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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time and im soo in love with him and he says hes so in love with me, but lately he has been acting a lot different to me and he says he is just stressed out about everything like school and stuff but i know its more. then last thursday to friday he was with his friend chase the whole time and literally called me 1 time out of two days and that 1 time lasted like 5 seconds like he didnt have any time for me at all. then friday night i dont talk to him like all night and the next morning he calls me and says he has cheated on me! that he didnt mean to do it his friends kept pressuring him and he was so sorry. he was literally like balling to me n the phone. now i really dont know what to do.. im so confused. im still so in love with him though and he says he wants to be together so bad. he doesnt know what he was thinkning and that his friends kept bugging him to do it. he calls me all the time now and says those friends that made him doo it( i know friends cant make you do anything ) but he said those people are not his friends anymore and he will never talk to them again and the girl he cheated on me with hates him. and i still really want to be with him, and i know thats really stupid.. but its true! can you please help me out and give me so advice.
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you can't help that you want to get back together with him. you do love him after all right? well, you are right, friends can't make you do anything! if you truly don't want to do something they are forcing you to do, you will have the guts to say no. have ya'll been going through alot of problems lately? well, it's normal to go through problems in a relationship but if it's been going on for a long time and very often then that isn't normal. being cheated on hurts and some girls don't ever go back out with a guy after him doing that to her, even if it was an "accident". (you can't ever cheat on someone on "accident"). it's up to you if you give him one more chance, or if you don't. if you do, make sure he doesn't do it again, and if he does then i honestly don't think ya'll should be together. anyone can make anything work, it just takes effort and honesty. do you still trust him? trust is a big thing in a relationship so make sure he gets it back!
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