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HELP ASAP: Only girl in the group?
Tomorrow I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends. Well, they're both male.. I don't have a problem with it, but I just don't want to feel left out or something. I don't have anyone to invite, either... What should I do?
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Go along and have a great time. He's invited you and who knows you better than your own boyfriend-he knows taht you will have a great time.
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If he invited you, he probably knows that you'll have a good time and you won't be feeling left out.
I've gone to the movies or out bowling and stuff with my boyfriend and his friends, I haven't felt left out.
Plus, it's just the movies, you're just gonna be sitting there eating popcorn and watching something.
If you're still really worried, talk to your boyfriend. Let him know you're a little nervous about going because you're afraid you're going to feel left out. Hopefully then he'll assure you that you won't be.
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Go and have a good time. Being the only girl in the group will probably make you the center of attention, so revel in it a little.
Of course, if you do end up being a little left out, just smile and deal with it. It's just going out for a movie, and it won't be much time out of your life. Besides, if that happens, you can say to your boyfriend afterward (in a joking manner!) that he totally ignored you all afternoon, so he owes you a date where he showers you with attention.
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Go with an open-mind and don't worry about it. Your boyfriend likely wants to show you off and his focus will be mostly on you. I don't think he would put you in any situation he knew would be uncomfortable. In other words these guys aren't jerks and he figures you will fit in. Just converse or behave normally with them and go with the flow of things. You're bound to do well if you do that.
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