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snitch taking away My friend need helpppppp


Question Posted Sunday November 22 2015, 9:57 pm

So i hace a squad and there is this giro lets call ver crystal so crystal thinks My enemy is mad at her and crystal's friends say that My enemy isnt mad at her so then she tries to take away My bestie lets call her kim and every time im talking to kim crystal comes and gets un the bussiness and you would talk to crystal but youbdont know her so she is a snitch and later con asks to be un My squad and me and My squad dont want her to be un our our squad cause squad ir not she'll take every one of My friends and they dont like her eithier and un clases crystal acts all innocent but she isnt and she still takes away everbody plus she follows me like im with mmy 7th grade friends and she tries to take them away from me like almost everbody later me and My squad try to make challenging tasks forma her cause se call her a guest to our group and she wants to be un it so the tasks are good but hard to do and the se go to a assembly and the teacher see's that im with My squad and sees crystal there and she asks us a cuestión and then crystal says she is "testing" to be in our squad so me and My squad make up líes and we felt pissed and embarressed by her i feel like killing her por myself so pls answer fast and should i split the squad por suffer this pain i have ...........



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ThatTeen answered Monday November 23 2015, 1:46 am:
I went through a problem very similar to this one when I was about your age. I had my own little group, and if someone wanted to join, we would hold a kind of test, similar to what you and your friends do. There was this one girl, who really wanted to be a part of our group, just like Crystal, so I'll call her that. She seemed to be taking away my best friend, which I will call Kim! So, I was rude to Crystal and tried to get her out of the group. Crystal and Kim became friends and because I wasn't nice to Crystal, they stopped being my friend.

I now realise that even though I felt so annoyed about Crystal taking away my friend Kim, if I had been nice to Crystal, I would have been friends with both of them.

Though now it may seem for you like the only way to get your friends back is to not let Crystal into your squad, it's not.

From what you have written, it seems like Crystal really wants to join your squad. This may be a surprise to you, but Crystal probably would like to be your friend as much as she wants to be friends with the rest of your squad! How about you try a challenge, for yourself. Challenge yourself to be extra nice to Crystal, maybe even ask her to do something after school. You may end up making another friend!

Hope this helped you!

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