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virginity at 12
I'm 12 in a half and I lost all my virginity to my boyfriend, he's 15.My bestfriend said that losing my at my age is really bad.I don't think its that bad that i'm not a virgin anymore.Is it bad i'm not a virgin at 12.Most of the time I have sex with him. My friend says I should tell my parents i've had sex. Should I tell my parents?
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Hi Virginity at 12 ,Iam a male and i also lost my virginity at twelve many years ago though .I had sex with two older girls that were 14 .I did not tell my parents and i doubt that the girls told their parents either .Although they were not virgins when i slept with them .The trouble is you are young and you dont want to ruin your life by being a teen mother.Also the boy was 15 once he turns 16 he could be charged for having sex with a minor .You know mothers are pretty good if i was a girl and a teen and Knew what i knew now i would go talk to my mum .Tell her the truth that it was your decission and im sure she will not be happy ,but after the initial shock she will come around and discuss things with you we were all young once and it is part of human life that we all are going to have sex sooner or later .Attitudes have changed a lot .I have a 13 year old daughter and she is still a virgin i try to tell her to wait till she is married but i know in my heart it wont .but if she came to me i would support her as best i can and would just be honest with her about what boys are like i have already told her how boys are just after sex and they tell their friends and so many things can happen it is not realy worth it all in the end.Best to get a education and just hold hands and kiss and dont go any further .If they love you they will wait till you are ready
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Well, I am not your mom, but I would be dissapointed in you. Twelve is way to young and I do feel you made a big mistake. First of all, why are you dating at 12? And why are you dating a 15yr old.
I think you need to tell your mom before you wind up pregnant or get a STD.
This is definately not a good thing. Keep what you did a secret. Other girls will label you as a dirty girl, so talk to your mom before you ruin your life.
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I don't understand what the rush is to have sex especially at your age. I might be an old geezer in your eyes but when I was your age girls where still playing with dolls. So the answer to your first questions is; yes it was very wrong of you to have sex at your age for more reasons then I care to count. The most important one is what are you going to do if you get pregnant?
You should stop having sex NOW and WAIT until you are old enough to understand all the consequences that come with having sex and old enough to properly care for a baby. Also having sex at your age will give you a reputation you do not want. Like it or not teenage boys do kiss and tell.
I can't tell you if you should tell you parents; this is something you have to decide. I would think it is a good idea to do so since you are having sex. Short of putting you in a Chasity belt or locking you in your room there is not much mom or dad can do to stop you. What mom can do is take you to a doctor to get birth control pills since you are not old enough to get them on your own.
I will also say this: Moms are pretty smart. There will come a time in the not to distant future, if you continue to have sex, that she will realize you are sexually active. When she does you can expect her to go ballistic. She probably will anyway when and if you do tell her. It is only soften by the fact you are being honest and up front with her. Giving her the opportunity to council you and to protect you.
So the choice is your and yours alone. I've told you why I think you should but I cannot make the decision for you.
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Yes, you are by far much too young to even be contemplating the act of sex. Your boyfriend should know better, but he obviously let his hormones control him. Sex at your age could lead to a pregnancy and your boyfriend might just run off afterwards and you are way too young to take care of a child. As much as it may scare you, you must tell your parents and you must stop having sex. Not all relationships are based on sex either. Healthy relationships include a lot of talking, yes, cuddling and kissing, but that's usually it. At your age anyway, when you reach the appropriate age, then you can think about sex.
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Well if you want an honest answer, You are way too young to be thinking about sex.
Should you tell your parents? I most certainly would. You do not need a baby at 12 years old. You are still a child yourself, You are to damn young. Don't be stupid
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