice to you. All boys like it when they hear a girl like them. And if you tell them face to face it makes the chance that he would like you better. Hope this works out for you. Good luck!


okay I like this guy and we weren’t really in a relationship but we both liked it each other and we told each other we had feelings for each other and we hung out and everyone thought that he liked me and I thought so too since he even told me and my best friend he also had a cute nickname for me L and then we just stopped talking he hasn’t said anything about me to he’s friends and I know this but I still like him and there’s so many feelings I have for him is that normal that I care that much for him and we were never even together and what should I do? be completely honest!!

Ill rate 5’s!!


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Well this has happend to me before even though I was on the completly other end of where you are. Yes, start out with just a normal convosation and then after maybe 3 minutes of talking and stuff just ask why he hasn't talked to you for a while. Then if he explains to you in a positive answer then tell him you still kind of like him. Trust me, I'm a guy. You were never together and so that doesn't mean if you started to go out you wouldn't be hooking up again. If he used to kinda like yo then there is almost no chance that he wouldn't ask you out right there. Hope this helped. Good Luck!


hey ok probably everybody has figured this out but me...lol but thats alrite wats a PSP?? wat is it and wat does it stand for...plz dont be mean:D (link)
Play Station Portable.




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