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Do you think my teacher is acting inappropriatly/harrasment
Ok well 15/f I have put this off long enough well we got a new male teacher at the beggining of the school year, and well like its an all girl class of about 10 people, and well sinse the first day he says innappropriate things like the first day talking about balls, another day bringing up dicks and yes the bad way, btw hes a young teacher not married no kids. Any way me and my friend Cali were like wow. Then the next day he came up to me in the hall way while i was on the way to the bathroom and walked biside me and he goes heyyy and i was like woah you scared me and he was like I get that a lot then he raised his eybrows up and down at me over and over, then he followed me all the way to the bathroom no joke not sayin anything then when I got to the bathroom a teacher walked out of a near by classrom and he saw the teacher and i gues feaked out cuz he made a weird face then turned around and left. Later on I told my friend about it and she was like wow this is really getting freaky, so then the next day we go to class and the teacher stared at me the whole time and sometimes smiles and my friend even noticed it to cuz she was like woah did you see him today and i was like yah lets add that to our list. Also he continues to do that everyday now for another really freaky thing the other day me and the teacher mr.(Hanson) were talkin and he randomly says to me I would give you a big hug but I canr because of teacher student realationships and then he winked at me and smiled and I was like...speechless than later that class period he came up and started messin with my hair like running his fingers through my hair and stuff and twirlin it, and kinda pattin my hair. Which was really freakky! now also the other day I was walkin to gym class with my friend and he was staring at me the whole time i walked by once again my friend even noticed it! and then yesterday when our class was just gettin done talking to him he looked at me and winked then smiled, he's done that so much now! now for one last thing soorry this is takin so long but Today I was playin the keyboard and well he came over and put his arms around me and was all up on me and I was like eeek what do I doooooo. Then like I was lookin to my side tryin to signal my friends Cali, mary,and Trailey and they finaly saw and there eyes got wide and one of them screamed MR. HANSON! and I sware he jumped up faster then lightnin when he saw they were lookin! Well he's done more but I don't wanna take up anymore of your time so I was just wonderin what to do its really freakin me out! the way he acts! do you agree he is acting inapproprite and harrasing? Please helpp! P.s. He also points out innapropriate things in songs too and says like why would they be doin that or makin jokes about it and smilin. Well thanks! please help!
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Get your friends together and sit down and write every example of this stuff you can down on paper. Ask around if you get the chance and see if anyone else has similar stories and get them to write it down too and sign it. Turn this in to the principal before you have another class with him.
It's Saturday, two days till school's back in, get crackin.
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Yes your teacher is being very inappropriate. You need to inform your school principal and your parents. I can't say if the teachers speaking manner is just him trying to be friendly and put himself at your level but it is entirely inappropriate for him to speak in this manner.
Touching you in the manner you described is not only inappropriate it is just plain wrong. Teachers are tot allowed to touch students period. The only time a teacher can touch a student is to administer first aid.
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I would say so, you should start off by telling your parents. All you, as in your friends as well. Second have your parents bring it up in a meeting with the school's principle. Some teachers, especially younger ones just starting off, are very how should I say. Friendly? Might do with the fact they aren't as familiarized with the whole I'm a teacher you're my student, I'm a grown up and you're a child. He might not be aware that he's acting inappropriately towards you, since he has no kids of his own. But either way, school is a place for you to feel safe, not awkward and harassed. So if I were you, I'd speak up. Good luck.
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