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Well first off- I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend Logan*(both turning 14 soon). Well me & Logan will be going out for two months next friday and that weekend I'm going to the beach with him and his family. He really wants to have sex & I do too- but..I'm kind've scared because what if the condom breaks? I really don't want to be pregnant. & I'm not sure if it will hurt or not. Like will I be sore the next day? But I do want to do it & plus if I say no he'll probably get upset. Ahh. Help me please (link)
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wow sweetheart your way to young. I am not trying to offend you because i am 16 and i am young as well. But you guys really should not do it... You said in the column above it that he hides you from his ex. Well sweety thats telling you something. I have been going out with my bf for almost 2 years and we still havnt. If you two both want to. I guess that is your choice, but if i were you i would wait. everyone says losing your virginity is a huge step. But they are not exaggerating. Need to talk more just message me.
-kaitlyn
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There is this guy. We have never actually talked in person but he instant messaged me and we got to talking. We talked for a while and he told me a secret. A huge secret. I have never been told such a big secret before. Now it is incredibly weird around him at school. I fell like i know him so well but yet I dont. It is so awkward. We dont really talk anymore but knowing that I know his secret is just weird. I am the only one that he ever told. I cant even talk to him unless it is over a instant messenger. How do i make this situation not awkward. (link)
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I wanna know the secret!!!
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hi...im 16/f
here's my problem...im dating this guy named john and hes very nice, caring, sweet...i like him very much but the only problem is that his 7 years older than me...hes 23 yrs old,is it ok if hes older than me? (link)
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yeah i dont see anything "weird" or "wrong" in your relationship with him. I am 15 and it might seem "bad" but i havnt gone out with a guy my age for like 2 years. My boyfriend right now is 22 (almost 23). He is the only one I think I could ever be with again. We have been dating for almost a year. We even picked out are wedding date last night. Septemeber 11, 2010. It has been a hard thing for my friends to deal with. My mom thinks we are only friends. But if you really like him. Its a good person to have around. And 7 years isn't far away. Arnt girls supposed to be 7 years maturer? lol.. Good Luck
x33 K.B.
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yesterday was me and Scott's one month! but we didn't get to see each other...do you guys think you can date someone who you never get to see? i mean does it work? i have only seen him once since we've been dating. i hate it because his parents hate me and my parents hate him because of what happened this summer...and so we have to sneak around all the time..i hate it so much. and all his little friends hate me because of rumors people started about what happened this summer so like none of his friends know were dating i hate hiding it he says he loves me but i don t want to be a secret you know? if he really loved me like he said he would tell his friends..right? i mean i don t know i am so confused i want people to know were dating i mean i love his so much and I've told all my friends were dating...i don't want to be his secret you know? i haven't talked to him about it and i know if i did he would just get mad..so what should i do i need some good advice xox
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Okay sweetheart.. Ummm... Yeah I have a boyfriend that I have been going out with now for 10 1/2 months. And yeah none of his friends know. There is a reason they dont know but I wont discuss it lol. I feel like that I am not good enough for them to know who I am but like it is weird. Only my "closest" friends know who he is and my mom does because she has only caught us talking. He lives over like 200 miles away and I never get to see him. I didn't even talk to him on our 10 month. It was just really awkward. But yeah I guess when everything blows up and no one even cares anymore you guys can "be together".. Just when your 18 get married have kids and live together hahahahahhaa...
x33 Kady-May
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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment (link)
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okay sweetheart I am not saying that it was a "bad" idea to have sex at such a young age. Because I am 15 and I did a couple weeks ago too. I was really scares also because I was supposed to get my period last week. My mom has been on my case cause I didn't get it yet. But then I got my period this morning. It was a relief. Just wait for awhile until 1 or 2 weeks after your missed period (if you have one) and then (i know this is a really scary thought to think of but,) just go to your mom or dad. I know it sounds like a scary thing to go to your parents about this subject but they will understand eventually. They were your age once.
your welcome :D..
x33 Kady-May
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Ok, so schools out and I'm really bored...Where are some fun places to hang out /fun things to do, etc during the summer? (link)
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Ur lucky school's out.. I got like a week and a 1/2
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I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)? (link)
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I heard nail polish remover.. but Idk if I am right
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well, if i try going out with him or talking to him at school or over the phone, he'll probably tell his friends, who make fun of me... then HIS friends will tell all the "popular" girls, who LOVE to make fun of me, and i wouldn't know what to do?? HELP!!!!!!!
-i want to have a guy to love on (link)
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You know what... dont give a fuck what everyone else thinks.. if you like this guy then go for it.. (i am popular) I wouldn't make fun of you for liking a guy.. and it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks thats them.. you should think about what you think instead of caring what everyone else thinks...
Kaydee
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My best friend is with my X-BOYFRIEND! They've been going out for almost a year and a half, and im still REALLY jelous... i have a crush on another guy at my school
how can i get a boyfriend??
-i want to have a guy to love on (link)
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Well having a bf is GREAT.. cause you always feel loved and yada yada lol.. But being single is also good.. But if you "NEED" a bf then try and fine one.. Maybe you should just be independent for a while.. Let a guy find you.. If u like this one guy call him ask him to hang out or just talk to him for a while.. I hope things work out.. email me or write me back -Kaydee
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Has anyone ever been in a depressed mood for no reason? (link)
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I am always depressed and I hate it.. I have nightmares about killing myself all the time and sometimes I actually try.. I make things that are so simple become life threatening.. if u ever wanna talk to me just im me or email me.
~Kaydee~
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okay i have a problem, but its not mine, its my friends. my friend has been talking to this person on AOL instant messanger for about a week. let's call my friend Bob and let's call who he's been talking to Mary (not real names) Bob is one of my BEST friends in the whole world. he tells me that Mary and him are really getting along and that she always says how she loves him, even though they've only been talking for a week. he isnt sure if he's scared of her or anything, but he told me that he thinks she's sort of like a stalker and you know stuff like that. theres two ways he can go about letting her go:
1) just telling her to stop being so obessive
2) be a jerk and maybe she'll stop liking him
he doesnt want to do #1 because it would most likely hurt her a lot. but i dont think he should do #2 because thats dishonest and mean. please help!!! what should he do?
thanks so much!! and if you have anyother questions, ask me and i'll give you my email (link)
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ok well if ur friend thinks she is being obsessive he could block her and in a couple weeks unblock her and if she says something about him not beign online for a while and he could make up a lie but that would be lying... there is really no way of getting out of it but lying and like I always say lying makes a problem of the future but telling the truth makes a problem of the past... so he could just tell her the truth and she would prolly be mad at him so much she wouldn't talk to him lol..
~Kaydee~
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i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out? (link)
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Well you prolly could do the whole flirt shit but I just think you should ask him out.. TO HIS FACE.. A note, a phone call, an email, or an im is just an easy way for him to say no faster... Just ask him straight to his face and if he says no dont walk away just say some stuff and tell him u will talk to him later... Hope I helped your girl ~Kaydee~
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Hey, well i like this guy, and he knows, and he seems not to care. but i have liked this guy for ages. but see, because he knows, he doesn't act ne different, like in a away that he wouldn't like me like him... I jus need to know wat to do.. help (link)
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ummm.. maybe he is just playing hard to get.. or maybe he doesn't want you to like him.. if I knew who you were it would be easier.. and if you went to my school.. so if you do just im me and tell me about it.. it would be a lot easier... hint around ask ur friends if they know.. thanks good luck -Kaydee
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Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy? (link)
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Tell your boy that if you wanted to be with the other guys you would have been with them already.. if he is one to get jelous then just spend a lot of time with him.. make him know how u feel about him.. hope i helped
-Kaydee
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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate (link)
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Omg just tell them to shut the fuck up.. If they call you it again just act like you are.. People are so jelous of everyone its weird what they would do for attention.. if your friends are calling you this would you put them under the "FRIEND" catagory.. I wouldn't.. hope it helped u hun.. Kaydee
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation? (link)
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If i were you I would give my self some time to mend.. if you had your heartbroken it is going to take a while for you to have REAL feelings with a guy.. but if you really dont wanna break it off with him, then get together and talk about what you are looking for out of the relationship.. I hope it works.. -Kaydee
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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha! (link)
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ok I bet everyone that answers your question is going to say break it off with him but no.. I was off and on with a guy 6 times and all we needed was a break... Im not with him now because of stuff but yeah.. Call him or meet him somewhere and ask him how he feels about you.. If he says he still likes you then ask him if you guys went out what he would promise (like no cheating, lying, ect.) Good luck keep me posted.. -Kaydee
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I want to workout my legs. i have no idea how though. im not even sure how to do squats right. pleez help! ( i also want ot kno a website that tells you if u are underweight/overweight... i used to have it but i lost it) (link)
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Ok i dont know if you get this magazine but in Seventeen's new magazine for February (with Jaimie Lynn Spears on the cover) it tells you what weight you should be at I dont have it with me I am sorry but u could pick up a copy... thanks good luck Kaydee
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Ok I have a question?? I was at this party... and this guy was there and he waited until I was all messed up. I fell asleep and he woke me up and all the sudden I feel an arm goin around me! He wouldn't stop touching me when I told him to. I tried to move but he wouldn't let me! I told my friend and stuff and then I talked to his girlfriend about it and she doesn't believe me!! And then a couple days later I found out he was labeled as a sex offender before!! I wouldn't let anyone call the police cuz I didn't want to get involved in that! Now,to tell you he was 20 and I am 15 and the sick part is he was like my brother, he was a family friend and was always there for me. Tell me how come I miss him and still cry about what happened. Will someone please tell me what to do and I rate high! THANKS (link)
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Well if he didn't respect your answer of "NO" the he doesn't respect you.. Im sorry but I would want nothing to do with him any more.. if his girlfriend didnt believe u who cares she prolly believes you just doesn't want that to be the truth so she denys it.. if you are worried about him DOING OTHER STUFF I would seek some help like a school counselor your parents or just a friend to talk to. if you dont want the police to get involved then just threaten him and tell him if he does it again you will call the police.. sorry hun write me if u need too -Kaydee
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I dont get it, i have friends at school but on friday nights im always home or at a cheering game, my life is so boring and now that its 2005 I want to make it exciting. Everytime im on aim all of my friends away messages are up saying that they are at one anothers house. Should i maybe invite them somewhere so that I can start hanging out too? What if they already have plans, then what do I do? I need to get out more and spend time with teh people I want to spend time with. Im always hanging with guys or talking to them, im not a slut or anything just siometimes they are more fun to talk to. (link)
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Well I am having the same problems.. All I did was tell a couple of my friends that i think we should hang out more.. they agreed and now its going good.. I hope u have fun write back to me
-Kaydee
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