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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.
always- scared.confused.
First of all, chill out. Don't worry so much about it because stress can cause your period to start much later then its supposed to. Second of all, you don't have to tell your parents if you prefer not to. Go to a local clinic that is confidential and get checked and get the morning after pill. You can get it within two days after having unprotected sex(or in your case, ripped condom). Only problem is, you have to pay around fifty dollars for it. If you don't have the money, then you're probably going to have to tell your parents so they can take you to get it. Good luck and i hope i helped. Tell me how things go.
Ok..i like this guy we have been dating for like 2 months, today in fact, but i like this other guy..plus my boyfriend keeps talking to his ex-girlfriends, he says he likes me but i cant help thinking that somethings going on....so should i just leave him and go with another guy or should i stay with him, honestly i think someones going to get hurt either way.
To be honest, I don't think you really trust him. It's really hard to have a relationship when you don't have much trust. And if you're into another guy, I'd say you go single and just date around. That way, you don't have to worry about being loyal and worry about your man having anything to do with other girls behind your back.
I love my boyfriend to death but lately he's kinda I don't know how to say it. He's got this little mustache thingy and his hair needs cut and he doesn't wear cologne. How can I tell him about this without hurting him?
You shouldn't have to hide anything from him. Point in a relationship is that you two are able to open up to each other and be honest. He's your man and you're the one who looks at him, so I would say your opinion matters most. Tell him, you respect his style but really prefer him with shorter hair and a clean face. He'll understand, guys are easier to deal with when it comes to being honest with their looks. He shouldn't take it personal. Now, with the cologne problem, buy him a cologne of your choice and just act like you saw it and really liked the scent so you wanted him to try it out.
This is going to seem really ridiculous, and I am sorry for asking such a stupid question. I'm too insecure for my own good sometimes, I think.
I'm meeting my boyfriend for the first time ever in 3 days time and we're picking him up at the airport really early in the morning. I want to look my best for him. I never look really good in the mornings; so I'm just wondering where there's anything I can do the night before to make sure I wake up and look and feel nice and fresh. Is there any creams or exfoliation that i should use for my skin, or anything? Should i get up early? Thanks.
Wake up early and go out running for a little. It'll help you wake up so you don't look so tired. Then go take a shower and wash your face with any face wash of your choice. Make sure you use moistorizer and if you don't have any get some tonight. Neutrogena is my favorite, so i suggest you get that. It helps even out your skin color and makes your face look alive instead of dull and dry. Then you could try putting on foundation to help you look better. Definately go to sleep early so you can get enough sleep to look awake the next morning. Hope i helped.. let me know how it goes. :)
is it alright to have a crush on an actor as long as you dont go bananas??? like a small one not too serious??? i feel guilty because i do>>>> sorry that this question is properly punctuated> the shift key has suddenly been deactivated
:) hollis
hahaha of course it is. it's not like you're going to go rape them or anything. a lot of people have major crushes on celebrities which is totally normal. there are just some really good looking people at there, and you can't help it if one of them happens to be a celebrity. don't feel guilty.. you're just being like every other normal female!
im 14/f - 5.5 - 115 - i think im totally fat! i cant help it.. and the problem is .. is my hips!! and that leads to my theighs!! omg i hate them soo muchh!! my hips stick out soo muchh! and my friends are all flat on the side! and i think my theighs are huge! but they arent that big.. but the thing is .. is when i wear jeans my hips stick out alot!! and it looks like my legs/theighs are huge! and i hate it alot. i wear a size 16 in abercrombie & fitch .. and a 1 or 2 in other stores.. and i think im soo fat!! can someone please help mee!! i give 5's !! =]
I'M GOING TO SHOOT YOU! trust me, you are not fat at all. that is the perfect weight for a 14 year old who is 5'5. and don't worry about your hips.. trust me there are girls who would do anything to have them! i have no hips whatsoever and i would love to have hips! so don't wish them away, just be happy with what you got and learn to appreciate them and your whole body. if you wear a 1 or 2 in other stores and a 16 in abercrombie and fitch, your hips are obviously not THAT big. it takes time and confidence to feel comfortable in your own body, but you need to start appreciating it now!
need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high
if you are responsible, i say you get a puppy. it's a lot of hard work though because you have to take care of him, feed him, give him attention, etc. if you don't want to deal with that kind of responsiblity get a lap top, but i honestly don't think you need one because you obviously have some kind of way to get on the internet.
is a 1/2 inch alot to grow in a year? im 14 - and someone has told me that you stop growing when ur around 18.
you don't necessarily stop growing when you turn 18 but puberty is supposed to stopped at around that time. it is still possible to stop growing at a younger age! i've been 5'1 since I was in 7th grade and I'm in 10th now. It's nothing bad, it's totally normal, but yeah I would say 1/2 is alot to grow in one year.. well compared to nothing.
ok... i have this really close guy friend of mine... and hes going out with one of my one of my other really great gurl friends.. and she doesnt really like him... and she told me this.. wat am i supposed to do?
well tell your guy friend! you don't want him to keep going for this girl when nothing is going to happen, and trust me, i'm pretty sure he would want to know. the longer you wait, the harder it will be and he'll be hurt worse.
Hey im 14 and i really enjoy having girl friends not just for the kissing and stuff(dont get me wrong i think its nice) just for someone to like alot and talk to alot and do stuf with! What are some ways to get someone???
well when you meet girls, make sure you look at the things you normally wouldn't look at.. as in personality. comment on how great her personality is, instead of how hott she is. that'll get her going and let her know you're interested in who she is. just make sure you let a girl know you like her for the right reasons, and i'm sure she'll like you for the right reasons too.
i really really like this guy, so how do i get him to ask me out??
you can't really get a guy to ask you out, but if you tell him you like him, then that's giving him a hint that you are available! if he likes you and knows you like him, there's a possiblity that he may ask you out! just don't hide how you are feeling or make him think you don't like him(don't play hard to get, guys hate that).
There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner?
a kiss doesn't necessarily mean he wants your benefits. a kiss is just one of those ways to help one another realize they are interested. if ya'll keep kissing and nothing between ya'll has happened, then maybe he does want your benefits. talk to him and tell him how you feel! be careful what you say, because he can ask you out and go out with you for your benefits. don't make it seem that easy. i say you stop kissing him and wait to see if something happens. if it happens then it's meant to be, and he really is interested in you for who you are, but if nothing happens then he obviously only wanted your benefits.
I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions?
i say you go for ben, because it seems like you have a better chance with him, since he already knows you like him! caleb on the other hand, i don't think you should go for. if he has ignores you around his friends, that is not a good sign. just find out how ben feels about you, and if he doesn't feel anything for you, then you can go to caleb. just do what your heart tells you to, cause no one else can give you a real answer for this problem.
ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time and im soo in love with him and he says hes so in love with me, but lately he has been acting a lot different to me and he says he is just stressed out about everything like school and stuff but i know its more. then last thursday to friday he was with his friend chase the whole time and literally called me 1 time out of two days and that 1 time lasted like 5 seconds like he didnt have any time for me at all. then friday night i dont talk to him like all night and the next morning he calls me and says he has cheated on me! that he didnt mean to do it his friends kept pressuring him and he was so sorry. he was literally like balling to me n the phone. now i really dont know what to do.. im so confused. im still so in love with him though and he says he wants to be together so bad. he doesnt know what he was thinkning and that his friends kept bugging him to do it. he calls me all the time now and says those friends that made him doo it( i know friends cant make you do anything ) but he said those people are not his friends anymore and he will never talk to them again and the girl he cheated on me with hates him. and i still really want to be with him, and i know thats really stupid.. but its true! can you please help me out and give me so advice.
you can't help that you want to get back together with him. you do love him after all right? well, you are right, friends can't make you do anything! if you truly don't want to do something they are forcing you to do, you will have the guts to say no. have ya'll been going through alot of problems lately? well, it's normal to go through problems in a relationship but if it's been going on for a long time and very often then that isn't normal. being cheated on hurts and some girls don't ever go back out with a guy after him doing that to her, even if it was an "accident". (you can't ever cheat on someone on "accident"). it's up to you if you give him one more chance, or if you don't. if you do, make sure he doesn't do it again, and if he does then i honestly don't think ya'll should be together. anyone can make anything work, it just takes effort and honesty. do you still trust him? trust is a big thing in a relationship so make sure he gets it back!
well see the thing is that me n my girl have been together for a long time and lately i havent been to happen. lik when i am with her i have fun most of the time but when im not with her im just not happen. i dont really know what to do any more. i have just been going with the flow of things for about a week now. and i do love her. its just that most of the time im not happen and things are just so hard and im gettin tired of things please help me! i rate high!
just keep going with the flow.. things don't happen in a day. it takes a while and you just have to keep doing your thing until you see what happens. if you have fun when you are with her, then that's really good, thats a sign that ya'll should be together! what makes you unhappy when you aren't with her? maybe you are just stressed out and she helps you keep your mind off of things when you are with her. just talk to her about how you feel because maybe she is feeling the same way? don't hide anything from her because you should let her know how you feel. and let her know what's making you unhappy when you aren't with her and she can probably do something about it.
Okay, here's where it starts... about a month ago, I hurt my foot on a friend's trampoline. I think I hurt that tendon (sp?) at the bottom of my foot. It hurt so bad. Now my foot is fine, but if I walk long distances, it hurts really bad! It doesn't really do that if I run (Unless I run a lot in a short period of time). Could I have messed up my foot somehow? And if so, what can I do? Thank you in advance!
go see a doctor silly! and do it as soon as you can, because if you don't do anything about it, it can get worse! and if you want it to get better, you will probably have to stop working out on it so much! it's going to suck, but wouldn't you much rather walk long distances without it hurting even if you have to sit around for a few days, then to keep walking long distances with a big pain in your foot? yeah.. well you definately need to see a doctor because it could be serious!
Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.
i go through the same thing and i'm as happy as can ever be.. it's just so much stress! even people who others think are perfect have their own problems. you can't help feeling empty but you can't put yourself down. cutting and snapping is hard to stop but it's possible. you should start by not doing those things anymore! it just piles up depression and makes you feel a billion times worse afterwards (it may make you feel relieved in the moment, but it only makes things worse later on). if you need help with quiting, you NEED to get help. you should see a counselor or talk to your parents or your bf! you should be able to trust your bf and since he cares about you, he should be willing to help. do things that make you feel better and be more social. don't stay at home during the weekends, go out for a walk or hang out with your friends. do things that will keep your mind off of bad things, and it'll become a habbit! if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always im me because i definately know where you're coming from!
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when i was born i lived with my grandparents becasue my mom had a bad life. she sold drugs and lived in alot of places wich we not suitable for kids. and so when i was 2 my mom came to my house drunk and kidnapped me. my grandma didnt try to get me beacue my mom was way stronger then her and so she just let me go. * i dont live with my dad becasue when i was born i was a mistiake and my dad is a player* so my mom went to jail and some lady returnded me when my mom was gone *but now me and my mom are okay* . and so when i was 4 it was the FIRST time i ever saw my dad but i couldnt really see him becasue it was like 10 o clock at night and he didnt want to come inside. and after that visit from when i was 4 i counted the days weeks months hours years miutes and seconds from the last time i saw my father. and finally i saw my dad again when i was 10 and he expected me to act like nothing happened and he was like all can i have a hug blah blah blah and my grandpa told him that if he wanted to come that day he just cant leave me again and yes he did.. he didnt come back and i didnt hear from him or anything and im 13 and i havent heard from him in 3 years but its not like i want to or anything. i just have mixed emotions. and im the "tough" one at my school because i dont open up or talk about my feelings. well at night i dream about me and my sister haveing this "Perfect" family with my mom and my dad but then something happends to me and my dream shows a picture of my dad getting killed and my mom dying ( my sister has a different dad and i have like 3 other sisters that have different moms and i dont even know them) but after my dream i wake up with tears in my eyes and me all sweaty. but heres the thing.. i want my life to be good. but i dont want anything to do with my dad and my dad is gonna try and talk to me over the summer and my other grandmaw too but i just dont want to be a part of them. my questions are.. how can i tell them i dont want anything to do with them. and what do i do about these dreams, and how can i open up and talk about my feelings
sorry its long but ill rate 5's to any good answer
wow you have been through a whole lot! just let them know that you have been through enough and not seeing them would help you get on in life. tell them you do care about them but you just can't see yourself with them in the future, and it's only for the best. it'll be hard on you and them, but if you honestly don't want to be apart of them anymore, there is no better way. you have to tell them. about the dreams.. it is totally normal! you can't control them, they just happen! especially after seeing life the way you do. they will get better as things get better, because dreams are your conscience speaking! to open up and talk about your feelings to people, you have to know that you can't let everyone know your personal emotions. it's great to tell a few but not everyone. to those who you do talk to, make sure you TRUST them and know them well and really care about them! opening up won't be so hard if you are opening up to someone who makes you feel comfortable. talking about your feelings isn't easy and it takes time, but in the end it's all worth while. it makes you feel so much better! hope everything turns out okay.. you control your life and you make your own decisions, no one else should! just remember that! :)
Ok. So i met this kid at a show and we barely talked. But then he came over my friends house with my friend's boyfriend. He's basically really cool to me. Hes totally comfortable to do anything in front of people and is crazy and fun but calm at the same time. He's really nice also. Toward the middle of the night, My legs were over his lap and things like that. But toward the end of the night. But toward the end of the night I was laying on his chest and his arm was across my back/neck. Him and I apperently acorrding to our friends looked really cute together and we were like ok whatever. They wanted us to kiss but it was our first time acutally meeting so yea.
To get to the point..I think I like him but I'm not sure. I want to get to know him better but what if he ends up going out with someone else????
gosh there is nothing to worry about. it sounds like BOTH of you are into each other.. the only problem is, one of ya'll has to make a move! if you want something to happen between ya'll before any girl can interfer with ya'lls bond, i say you be the one to speak up. let him know that you like him and see what he says! stuff happens when you speak up.. so don't keep feelings inside!
Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance!
aw you shouldn't be ashamed of your eyes! it shows your individuality and it comes with your culture.. something you should be proud of! i know you may not be happy with how you look and trust me, everyone is like that. i'm sure there are girls out there who would die to have your eyes, so show them off and learn to love them! because they are pretty! well to give you the advice you are looking for, you can try using eye liner. usually eye liner makes your eyes look bigger! don't use it on the inside.. use it on the outside. and if that doesn't work, i honestly don't think there is any other way to make your eyes look bigger. it's just one of those things you can't control or change! im sorry and i hope i helped!