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am I stalking this girl? ? Also, wouldn't this be assault?
there is this tutor I work with in the tutoring lab in college. She's great and a wonderful person to be around with. She is about 28 and I am 22 and she is engaged, My class ended a few months ago but I saw her around campus when I was going to meet up with a friend recently and chatted with her
now I find myself going out of my way to that location just so I can hopefully see her and talk to her again. Last week I went and sat there for about half an hour (I had nothing else to do though so I wasn't skipping anything) I just get this extremely good feeling when talking to her or seeing her. Is this creepy?
someone responded this
"You better watch what you're doing or you could end up on the wrong side of her boyfriend and that could result in you with a sore face.
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But this makes no sense, if her boyfriend came after me and attacked me for no reason that would be assault and I can probably press charges
I recently ran into this girl again. She was in the math lab, I went in and started chatting to her and she seemed happy to see me and happy to chat. I get this extremely good feeling whenever I see her or talk to her. I can't explain it
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I doubt he'd come after you for sitting around waiting for his fiance just to talk to her. But yeah, if he did it would be assault but if she said anything about you stalking her or something, then you could be in trouble too.
Anyways, if you keep doing this, it is kind of creepy. It's understandable that you really like her but technically what you are doing is wrong. You're not sitting there waiting for her just to talk to her because you like her as a friend. You're going there because you like her, but she's engaged to be married to someone else. So it is wrong.
You're pretty much just setting yourself up for heartbreak and I would stop if I were you.
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No you are not stalking her or are you harassing her in the legal sense of the words. Morally is another story. You know she is engaged, she is not a friend but possibly fits the description of a classmate.
Going out of your way to speak to her is morally wrong since you are aware that she is engaged to someone. If she has ever said to you to stop stalking her or harassing her then you would be in legal trouble.
Just chatting with this girl on campus would not or should not give her boyfriend reason to hunt you down and break your face. Whoever sent you that note knows that you are purposely trying to run in to this girl for the purpose of getting to know her and that you may have designs beyond that.
If this were to get back to her fiancé yes he might want to break your face. In doing so though he would be in legal trouble for assaulting you.
This might be a deal breaker for her but I have my doubts that it would win you and points with her. For it was your interference ruined the life she had planned together with him.
My advice is to forget about her. I'm sure she is a wonderful person and is the reason behind you infatuation with her. She is spoken for therefore not available any longer. I can assure you if you look hard enough there is another girl out there just like her waiting for you to find her.
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She's engaged, There is nothing between the two of you. Going out of your way to chat with her is almost interfering in her relationship. If her fiance found out and put his hands on you, Yes this is assault. However what YOU are doing is harassing this women. This women may be happy to see you but over doing it could end up in drama you don't want to get yourself into.
1, It is wrong to interfere with someone's relationship. She is engaged which means she is set on marrying someone and is already involved.
You don't dare to play with fire, This is exactly what you are doing. Yes, It's a bit creepy in an unwanted way. Your actions are out of control
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No shes not married and you should follow your heart but what if it was the other way around. You were engaged and someone was going out of their way to speak to your fiance. I dont find it stalking. Just remember when she cstches on he catches on more and likely shell avoid you and ending it on your own terms nd walking away would be less painful
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