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How do I get this annoying racist girl to leave me alone?
This girl wont leave me alone. She makes fun of me because Im mixed, my mom is Puerto
Rican and my dad is black and mixed with white, she makes all these jokes calling me a piece of sh**t and talking about how the UK is better and that shes all glamorous up there. shes keeps saying that I live in texas so I have to catch what I eat and etc, and she keeps saying she has a life but she wont leave me alone .All these insults telling people that I eat dog and saying that Im a wetback and all of this is NOT true. She keeps getting on my nerves and no one likes her because shes racist, but she bothers me mostly because she knows it really bothers. Ive tried ignoring her but shes still doing the same thing. How do I get her to leave me alone?
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Tell her that she needs to grow the f*ck up. Tell her that she need to put the sock that she used to give her boyfriend a hand job with up her freaking pie hole. I would go all out on her if she ever came up to me talking like that. And if she wants to met a true Texan she aint gonna like it. Maybe I will hunt her down and have her for dinner.
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I'm all about confrontation.
Ignoring her is an option, but here's the thing. If you ignore her entirely but she can still piss you off visibly, she won't stop. You just become an easier target.
I'd call her out on her racism. Ask her if she came up with her views herself or if her parents are ignorant shits and she just copies everything they say, ask her if it makes her feel better to make fun of someone for the way they were born because she was obviously born as an insufferable jackass and has to find something that's worse to be born as.
Being unaffected is key. Not letting her get to you, not letting her have the pleasure of a single frown. Racists are pathetic. They are people so inadequate in their own lives that they have to have something simple to put themselves above others. Thing is, these people are generally stupid and mostly worthless.
Being unaffected is about more than just turning the other cheek. It's about finding these people laughable, about letting them know that all you see them as is a walking joke.
So ask this girl what about her life sucks so much that she has to bother you with her insecurities. Ask her why being her race makes her better than you and laugh at her responses with "that's the best you can come up with?".
With people like this, I generally like to get them talking in public. Stupid people always hang themselves with their words, that's why everything they say is one or two sentences long. Call her out on it. Ask her where she got her beliefs and then make fun of her answer. Show her for the prejudiced ignorant idiot she really is.
Or, you know, ignore her. Because she's totally going to stop ragging on an easy target.
Bonus points: Call the UK "The 51st State" repeatedly.
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Ignore her
People who have big mouths and look to insult someone are people with insecurity issues, This is one of the main reasons people get bullied everyday. If you show no reaction, She gets no reaction. People don't just bully someone for nothing the whole point is to piss the other person off. No there is nothing wrong with you, No you didn't do anything. The truth is, She may have a life...but this girl again has insecurity issues. Pay no mind too her if you ignore her somewhere down the line it will get old...she will get bored because she is getting the same reaction over and over again and she isn't getting what she wants. She'll move on and someday she will get a REAL life. ;) Be strong and let her make a fool of herself.
If the bullying gets out of hand where she gets physical then you tell someone, Let an adult know. If you are in school let a teacher know you are being bullied. Inform them of what is going on, It is nothing to be ashamed of and someone needs to tell this girl to back off. The old saying "Karma is it's worst enemy" is true. She will get her piece somewhere down the line.
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Just start agreeing with what she says even though its not true it will just get boring for her because it wont affect you as much so she will stop trust me although it will be a little hard to do it will work and she will leave you alone for good.
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