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Guy Friend hasn't texted back!


Question Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 1:45 am

I recently met a guy, we sort of clicked and we and sort of became friends.. Well not really, I'd say acquaintances. We've only hung out twice (the second time was a disaster).

He's asked me to hang out with him a few times, and I was busy and the last time he wanted to hang out. I said I had already plans but I'd hang out, if they changed and that I would get back to him later.

Which I didn't, and I forgot. And he hasn't texted me now in over 3 weeks. Grr, do you think he's pissed and doesn't want to hang out, and what should I do?


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pseudophun answered Wednesday August 21 2013, 3:55 pm:
He's probably just written you off as a flake. You could potentially redeem yourself on that, assuming he gives you the time of day... Start with texting him, just to see if he answers. If he does, then you can hang out with him and attempt to make up for your mistake. If not, just find a new boy. There are so many in the world.

In related information, I blew this guy off for months... we're steady dating now. Apparently he didn't mind waiting. ^_^

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lightoftruth answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 7:03 pm:
I doubt he's pissed. That would be an extremely dumb reason to be mad at someone for.

He probably just lost interest in you, or he thought you just weren't interested so he decided to just move on.

So if you're into him, you should probably text him and see if he still wants to hang out.

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scottishgal1 answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 1:55 pm:
He may think you lost interest. But this happens to me all the time, and the guys just respond with, Hey I am so sorry I got grounded, been super busy lately, etc. But this is what I use when that happens to me- ' Hey, sorry about not being able to hang out, but if you're up for it I'm available --whatever day you're available here-- , if you wanna hang out?' ---- Try that. If he doesn't respond or says no, he may have lost interest. sorry. --hope I helped!

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kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 10:11 am:
I think he's probably thinking that you're not interested. So why should he waste his time?

Its up to you to take the imitative now. Be friendly not flirty. Text him: Hey how are you, been a while since we spoke.

If he doesn't answer this he has lost interest and you should leave him alone.

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Xui answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 9:36 am:
He lost interest

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