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my mom hates me
my mom never listens to me and is always on her phone I can never talk to her about my girl problems she just yells at me and forces me to wipe the way she does I always get myself clean but I don't like my vagina lips rubbing my underwear I don't know how to tell her they always have to be a certain way. I'm 15.
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Sorry to hear that your mom has made herself unavailable to you. We dont get to choose our parents and sometimes we end up with parents that just don't match our expectations or needs. some parents fail miserably at parenting. Just becuase a person can reproduce doesnt mean they will make a natural nurturing parent. I happen to be one of the nurturing types. So if you have anything you'd like to discuss, and its even easier when I am faceless and my true identity hidden so you don't need to be embarrassed about any subject. I am open minded.
The first concern I understood. I don't know how she wipes but the correct way for females to wipe is from front to back to eliminate the chance of wiping fecal matter, or even just any liquid matter from the anus such as diarrhea liquid from getting near enough to travel into the vagina or your pee hole which is right about the vagina. Don't wipe twice with the same tissue but use fresh for the 2nd or subsequent wipes.
The skin of your privates is a very tender skin and can easily be irritated, even for some by the type of cloth/clothing against it. In this case you may have to try different brands or cotton instead of nylon. Sometimes, it not the panties but how the pants fit that is the problem. If the crotch is too high and the fit too tight so the seam of the pants is okay when you're standing but cuts into the vagina lips when you bend, sit or squat, then the pants are too tight for you. I've made the mistake of not doing enough gyrations and positions when trying on pants in the dressing room and once I had to live in them for a day, found myself feeling bruised down there.
What I do not understand is your statement "how to tell her they always have to be a certain way.
YOu'd have to explain exactly what way you are expecting the private area to feel with clothing on, what the actual problem is. I'll share one of mine as an example. At your age, besides the period time of my cycle were the days when my body was doing its natural cleansing of the vagina...carrying out germs and matter not needed via a sticky yellowish residue that always leaked into my panties or even a panty liner. In the time it took between visits to the bathroom, pulling down my panties was always an adventure as the gummy liquid had dried up, glueing my pubic hair to the panties or pads and it was as painful parting the hairs from where they were stuck as removing a bandaid on your body. I had to start shaving or plucking to eliminate that problem. Now if you can explain a situation to me like that with more detail, perhaps I can be of more help.
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