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SUICIDE: You are the reason for suicide. You are all stupid. I hate you. FUCK YOU ALL.
I think you all suck major balls. I've been trying to find a painless way to kill myself for the past 2 hours. If someone wants to kill themselves then they probably have a very good reason for it so why don't you fuckers just give some fucking answers instead of the FAKE bullshit like "your too young to die" or "You have so much to live for" or "think about how your hurting your loved ones" in most cases what the hell makes you think we HAVE loved ones??? I'm so fucking sick of seeing those bullshit answers and i'm not even the person asking it on the fucking forms. If you can't answer the question then don't say anything at all! for me, as i'm sure it is for most, it is NOT for attention. It's to die PAINLESSLY. We don't give a fuck about how wonderful YOU think life is. The worst one i've seen yet is someone who has an illness and is in pain 24/7. no one could even help that poor soul end it. FUCK you all for not helping. FUCK YOU. go die. You are the reason for suicide. You are all stupid. I hate you. FUCK YOU ALL. You are NOT showing compassion you are being fucking HEARTLESS.
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Excuse me but my friend cuts herself mostly everyday. I try to help but she still does. How am I the reason for suicide? How am I the reason people have no faith in the life they live? How am I the reason people forget about what matters, themselves? That may sound vain, but it's true. You are not a second choice. My same friend starves herself. I'm afraid two of my friends are going to commit suicide. How dare you accuse me and the others on here that are trying to help of being heartless people who don't care. How dare you assume that of me - of others. And, I'm pretty sure this is an advice giving site. Not a suicide helping site. I show compassion whenever I can. Compassion is not telling someone how to kill themselves. Even if it's painlessly. I do not care if you are sick and you are dying, let God take your soul, not yourself.
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Who said life was wonderful? Life sucks sometimes.
Nobody is guaranteed a wonderful flowery existence with no pain or problems.
Most people get a pair and muddle through as best they can. Sooner or later things work out and all becomes tolerable again.
Some people are chicken shits who off themselves because they don't have what it takes to get off their ass & change their lives.
You think you're sick of it?
People who bother to take the time to try to help
others deserve better than your rant. I have been here for years & I know I have helped people. But
let me tell you what. It isn't easy sometimes. People who actually care are torn apart by those who feel they need to end it all. Its hard trying to make someone understand that tomorrow is a new day & a year from now none of the problems they have now will even matter one bit. Its hard when you have absolutley no way to reach out & hug that person.
So, I am gonna say what I think for a change. FUCK YOU! You want to off yourself don't come on here asking how. We don't need the frustration.
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How would you expect someone to tell you a painless way to die? Whatever they tried, they're dead and can't live to speak about it obviously.
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No one is required to tell you how to off yourself.
People act in accordance with thier own consciences, and thier own ability to reason. No ethical person is going to feel comfortable telling a total stranger how to kill themselves, and no reasonable person is going to believe that a person asking on an annoymous website has legitmate and sensible reasons for wanting to end thier life - a reasonable person will ansume the questioner is mentally ill.
Yes, there are emtpy-headed and shallow responses to sucide questions, and there are also questioners who VALUE those platitudes. There are also well considered advice, and deeply compassionate pleeds for a person to reach out for support for thier mental illness, and there are questioners who value that advice (and you have heard from some of them here).
But regardless of that, who the fuck are you to demand other people respond to you in a way that goes against thier reason and thier concience? Who are you to demand silence from others when they are moved to speak on a subject they feel deeply about?
I don't know where all your hate is coming from, but it's not a reasonable, ethical or mentally sound place. You should find a way to address that. It'll be far more interesting and rewarding than death.
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Echoing what Alin said, we can't tell people how to commit suicide. It's a serious legal issue, and you could be arrested for providing that kind of assistance, even in a seemingly anonymous situation.
I was one of those people who came here asking for a painless way to die, back in 2006. I asked an anonymous question, and I was hoping to find a way out. I was just starting to spiral into the worst depths of mental illness, and I saw no hope in my future. Mostly, I felt worthless and miserable and isolated, and I didn't feel like I could possibly live another day.
Here's why every response to a suicide question is important:
I came to Advicenators looking for a way out, but I ended up finding a reason to stay. The outpouring of concern from total strangers, the assurance that someone, somewhere cared if I lived or died. When everyone around me was abandoning me and my life was falling apart, I found solace in this website. Not every answer was solid gold. I got some religious commentary, which was useless for an atheist like me, and I got some young teenagers telling me "Life's not so bad :D". I also got some really smart, compassionate answers from experienced individuals. Every one of those answers meant that someone was taking the time to tell me they care, which is what a lot of suicidal people feel is lacking.
So, was everything sunny from then on? Hell no. Since that date there were multiple suicide attempts and hospitalizations and absolute mental breakdowns until I found the right treatment regimen with the help of my doctor. It was 5 years of hell before I could even pick myself up enough to start leaving the house on a regular basis. Did Advicenators fix all of my problems? No. But I found just a little strand of hope here, something I could fix my gaze on when everything else was a howling black void. I could come back and ask questions about how to deal with my situation, whether I should call the doctor after overdosing and how to cope with the aftermath of my really bad episodes.
I answer suicide questions when I can, especially when people go into their reasons. Why do I do this? Because I wouldn't be here if it weren't for this website. I wouldn't have met the man of my dreams. I wouldn't have lived to see us buy our first house, and I wouldn't have walked down the aisle on my perfect, sunny wedding day. I would have given up on myself, never believing that things could get better. I don't want anyone to sell themselves short like I did. Everyone has hidden strength within them, and sometimes all it takes is someone telling them that they're worth the fight.
I agree that someone who is in chronic pain from a terminal illness should be given the option of physician-assisted suicide. I don't believe that someone who is looking to suicide as a way to escape a bad situation, a traumatic past, or a mental illness should be helped along that path. Every death that results from something like that is preventable, and we do our best here to prevent it.
So no, we're not all platitude-spouting asshats. You'd be surprised at how many of us have scars. The difference between us and the rest of the world is that we're willing to show those scars to total strangers and tell them that they're not alone, that we care and that things can get better.
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I actually agree about bullshit answers. Most people just spout some empty rhetoric that they heard somewhere else and somehow think that it will make a difference. I cringe at half most of the answers I see on suicide questions... most of it is ignorant crap.
From this point of view I agree with you wholeheartedly.
That being said, please understand this: we CANNOT give suicide advice. It is not allowed on the site - and I do think that is a good thing overall. The only thing people can do is to try to talk to you. That is all you can get on Advicenators, nothing more.
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EDIT: You know... I actually went back to review some questions I have recently answered and decided to give another word if advice.
People like YOU are people thst advicenators do not like helping. Arrogance honestly makes me not give a shit. If you don't like the advice we give then do not come to the site. Now go bitch somewhere else to someone who cares.
What is happening in life that is making you so angry? Did someone say something to you to make you want to ladh out at us?
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