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a wedding or france?
This week i was informed that i have been selected to go to France and study frence with a honors program. It is an opertunity of a life time. The problem is that my brother is getting married at the time i would be in France. So should i go to my brothers wedding and miss out or go to France and miss hiw wedding?
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it's wonderful ,wearing my wedding dress during my wedding that can be a perfect day.
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Go to France! This is, IMHO, a no-brainer.
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A wedding is just one day. Yes, it's a very important day, but it wouldn't change your life forever.
Going to France to study would change your life forever. It could give you a boost in your future, and help with your proficiency in a second language.
If someone can't attend your brother's wedding, do you think he'll be put off for too long? Will his soul be tormented day in and day out because you weren't there? Not at all. He knows what kind of an opportunity you have in this study program, and it would be selfish to demand that you give that up so you can be there.
My fiance was the best man at a wedding, but couldn't be there because he was deployed. He ended up recording a video speech to send to his friend. You could make a little video, or even have someone Skype the ceremony!
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France. While you're there, you can hit up Gojira for me and find out their progress on their follow up to 2008's epic The Way of All Flesh.
But in all seriousness, I'd go to France. Besides, the odds are pretty good he'll get married again eventually.
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this is just my opinon, but i would go to your brothers wedding. try switching the situation around. what if you were going to get married and your brother might go to france? wouldn't you want him to come to the wedding? instead of france? i bet it would mean the world to him :) you have the opportunity to go to france for the rest of your life.. but how many times is your brother going to get married?? not that many i'm assuming. what if you do go to france and then you come back and everybody is talking about how amazing the wedding was? wouldn't you feel left out and bad that you missed it?
good luck! :)
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honestly...families comes first out of anything in the world..so you decide :p
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