i need REAL biblical answers, as in from the bible
Question Posted Thursday May 26 2011, 3:56 pm
okay. i know alot of people say that being a homoselual is a sin. or in proper terms an abomination. Im gay and i would like to have a relationship with god and christ. but could i really have salvation, being what i am. I dont know because i hear reverends from both the liberal and conservative christian faiths give their " biblical facts" and i just dont know. any help will be great, thanks. :)
Lev 18:22-23 "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."
There are other verses both in the Old and New testaments on the subject of homosexuality.
1 Cor 6:9
1 Tim 1:9-10
Rom 1:26-27
So in a biblical context Homosexuality is a sin, but remember murder, adultery, premarital sex, kidnapping, lying and idolatry, are also sins.
The bible says "All have sinned." [ SkeenaBeat's advice column | Ask SkeenaBeat A Question ]
TheLonelySoul answered Tuesday August 9 2011, 2:58 am: Hey there, if you think being gay is a sin because of the bible, you should also believe in multiple gods. I don't get it. How people can rely on a book written by man to be so true while lacking evidence. I recently tried reading the bible. What caught my attention was in Genesis where it says God said Let US make man in OUR image under OUR likeness. WHO IS THEY? If you believe gay is a sin, why should it matter? If you're a good person who constantly sins just like straight people. Being straight does not mean your perfect. THEY ARE JUST AS BAD. So basically this whole "Gay is wrong" topic came from someone who thinks they're perfect because they're straight, if it didn't there'd be no argument. From what I was taught, god loves everyone & forgives everyone. So WTF? If this is true, why do we still talk about sinning, as long as you know right from wrong. Don't listen to Howard. You do not have to marry a man to prove you love him. And technically its impossible to have sex with aMan. UcantRepro,so itsNotSX [ TheLonelySoul's advice column | Ask TheLonelySoul A Question ]
m_howard_651 answered Tuesday July 26 2011, 12:04 am: My friend, I hope you read this with an open mind and an open soul cause for what I'm about to discuss will "step on some toes". I'm glad that you are willing to have a relationship with christ that is great. Christ Jesus is the only way into the kingdom of God, the bible states that God so loved the world that he gave up his only son, so that we may have everlasting life if we only follow him. God is about to take you on an incrediable jounrey. Along this jounrey, you will find that homosexualilty is a sin. I can not put it in any other way, it is a sin. As you begin to read the word of God and begin to understand the plan God has for you you will, in time, see this also. You will also understand that in the word of God it states in the book of Matthew, that sex is to be done to have kids. It does not state this word for word, but the meaning is clear. Also in the word of God, no where does it state that marriage can be between a man and man, or woman and woman. it states later on in the new test. that marriage is to be between a man and woman. so therefore it is a sin. So in just plain terms, you must give up being homosexual. When you make this choice, I promise God will be right there by your side to help you along the way. I promise you that. All you gotta do is reach out to him and ask him for your help. You know, me personally I'm going through some rough times, and I've lost my way. I;ve been at this point in my life where everything I do just does not want to work out. But, God has been there every time to pick me back up. If you need anything else, let me know hosss. I hope this helps [ m_howard_651's advice column | Ask m_howard_651 A Question ]
Ignatz answered Tuesday June 21 2011, 2:34 pm: Keep in mind that the Word of God often depends on context. There was a much different understanding of sex and sexuality when the Bible was written. Back then, you were supposed to get married and have children, no matter what your personal preferences were. Still, there were some who could not bring themselves to marry and have children, and they were commonly referred to as eunuchs. Check Matthew 19:12. "For there are some eunuchs who are born so from their mother's womb, and some eunuchs who are eunuchized by men, and some eunuchs who eunuchize themselves for the sake of the kingdom of the heavens. Let him who is able to receive it, receive it." The term eunuch is commonly understood to mean a castrated man, but in classical Greek it can also mean an effeminate man with no attraction to women. Here's a good article on the subject: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Homosexual acts are condemned in Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13. These are part of a larger set of purity regulations (Lev. 18:6-30 in particular governs who with and when you can have sex) St. Paul in 1 Corinthians condemns the practice of molesting young boys, visiting prostitutes, and of sleeping with other men, partly as evidence that the Corinthians are not as spiritually advanced as they might think, but also as a way of maintaining fellowship with Jewish synagogues. Here's an article on Paul's teachings: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Most importantly, there are only about six direct references to homosexual acts in Scripture, mostly in the context of maintaining purity. Matthew 25:31-46 gives explicit instructions for the path to salvation, and Jesus reminds us in John 14:6 that ultimately He decides who receives salvation. MCC's brand of theology unfortunately seems to leave these verses out. Ultimately, the choice is yours; there are churches who actively embrace the LGBTQ community, and who will gladly help you to seek Christ. Hope this helps. [ Ignatz's advice column | Ask Ignatz A Question ]
MCC answered Monday May 30 2011, 12:16 pm: Hi friend! Let me start by saying that I don't condem anybody here but I'll just comment on some answers here. First Razhie the Bible still is the undisputed word of God. It always will be no matter how many denominations their are, besides the Bible is very clear on this issue. It doesn't require deep thinking and intepretation because its just simple and plain their. Their is no need to discredit it. When God authored it He made it simple so that everyone would understand it. Now Lightoftruth & a13d both say that God loves everybody. That is very true. God is loving, God IS LOVE. However the same God is still JUST, HOLY & PURE. He doesn't condone sin whatsoever. "DO NOT BE DECEIVED, GOD IS NOT MOCKED; FOR WHATEVER A MAN SOWS, THAT HE WILL ALSO REAP" Gal 6:7. If you trully want a relationship with God you've got to repent i.e stop sinning, turn away from your old ways. If you were a murderer/adulterer then you stop killing/cheating. You can't have a straight relationship with God while still in sin. Sin interferes that's why Christ died for us to remove it. Yes He loves everybody, He absolutely does but He is Holy, He will punish every sin if you don't confess and repent. If we can still live a sinful life and attain salvation then Jesus died in vain. Okay onto sweethoney, verses on homesexuality are very much in the N.T and still those that are in the OT, is it not the same God who wrote them?? Please the asker of this question, God doesn't change His mind. "JESUS CHRIST IS THE SAME YESTERDAY, TODAY & FOREVER" Heb 13;8. Now finding a church that condones homosexuality?? Realy?? That to me would be like cheating one-self. Read the Bible, their many false prophets, like those who run those churches. Don't cheat yourself God is not pleased with people twisting His word and using it to satisfy their selfish interests. Christians condem homosexuals?? Personally I don't cause we're al sinners. People don't like being told the truth as it is, they just want to hear what they want, fortunately, God doesn't mix or sugarcoat words.
And finally, to the asker I don't condem you and never will. We're all sinners ALL of us. Read the Bible it will tell you about homosexuality. God loves you but He ABSOLUTELY DETESTS SIN. That's why He sent Christ to make us clean. Homosexuality is a sin just like lying adultery, and sin is what seperates us from God. NOBODY IS BORN A HOMOSEXUAL like society lies. If people were meant to be born homosexuals, God wouldn't have condemned it from the start would He?? All I can do is to encourage you to go to the Lord in prayer, ask with a pure heart for forgiveness, in faith ask for strength to overcome homosexuality. I probably sound ridiculous but it doesn't matter I know who my God is. You think it's hard to overcome homosexuality? That's why I said take it to the Lord in prayer. "BEHOLD, I AM THE LORD THE GOD OF ALL FLESH; IS THERE ANYTHING TOO HARD FOR ME?" Jer 32:27
Could you really have salvation while still gay? No my dear you can't. Not my words, God's words in 1st COR 6;9-10(KJV)
However God doesn't turn away any of His children, we've all sinned, and we're all sinners. Repent, ask for strength, change from the old ways and pray. Prayer of faith and a pure hearts can move mountains, and can also change somebody who 'believes' is gay.
Inbox me if you want to discuss more, or if you have anything you want to say. Please don't denounce your faith for it has many rewards. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Take care. [ MCC's advice column | Ask MCC A Question ]
Razhie answered Friday May 27 2011, 7:46 pm: You are not going to find what you are looking for. If the bible had all the REAL, indisputable answers on this sort of issue, then no one would ever argue or disagree about it. There wouldn't be dozens of different types and denominations of Christianity, because people could just look at the REAL answers in the bible.
The bible is a collection of stories and rules, written down in one point in time, translated at several different other points in time hundreds of years later, and then edited down and selected by religious leaders a few hundred years further on.
People are not going to agree on one interpretation, one translation, one image or understanding. You may personally find, after study and research, that there is one particular understanding of biblical words that you accept as true (or even merely, the most likely to be true.) That will need to based on your personal understanding, beliefs and relationship with God. It wont simply leap out of the biblical text and knock ya in the head. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
lightoftruth923 answered Friday May 27 2011, 7:08 pm: In the Bible, it does say that homosexuality is a sin. But you can still have a relationship with God. I mean, in the Bible it says lying is a sin but everyone does it. Then adultery happens but God still loves you and you can still have a relationship with him. He knows you're not perfect.
I'm a girl, I'm straight, but say I did like another girl. And say that my dad was against gays. If my dad found out, even if he was upset, he'd still love me all the same.
Although it's not always the same with all parents but the point is, God still loves you and you can still have a relationship with him. [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
a13d answered Friday May 27 2011, 6:48 pm: God loves everyone of every color race gay bi or straight. He wants you to come to him trust me no one is perfect and he wants you to come to him with all of your problems even if you were a murderer/rapist or even both he still loves you. Anyone can have a realationship with god. If you need anymore help please imbox me I would love to help you(: [ a13d's advice column | Ask a13d A Question ]
sweeethoney answered Friday May 27 2011, 9:37 am: There are verses in the bible that do say that homosexuality is wrong. But, that was in the old testament, which there are a lot of things (like sacraficing animals) that christians dont follow. I have a problem with this, because christians believe in 'loving everyone' yet theyll condemn homosexuals. I myself am not christian, just more spiritual. But I do believe you could maybe search for churches who are accepting of it.
unlike the advisor said before me, I would not suggest trying to live straight. Its not who you are, and it would not only hurt you, but other people also (like your wife, children...etc).
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Rena-Chan answered Friday May 27 2011, 8:57 am: I am not a very religious person, but I have a friend who is in your same position. He is a very devout Christian, but, like you he is also a homosexual. He still had children, but later his wife left him due to his "problem". He has never been with a man before, as he believes strongly in god. He just goes on with his life normally. Granted, he doesn't have a mate now, but he feels even if he is a homosexual, that so long as he kept himself from doing "impure" deeds, god will accept him regardless. Just believe strongly in your faith and still try to go on with your life.
(Please forgive this latter answer)
If you feel that you cannot keep yourself from doing such deeds, perhaps you should consider (I'm sorry) denouncing your faith in Christianity.
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