I recently met a guy, we sort of clicked and we and sort of became friends.. Well not really, I'd say acquaintances. We've only hung out twice (the second time was a disaster).
He's asked me to hang out with him a few times, and I was busy and the last time he wanted to hang out. I said I had already plans but I'd hang out, if they changed and that I would get back to him later.
Which I didn't, and I forgot. And he hasn't texted me now in over 3 weeks. Grr, do you think he's pissed and doesn't want to hang out, and what should I do?
scottishgal1 answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 1:55 pm: He may think you lost interest. But this happens to me all the time, and the guys just respond with, Hey I am so sorry I got grounded, been super busy lately, etc. But this is what I use when that happens to me- ' Hey, sorry about not being able to hang out, but if you're up for it I'm available --whatever day you're available here-- , if you wanna hang out?' ---- Try that. If he doesn't respond or says no, he may have lost interest. sorry. --hope I helped! [ scottishgal1's advice column | Ask scottishgal1 A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday August 14 2013, 10:11 am: I think he's probably thinking that you're not interested. So why should he waste his time?
Its up to you to take the imitative now. Be friendly not flirty. Text him: Hey how are you, been a while since we spoke.
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