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Hai...I'm 9 and I just got my period...Yes I got it early T^T Any advice? (link)
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Hey!
Tell mum or a parent/guardian about your period if you haven't already, whoever you feel comfortable telling. They will be able to help you out with it and the things you'll need, like pads!
It is totally fine to have your period at this age!
My advice would be to use PADS, not tampons, tampons would be for when you're a bit older! Pads are just a strip of soft material, which you can stick in your underwear, and that will absorb the blood that comes out, so that it doesn't leak through to your clothes or on furniture.
Make sure you take your pad out and put a new one in every few hours, to keep you fresh and smelling nice.
When you take your pad off, wrap it in some toilet paper, a plastic bag, or the wrapping the pad came in. If you are in a toilet where there is a bin next to it, put it in there, otherwise, put it in a regular bin and try not to be too obvious with it!
Keep some pads in your school bag and a bag when you are going out somewhere, so that if you need to change your pad you have one that you can use.
Periods could last anywhere from about 2-7 days. When your period is finished, it will start again in about 21-35 days. If you want and if you have a phone, iPod, iPad, tablet, or a device similar to that, you can download an app, which will help you keep track of when your period will be. You just need to fill it in when you have your period, and then the app will estimate when it will come next once your period has finished.
If you have a sore tummy or back while you are on your period, that is normal. If it gets bad you can use a heating pack to lessen the pain, or take some medicine for it, in that case tell a parent or guardian about it and they can get you something to help.
If your period comes earlier or later than you expected, that is ok. When you first get your period it is normal for it not to be regular and persistent.
If you have any other questions just ask!
Hope this helped!
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Why do girls care about eyebrows so much? If I like a girl, then I ain't gonna judge her by her eyebrows (unless she has a unibrow or unless she has "trendy" recent ones that look like they've been drawn on their face). Why do think that when they have eyebrows that look like they've been drawn on, that people will find them more attractive? It's like they're trying to avoid their eyebrows looking like they're made out of hair. I don't know 1 guy who'd care about their eyebrows. Girls also feel the need to colour them in. It's worse when they have,say,ginger hair, so obviously they're eyebrows should be ginger but when you see them they're black. And when they get their eyebrows done they're all like "Ooh, look at my natural look!" It doesn't look natural at all! Why do they feel the need to change their eyebrows? I used to never notice eyebrows but due to all the trends recently they're hard to miss. (link)
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First of all, girls often don't do things just to impress males. Eyebrows are something many people like to get done or fill in for themselves because that's how they like to look, not because they want to impress a man.
Eyebrows can make a big difference to one's face, and with all the articles about dark brows, and makeup coming out to achieve the look, it is easy to get caught up in it all and feel the need to fill in your eyebrows to get the look of full, dark brows.
I, personally don't find drawn-on eyebrows to look the most flattering either, it's just a trend that is passing through. Very thin eyebrows used to be a trend for a while, and now it's more dark thick brows that is desired by many.
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my friend and I are doing the talent show, and we don't know what song to sing,
were looking for:
- good acoustic versions of (not so recent) pop songs
- theatrical songs that are not too upbeat
- female duets
- harmonizing songs
plz help us, we have to audition next week
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Hey! I'm not very knowledgeable in the music area, but here are a few suggestions!
Valerie - Amy Winehouse
Because of you - Kelly Clarkson
Flashlight - Sia (sorry if too recent)
Price tag - Jessie J
I would recommend going on youtube and looking up some female duets. A channel that might be helpful is "Cimorelli" they are a group of girls who do covers and harmonise.
Hope this helps!
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This might sound a little stupid to some people, but to me it feels like the end of the world. My teacher had to take a phone call at the beginning of class, we also had a test that day. I guess I got so into my book I read right through the test and didn't even answer a single question, heck I didn't even get a paper! I heard the Bell ring and realized I didn't even get a test. I just walked out of the room like an idiot before he saw me. Now he's going to find out that I read right through a test and get really mad. I honestly don't know what to to and don't even want to go back to school tomorrow! (link)
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Hey!
Remember that teachers are human beings, just like us. The best thing to do in this situation in my opinion, is to just laugh at yourself. Even though it might be harder than it sounds, it can really help make things so much less embarrassing, if you laugh at yourself, people will most likely laugh with you not at you.
I think you should just tell your teacher what happened if he asks you. He's a teacher, so reading your book through a test and getting lost in your imagination through a book is a better excuse than many. The worst that'll happen is probably a detention, which could be just 15 or 30 minutes of your day.
Remember, you'll probably laugh at this one day and can have a story to tell. Your embarrassment and worries of this will be over soon and everything will go back to normal!
For now, try to get your mind off it, read a book, watch your favourite TV show or movie, hang out with friends.
Hope this helped!
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im girl, 3rd year in high school and im shy...i have no close friend in my class... i finally feel i can have close friend in my class..im sitting with girl called Kaja...im sitting with her only because the classmate(girl) she was sitting last year, Dia went to study for 1 school year to Norway. they are really good friends. I really started to get comfortable with her, we laugh and etc. But I am worried that when Dia comes back Kaja will sit with her again :/..I finally figured out that i want to be friends with these two girls because i am really comfortable with..because its hard for me to get comfortable with someone bc im really shy. I am also snapchatting with Dia while she is in Norway.. Im want to text her on Facebook but i dont want her to think that im intruding between Kaja...but i really want to like friends with them....and also when im sitting with kaja at school i just want to take spontaneous selfie with her but i dont know ho she would react..and maybe post it on Facebook, or i would want to ask her if she would go to cinema, or just to hang out ...but im really scared and shy to ask her ...please help me :) (link)
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Hey!
You seem like a nice girl, and hey, it's totally normal to be shy! I went through situations like this when I was younger. Who wouldn't want to go to the cinema or hang out after school? Sounds like fun. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make friends, and I'm sure Kaja will be happy to hang out and be closer friends. She might be wondering herself if you would like to do something fun after school, and when you ask her, she'll most likely be happy about it. Just enjoy yourselves, keep having fun and laughing together!
Hope this helps! If I didn't answer properly you can give me some more info by clicking on my name at the top of this answer, and then clicking 'get advice' when you're on my advice column!
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Does anyone have good recommendations for healthy snacks? I often stay up late doing homework and get pretty hungry, and I'm getting tired of eating an apple or some crackers every night.
Just some notes: a) I don't like nuts or peanut butter. b) I would prefer if the suggestions were stuff we would likely have in the house so my mom doesn't have to go out and buy me snack food c) fruit is great, but it's expensive and not super filling, so I need some other ideas
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Hey, here are a few suggestions:
Zucchini fries
- Cook 1 or 2 zucchinis (or more, depending on how hungry you are)
- Cut them up into the shape of fries
- Coat them in wheat flour
- Coat them in egg whites
- Roll them in bread crumbs
- Put them in the oven for 20 minutes at 425 degrees
Wraps
- There are many different wraps you can make, if you search it up you might be able to find a few different wraps to try out with food you already have.
Salad
- Maybe try making a salad. Some can be more filling than others, often pasta salads can be pretty filling.
Rye bread
- With avocado and tomato
- With hummus
- With banana and honey
- These are just some examples
There are quite a few videos on YouTube and articles with healthy snacks, I suggest searching it up as well.
Hope this helps!
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So I'm 17(f), and I don't ever wear any makeup of any kind, but I'd really like to wear makeup once in a while, not because I don't think I look good, but just to enhance my features. I want to find sort of a very natural look.
I have tried a few things, but I have discovered that I am unable to apply mascara; it ends up all over my cheeks and eyelids and I poke myself way too many times. Eyeliner is doable but not easy...
I also have fairly full lips, particularly my upper lip, so anything with significant colour is definitely out.
I'm pretty cheap too...I don't want to spend too much money on makeup...so I guess the fewer products needed the better?
So yeah...if anyone has suggestions about some looks or tips that I should try...I can experiment a bit with my mom's and friend's makeup for some stuff to find out if I like it before I buy anything, but I just need some help! I am so clueless and I don't want to bug my friends with this!
Also, I know I want to get some kind of concealer... suggestions on what kind (not brand...like format/style...)? (link)
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Hey!
First of all, mascara. Here are some tips:
- Wiggle the wand a bit when you are applying it to your lashes.
- Use a tissue, and dab the mascara brush on it before applying it to your lashes. This makes it look so much more natural, but still can make a good difference to your original lashes.
- When you dip your wand into the mascara bottle, twist the wand instead of pumping it in and out the bottle, it dries the mascara out.
- You can buy clear mascara if you want to start off with that.
Now for the lips:
If you don't want something too, like, "wow, lips!", but still want to have something on them, I would recommend wearing a tinted lip balm. I recommend Maybelline's baby lips, in berry crush.
As for concealer:
I suggest getting a cream or liquid concealer. For under-eye concealing, try using one that is a shade lighter than your skin colour, and draw an upside down triangle under your eye, and blend with either your ring finger using a stippling motion toward your nose, or use a beauty blender. You could also use a concealer brush, it's up to you.
For concealing things like blemishes, I would try to get a concealer with good coverage, and one that is close to your skin colour.
I suggest you look up some natural make up looks on youtube, there are some great tutorials that can really help you out when starting out with makeup.
I hope this helps! xx
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I did my acrylics at home the clear ones and I used regular nail polish on top no gel kind, can I use a nail polish remover to take it off when I need a full, will it damage my acrylic? (link)
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You can use nail polish remover, just make sure it's acetone free, because acetone is usually what is used to take acrylics off. Hope this helped xx
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So you've probably seen some of my questions about how I don't have any real friends and today being my birthday just proves what kind of friends I have. I don't hype up my birthday because if you're my friend you would've remembered like I get it sometimes you have a lot on your mind and forget but this happens every single year, if I don't tell me friends "hey today's my birthday" or if I don't text them the day before "tomorrow's my birthday" I won't get a birthday wish. The only person that's not in my family that wished me a happy birthday was this girl who I don't even talk to anymore, we drifted apart I tried keeping the friendship with her but she stopped cause she has more relatable friends now. Every time it's my friends birthdays I always remember to wish them and even try to make it special for them but for me they don't do anything other people get texts and stuff at midnight on their birthdays I got only one from that girl so I let it slide at that time now it's nearly 12 noon ad literally nothing how much you wanna bet if I say it's my birthday on snapchat they're all gonna message me happy birthday? What can I do about these friends? The ones I really wanted a happy birthday from I texted them a Happy NYE to see if they realize NYE equals my birthday cause they know that so far no reply yet. Don't say they may be planning a surprise cause they're not it happens every year even at my birthday party last year. The only time they treated me like it was my party was when it was time to cut the cake either than that it was like I was a guest at somebody else's party no one paid attention to me, when we took group photos I was pushed to the back when clearly the celebrant should be in the middle of the front, they would talk to each other no one would really try to talk to me they would leave in groups to go take pics no one wanted a pic with the bday girl. I turned 17 today (link)
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First of all, I am so sorry this has happened to you. I can imagine how upsetting that would be for you.
I would say that you should tell your friends how you feel about this. If they don't react well to the fact that you are upset about this, they aren't being very good friends.
If this is the case, I think you should make some new friends. I'm not saying you should stop being friends with them, but just try to make new friends.
I hope this helped. Happy 17th Birthday. You are special, and someday you will find good friends who remember your birthday and not only make you feel special then, but feel special everyday.
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I'm a 12 year old female, I either want to die my hair very bright blonde and put in black streaks, or black and have blonde streaks. I'll describe how I look: I currently have brown hair with blonde highlights I got done. I like the blonde tbh, I have brown eyes a little hazelish, and tan skin. In the winter my skin is the palest it gets but is still very tan, and in the summer my skin gets dark as fuck. I'm still white, but most my family is Italian. My mom's side 100% and my dad is half Irish and half Italian, but the Irish side of my dad's family also has French too. My grandma's Irish but her mother is from France, grandpa's italian, so you can kind of imagine my tan-ness? My hair is thick and curly but I straighten it and have side bangs covering my left eye. I wear pretty much all black and dark colors, and my nails are black. It looks pretty good next to my skin. So what's your personal opinion? (link)
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I would go with black hair with blonde streaks. Having dyed hair can be hard to maintain, so if you like your natural hair colour and like the blonde, maybe you could just add more blonde. Otherwise, I would lean more towards black hair with blonde streaks!
Just my opinion, ultimately, it's up to you!
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So i hace a squad and there is this giro lets call ver crystal so crystal thinks My enemy is mad at her and crystal's friends say that My enemy isnt mad at her so then she tries to take away My bestie lets call her kim and every time im talking to kim crystal comes and gets un the bussiness and you would talk to crystal but youbdont know her so she is a snitch and later con asks to be un My squad and me and My squad dont want her to be un our our squad cause squad ir not she'll take every one of My friends and they dont like her eithier and un clases crystal acts all innocent but she isnt and she still takes away everbody plus she follows me like im with mmy 7th grade friends and she tries to take them away from me like almost everbody later me and My squad try to make challenging tasks forma her cause se call her a guest to our group and she wants to be un it so the tasks are good but hard to do and the se go to a assembly and the teacher see's that im with My squad and sees crystal there and she asks us a cuestión and then crystal says she is "testing" to be in our squad so me and My squad make up líes and we felt pissed and embarressed by her i feel like killing her por myself so pls answer fast and should i split the squad por suffer this pain i have ...........
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I went through a problem very similar to this one when I was about your age. I had my own little group, and if someone wanted to join, we would hold a kind of test, similar to what you and your friends do. There was this one girl, who really wanted to be a part of our group, just like Crystal, so I'll call her that. She seemed to be taking away my best friend, which I will call Kim! So, I was rude to Crystal and tried to get her out of the group. Crystal and Kim became friends and because I wasn't nice to Crystal, they stopped being my friend.
I now realise that even though I felt so annoyed about Crystal taking away my friend Kim, if I had been nice to Crystal, I would have been friends with both of them.
Though now it may seem for you like the only way to get your friends back is to not let Crystal into your squad, it's not.
From what you have written, it seems like Crystal really wants to join your squad. This may be a surprise to you, but Crystal probably would like to be your friend as much as she wants to be friends with the rest of your squad! How about you try a challenge, for yourself. Challenge yourself to be extra nice to Crystal, maybe even ask her to do something after school. You may end up making another friend!
Hope this helped you!
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So I was at a robotics competition (I know it's nerdy) and a team chose us as an ally and we competed and ended up with 2nd place. Anyway the team captain was really nice and funny and smart so I kinda had a crush on him. We're both captains so we got a lot of time to talk and hang out that day. When I thought his team lefti decided to tell my friends that were also on my team but that was a mistake. It turns out he was still ther and they were like "we're gonna tell him!" So they did I was terrified to death and I literally stood frozen behind a fake plant as they told him. His reaction was that he lifted up his head from what he was doing and just walked way. It's really his reaction that bothers me. What's wrong with me? Am I not good enough? He lives an hour away so it really wouldn't have worked but why did he reject me? It's just been bugging me tbh. Any help? (link)
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I'm sure the reason this boy reacted like that isn't because of what you think. The way your friends told him may have come across to him as your friends being silly. He likely just walked away because he thought "oh they're probably just messing around with me and being immature". If he is put off by anyone it's probably your friends, not you! Hope this helped!
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so in our pe lesson we have to perform some rope skipping techniques so like a rope skipping routine. the problem is that we need to have a background song for our routine and i was thinking which song should i choose for an upbeat but not really fast routine. below are my choices:
1) victorious by panic at the disco
2)hey now by martin solveig
pls give it a listen and tell me!!
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If you are going to go from the beginning of the song then I would choose Victorious by Panic! At The Disco. Otherwise, if you can say, crop the song so that it's just the chorus, I would go with Hey Now by Martin Solveig. Hope this helps. Good luck with your skipping rope routine!
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I have a friend who sits at our table in middle school but she takes my friend away and I get pissed and now I barely hang out with her I found out a day ago that the friend thinks that my enemy is mad at her and she takes to much time with my friends and I tell her that my enemy isn't mad at her but she says that she is mad at her and I think that she just wants to take away my friends I really need to knw wat to do please i need help or else i could even strangle her what should i do (link)
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I understand that you probably feel quite left out and as if you are losing your friend. I know this may seem hard, but try to join your friend and the other girl. Maybe ask them both to come and do something after school together. Though you may not want to, just try to have fun with them both.
Once you have done that, and if you still feel as if you are losing your friend to your other friend, try talking to the girl who you feel is taking your friend away, and tell her that you feel a bit left out and you would appreciate it if you were included a bit more.
I know you'd probably rather the other girl just not be friends with your friend, but you shouldn't really interfere with their friendship. I think, as I have felt your way before, the best thing to do in that situation is to just try to be friends with your friend and the girl who you feel is taking your friend away.
Good luck!
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...my mom says she won\'t go anywhere with me if i do and my dad says i\'d look terrible like that. i\'m old enough to do whatever the hell i want. but i want to hang out with my mom she\'s just too fucking judgmental and that\'s one reason why i hate her. how can i convince them to let me do it? i really, really want to do it. Please please please help me!!! (link)
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Perhaps try telling your parents that this is your hair, and you want to try out different things with your hair, if you end up not liking it, it will grow back,reassure them that it's not permanent. Maybe even ask to sit down and talk to them about it, and state your reasons.
If you feel your mother is too judgemental, try talking to her about it too. She may not realise how judgemental she comes across as, so talking to her about it should allow her to become aware of it and may motivate her to get your hair cut as you like.
Good luck!
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I want to make a combin my pictures on instgram, so that when you look at my feed it says 2k16 but when you look at it in your timeline it says it in 3 different pictures. Sorry if this isntva clear explanation, but if you know what I'm trying to say please help! Thanks!! (link)
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Ok, I am not exactly positive on what you are asking, but I think I get the idea.
If you are trying to post different parts of a picture so that when you look at your instagram pictures together on your profile, it is a full picture, then there are apps you can get for that, which divide the picture you want into 9 separate pictures.
If you want to do this with "2k16", then I suggest downloading the app "piccollage", where you can add text and photos and change the backgrounds. Then, add the text "2k16", you can also change the colour of the text and the font. After this, save the collage to your camera roll and download an app to separate the picture.
Some apps you can use for this are "Giant Square" and "PicSlit".
Hopefully this helped you out!
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