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Eyebrows
Why do girls care about eyebrows so much? If I like a girl, then I ain't gonna judge her by her eyebrows (unless she has a unibrow or unless she has "trendy" recent ones that look like they've been drawn on their face). Why do think that when they have eyebrows that look like they've been drawn on, that people will find them more attractive? It's like they're trying to avoid their eyebrows looking like they're made out of hair. I don't know 1 guy who'd care about their eyebrows. Girls also feel the need to colour them in. It's worse when they have,say,ginger hair, so obviously they're eyebrows should be ginger but when you see them they're black. And when they get their eyebrows done they're all like "Ooh, look at my natural look!" It doesn't look natural at all! Why do they feel the need to change their eyebrows? I used to never notice eyebrows but due to all the trends recently they're hard to miss.
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Okay, so I'm a girl that wears makeup and reading this makes me pissed, because we don't wear makeup to impress people, or guys, we wear it to impress ourselves. We don't really care if people think it's bad or not, as long as we're happy with it then that's really all that matters. So why don't you stop shaming girls that wear makeup?
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It's a trend makeup thing. Really it's just another competitive thing between women and a way to differ us from each other. But I myself like a pair of Nice eyebrows on a man or woman because they are a huge part of your facial features. Imagine all your crushes celeb wise and etc with no eyebrows just straight eyes and a nose. A pair of good eyebrows can actually enhance the beauty in someone's face and a not so good pair can make some one look sloppy or ungroomed
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First of all, girls often don't do things just to impress males. Eyebrows are something many people like to get done or fill in for themselves because that's how they like to look, not because they want to impress a man.
Eyebrows can make a big difference to one's face, and with all the articles about dark brows, and makeup coming out to achieve the look, it is easy to get caught up in it all and feel the need to fill in your eyebrows to get the look of full, dark brows.
I, personally don't find drawn-on eyebrows to look the most flattering either, it's just a trend that is passing through. Very thin eyebrows used to be a trend for a while, and now it's more dark thick brows that is desired by many.
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I know what you're talking about. My niece colors hers in jet black and its obviously painted on. My daugthers don't. They are more like me, used to the real natural look.
And it isnt just about eyebrows when it comes to looks. Impressionable younger people cave in so easily to the Media's representation of beauty or handsomeness that not just girls but guys too now worry about not looking good enough to be liked, accepted, stand out as odd or never find a date. This is evident even more so for teens who already suffer lots of self confidence and other related issues. Most often I hope that it is only a young persons experimenting, to feel accepted and that in time as they grow more self confident they will make some changes to how they present themselves. But quite often it hints at a deeper issue that doesnt go away as they get older and you find they have low self esteem and low confidence and no matter how much a male tells them they are pretty, beautiful, they don't believe him and still worry over their looks, weight, clothes, hair nails, makeup and more. I know its frustrating to men when the female can't acknowledge his true honest compliments over her looks, many prefer the 'natural look'. But think of it, males too have their insecurities when it comes to their penis. Is it long enough, wide enough and will it impress and pleasure a girl. Men will go thru some of the same lengths as females when it comes to that part of their anatomy. Fashion trends like the emphasis on brows all start with the media. Next time you're in the magazine aisle, take a peek at magazines targeted at young females and I'm sure you'll get the connection quickly. Even magazines for older women have nothing but page after page of ads on how to tone your skin, get rid of freckles or wrinkles, make your hair healthier with more shine and bounce, etc.... When we are so bombarded by ads on TV, radio and anywhere printed ones can go like on a bus, most people seeing all this end up doing exactly what the advertisers know. They see so much of something, whether good or bad that they get used to it, develop a tolerance or lets say an expectation that this is normal and if you don't meet that standard, no one will like you or find you sexy. Sex still sells and will to the end of time.
But there is hope for you. If you are one of the males who like the natural look, there are females who still live that way and are not mesmerized by fashion trends. Some come off as tomboyish but have a wonderful feminine side too if its allowed to come out on occasion. Don't overlook a gal simply cus she appears to be on the total opposite of the spectrum. Some females do not blossom and show their feminine side until they have a male who cares about them and compliments them. I have found through out my life that once people get past their angst ridden years and mature a bit, they begin to realize and develop their own taste in everything, not just foods and clothes, music, but in the opposite sex. I have seen couples where the man is a bean pole and in love with his very overweight female, or he's about 5 ft tall and shes 5'10, or I've seen the matches where the guy is muscled and looks like a male model and the gal doesn't look like a model or vice versa, the beauty queen type woman with a plain looking man. Personal taste isnt a bad thing, and it doesnt mean something is wrong with a person if they aren't the right height, weight or hair color for your liking. Just be genuine and compliment the gal you may be interested in, when ever that happens. Men like compliments too so theres nothing wrong with enjoying receiving compliments even on a daily basis. But if the person has to ask you first how they look or is constantly asking you how they look in an outfit or new hairdo or new color of something, then its very possible they have a low self esteem and confidence and theres nothing you can do to change that in them. It requires a professional counselor. If we are talking about people closer to 30 or older, then the superficial copy each other thing should be gone by then and the female have developed their own look they are comfortable with. If not, theres some kind of insecurity in them at that age. I also feel there is nothing wrong to an extent with wanting to look your best as long as the person is a confident person to begin with. But if doing a presentation or going for a job interview, when we dress up, and take care with our looks, we feel even more special. It's not for me about impressing others with my looks in my 50s...I just do what makes me feel good. I wear my hair long and sometimes wear braids at night so in the morning when undone, the hair is wavy so I have a little change. I wear whatever styles I like best, not what is the current trend and the only makeup I have turned to lately is using an eyebrow pencil because due to genes inherited from maternal grandmother, and mom, when we get older, our eyebrow hair gets thinner until it dissappears totally. I have always had expressive eyes but with half gone brows, they just don't look right. My husband never complained, but once i put some on, he realized it made the eyes stand out better and more noticeable without looking like a painted clown as he would say. But eyebrow pencil still doesnt look the best. It is the least expensive way to go but theres not much other choice other than getting some natural looking tattooed brow hair.
If theres a female you like and the only thing about her you arent finding attractive is how she does her brows, get to know her and once you have her trust, ask to see her without the painted on eyebrows and if she'll do it, and you like it, compliment her and let her know how much you enjoy the more natural look. But don't try to change a girl into what you want, find the one who was only copycatting her friends and its not really her and she'll likely drop whatever she is doing when she finds she has your interest and love without all the makeup.
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