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Death of my Dog :'(
My dog died last September. I'm 15 and I had him since I was 4. He was like a best friend to me whenever I was sad he would help me get through it. This year has been really emotional and I think his death is a big part of it. I've asked for a new dog but my parents have refused to get me any kind of animal. What can I do so that I can by happier?
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It's true, Dogs are mans best friend, I remember my first dog diieng when I was about 10 and hed been around since I was born so I sunk into a deep depression, nobody noticed of course because I was so young, but it got better, it took a long time but I could shift my attention to other things and I have not once forgotten him or any of the dogs we have had.
I know that they are such special pets and people that don't have one can never fully understand just how much love and care they give, keeping us safe and comforting us in times of need, but biologically, a human will always outlive their dog (assuming both die of natural causes) and it's a sad fact but it's true. The best thing to do is just be patient, focus on the happy memories, talk to him as though he were still around but always remember, where he is now is a happy place where he can look after you from above. As for the new pet, give it time again, he was not just your dog and your parents are probably upset too, it's very easy to go and buy a new pet after one has passed away but my personal experience knows its best not to, as all your emotions and expectations leap to the new puppy,
"why can't he do that? our old dog could do that."
Once everyone has healed from the heartache, I am sure your parents will be willing to give a pup (or a dog from a shelter) a loving new home. I truely hope you find comfort and overcome this difficult stage of life
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I couldn't imagine what my life would be like without by dog, that's my little baby! I would be the same exact way as you are. It's normal for you to feel upset though. I wish there was a way to "get over it" and just be happy again, but it takes time. You won't forget your dog but he will always be in your heart :) Keep yourself busy and you won't think about it as much. Just remember that your dog is in a better place right now and that he's not suffering. When the time is right, your parents will let you get another dog. It's probably hard on them as well that's why it's hard to move on. It'll get better, don't worry.
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Go out and do something fun for yourself, maybe just have a relaxing day at the beach or hang out with friends. Happiness isn't something you find it really is within you.. remember that time heals all wounds and it may not seem like it now but you will be happy again :]
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