I've had two abortions previously and they have been very expensive $$$. I just found out that I'm pregnant again and I don't want the baby and so my first thought was to have another abortion right away. I called the clinic and they gave me the same estimate as the previous time and I really don't have that kind of money right now and don't know how I can come up with the money. Is there a way I can get a cheap abortion or something really low-cost? I just turned 18 a couple of weeks back so I don't think my parents insurance would cover it or anything either so that's kind of out of the question I think. I don't think I can ask my parents for money for the abortion this time because they already paid for the first one I had.
aybabtu answered Saturday July 24 2010, 2:57 am: Missy is right about... well... pretty much everything. If you don't want to get pregnant and end up spending loads of cash on abortions, use condoms. They're MUCH cheaper.
There's no such things as a cheap abortion, and even if there was, I wouldn't get any form of surgery "cheap". I'd want a doctor who's able to take a little pride in their work.
The cheapest you can get, which I am completely 100% against, is a good hard kick to the stomach.
So my suggestion: Get an abortion, it won't be cheap. But use condoms from now on. It's better to spend a little money on those all the time than hundreds to thousands of dollars on an abortion every once in a while. [ aybabtu's advice column | Ask aybabtu A Question ]
MissYMelisS answered Thursday July 22 2010, 4:29 pm: First off, start using a condom. This is the third time you've had an abortion? How can you keep messing up like this?
Your not going to find a cheap version of an abortion. The only "cheap"-er version is the pill, but you are probably to far along for that to work.
Peeps answered Thursday July 22 2010, 2:26 am: I very much think you are serious.
I went to school with a girl who had something like 6 or 8 abortions before she turned 21. True fact.
The problem is that I suspect you think you're being responsible by having the abortions immediately after finding out that you're pregnant. For some reason, a lot of young people think that abortions mean acting responsibly. It is not.
Having an abortion is suppose to be like a last-resort. You used condoms, took birth control pills, chose your sexual partners wisely, and wind up getting pregnant and are in a terrible situation (no job, no home, no anything). I can understand those feelings of being lose, confused, and scared.
A lot of young people convince themselves that they are in bad situations though. They convince themselves that they tried their best to make the right choices regarding sexual activity. This is why we have lots of young people like yourself abusing abortions and morning-after pills (which, did you know you're not suppose to take more than 1 of those each year according to some studies? And some girls take lots and lots. Then again, for all I know, you've taken plenty of morning-after pills as well).
The truth is: Someone wants your baby.
Someone out there is infertile. Infertility is becoming a problem for many adults in the U.S. and worldwide. There is some person out there that would absolutely love to have the chance to adopt a newborn. Newborns have a HUGE chance of getting adopted because they're still very cute, fragile, and who can't say no to a giggling baby anyway, right?
Adoption is your answer.
Real responsibility is your answer.
Your being careless about your body or this wouldn't have happened so many times. I know lots of people have sex at a young age and maybe your other abortions happened when you were 13 or something. I know it can be pretty frightening to feel pressured by the media into having sex and then, later, having abortions. You have to make a change though. You have to have some self-respect. You absolutely must make better life decisions or you're not going to amount to much other than a woman who repeatedly caused the death of innocent beings.
So, I do have some references regarding abortion and how damaging it can be. Just like a user below said: you can DIE from an abortion. It can take the life of the being inside of you AND YOU. It's really as simple as that. Possibly dying is not better than giving a baby up for adoption.
Read through this link, watch the videos, and take the right steps to be a better you:
There is no sense in taking another life because you've been making some bad choices and mistakes. It's OK to take more responsibility for yourself, give birth to this baby, and let it be with loving adults who will cherish every moment they have with him/her.
There is no cheap abortion. All abortions will rob you of your health, sanity, emotional development, and other very serious things. Give up on the abortions and go for adoption. It's free, safe, and you can make someone extremely happy. [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
MAK answered Thursday July 22 2010, 1:43 am: What is it with all your fake questions?
Sex makes your boobs bigger, peeing prevents pregnancy, the chlamydia one, tanning with a tampon, pads in the water, etc, etc, etc.
If you're spending all this time making up questions for your amusement, I really suggest you do something better with your time.
Edit: judging from the variety of questions you submit, and the different ages you say you are (13 wtih some, 16, 22... virgin, whore... etc). I mean you really think your questions sound believable? [ MAK's advice column | Ask MAK A Question ]
JesusFreakGirl answered Thursday July 22 2010, 1:38 am: First off, after having two abortions I'm surprised you're still capable of getting pregnant. Usually abortions can harm your body in a way that can prevent you from having children later in life. Secondly, a "cheap" abortion would definitely hurt you, hurt you badly, and possibly kill you due to either damage or infection. Girls die all the time getting the "cheap way out". Also, I'm sad that you don't want your child. There are so many people who want children terribly but can't have them. Its a gift to be capable of having children while others cannot. So, I'd personally say to reevaluate everything and consider giving the child away this time, it could change someone else's life and make thier dreams come true, it could be such a beautiful gift you could give someone else. If you are dead set against continuing the pregnancy, I just advise you to not look for an easy cheap way out. Its not safe (well, no form of abortion is safe) If you don't want to allow life to grow and be given to someone else, at least look after your own life. (and the healthiest, safest thing for your own health really would be to attempt to have the baby. Its a natural thing that a woman's body generally wants to do and will fight to do.)
I know it isn't what you wanted to hear, but its my genuine advice without going into my personal beliefs.
Here's a link that has a list of known women who died due to abortions in a safe clinic setting with a real professional doctor... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
and I also read that in regards to unsafe/illegal/cheap abortions, 70,000 women die every year, recorded. Think of how many women die that no one is informed of. Its not safe. At least protect yourself. [ JesusFreakGirl's advice column | Ask JesusFreakGirl A Question ]
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