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Hi... this may sound really lame but I need some advice. Background:
I am a junior in HS
Overweight
Unhappy w/ my life
I just want to be my old self.. I don't wanna be the big girl anymore.. I have tried dieting but I give up with the lacking results.
I have considered skipping breakfest and lunch and only eating supper. One meal. But then again I thought that's crazy I shouldn't have to starve myself to get results... but i would just like some imput... what to do once you have had a bad day.. motivation anything.. I don't wanna hit "rock bottom " I just wanna be happy again
16/f
C.D.
Well, I wouldn't recommend skipping meals as that can be unhealthy. What would work is a combination of dieting(not just controlling what you eat, but how much of it), and exercising. It doesn't even have to be a lot of exercise, just enough to help the diet out a little bit.
It may seem like it takes a while, but most people actually lose weight faster this way than they do by starving themselves. Plus, starvation leads to things like anorexia, which can cause serious permanent damage. And working out will get you into good shape, instead of going from overweight to underweight.
Good luck with getting into better shape. I hope this helped.
~Aybabtu
if u can just leave me your skype name and when ur usually on and i'll try to get in touch with you..i kinda wanted to have like a live convo instead of messages know what i mean?
Yeah. I understand that. I'm not on very often, but I'm up pretty much around the clock, so I'll be checking in as often as I can. So here's my id: as_seen_on_radio Yes, I know it's weird, but my friends came up with it.
So anyway, I'll be checking whenever I can, and if you see me online, just say something.
hi i asked you the too emotional question. i was wondering if you had aim or something that we could talk on to talk about it a little more?
Actually, I don't have aim, but I do have skype. And skype isn't just video chat or phone calls, I think there's a text chat option too. So we could do that, or if you're comfortable with it, you could send me a message on facebook. Which would you prefer?
Actually, if you want you could just ask me questions through here.
Hi, this might take a while to explain. I have this problem where my emotions go crazy. For example this one girl i really like we hang out and right when she leaves i feel the world is ending i get upset wanan cry get all flippy/upset and dont know what to do.I feel like my emotions are to stong. Its the same way when i get really happy i act like someone buzzing on drugs or something. I dont know what to do. This ruined my last relationship i get mad and upset when the person does something without me because i miss them and stuff. Im really a nice person and im not jealous my emotions go crazy and i cant help it. I dont know what to do? how do i stop this? i cant take it anymore its getting too annoying. Like she sat there and told me we can hang out and stuff next week and was fine and i wanna be like that like carefree about stuff. I get too attached and too upset easily, way to easily. Please help. Ps if i talk to my doctor, is there anything he can put me on to help with it?
Please help
You're just naturally an emotional person, which isn't bad in itself, but can have some effects on your life like what you've described.
In my opinion, someone that cares about you shouldn't mind the emotions and they should be able to understand.
But if you really want to try to change this, you could try focusing on other things. Like finding something you're good at. This way your emotions will be a little more spread out. If this doesn't work, your doctor should be able to help you.
My older brother is the same way because he has ADHD and a little bipolar(which you might not be), and the doctors helped him.
I hope this helps.
~Aybabtu
20 female.
So I've never been fingered until two weekends ago because i'm so self conscious about my vagina. I'm going to be honest..I feel like my labia hangs lower/is longer than normal. I didn't know if it was just me being insecure or if they really were (I think they are). Well when this guy fingered me it was fine and then all of a sudden he goes: oooooh extra long. and i was like umm what? and he didn't really say anything. So then I was so embarassed because i'm almost positive he was talking about my labia, the only thing that i'm self conscious about. But he still offered to go down on me- I didn't let him. I'm a bit embarassed to see him now because was that a turn off to him? Was that what he was even talking about? Should I be worried? I just don't know..
Do I let him do it again, he was definitely good at pleasuring me but now I'm worried to have him touch me again because of my insecurities about it! But he didn't seem too bothered by it, he just made that statement and kept going??
Don't worry about it. From the way you described the situation, it sounds like he liked it. Otherwise he probably would have started acting like he was uninterested or just stopped all together.
So he either doesn't care either way and was trying to compliment you, or he likes it.
You know the show "we got married"? where can I find videos like this that are English sub-titled?
I really want to watch more but my English is better than my Korean (I am Japanese.)
Thanks!
You should check www.veoh.com/collection/wegotmarriedengsubs . I'm not sure about the quality of the site, but if it doesn't work just Google "we got married english subbed". There are tons of results.
there is this nasty website i dont like its called topix it ruined peoples lives by allowing childish baby talk like gossip trolling and harassment and trash talk is there anything i can download to block it worldwide so nobody can access please help me and dont tell me i cant
DangerNerd is right. There is no way for you to block or delete the website yourself. The only way to do so is to contact the organization that DN told you about and let them analyze it. If the website is doing anything illegal, it may be deleted or blocked from use in the U.S. But if there's nothing illegal going on, chances are it won't be deleted.
In that situation, deletion of the site would be unconstitutional. Hiding behind the freedom of speech and abusing it is how sites like Topix and Formspring get away with this.
~Aybabtu
how do you charge your physical body with energy
That depends on what type of "energy" you mean. There are many beliefs about this. There is the Asian chi(or qi) which is developed from your chakras(also another Asian belief). Chakra development usually takes years, and very few who train their entire lives can master it.
This is just one of the many beliefs, and it is one of the most popular. If you look up how to develop your chakra on google you could find some good sources, but often the best sources are REAL kung fu martial artists. Nothing like "Joe's Red Dragon Tae Kwon Do", but masters of arts such as wing chun, the animal forms, and Shao Lin martial arts.
Ok so when a guy asks "will you go out with me?" what do they mean? Do they mean "do you wanna be my girlfriend?" or "do you wanna go on a date with me?" and if it's the date one, how do you tell the guy that you wanna be their girlfriend bt your parents won't let you go out on dates? Anyone know?¿?¿?¿ thankyou in advance.
As a guy, I can tell you it depends on the guy. And generally, you can just tell them. Trying to come up with some excessively long explaination could actually just annoy him. So just be honest.
If Your A Virgin Can U Still Get Pregnant The 1st Time?
Yes, actually, you can.
i mean why do they do health class. if no one knew what sex is or what condoms were and stuff like that then they wouldnt do it. i mean no one would know unless people told them. i mean they should tell them when they are older. i mean i dont mind learnin about it but they complain when people get raped and stuff but its really their fault cuz their the ones teaching it
There was actually more rape before they started educating people. It's natural instinct. People will do it anyway, so it's best to teach the consequences before they do anything. Animals don't have health/sex ed, and they all reproduce. It's genetic memory.
ok so i just want to know somethings. 1) my friends are in majorettes, i am too, well sometimes on the way home from competitions we would play truth or dare. we mostly dared each other to kiss. like only for a few seconds. does that mean i am bi or a lesbian if i liked it like i dont want to date a girl and i dont like girls but i get turned on by them. 2) when i masturbate it doesnt feel that good, i want it too anyone have any suggestions? like i tried the shower head and i went on websites like coolnurse clitical.com, any other websites u know of? thanks!
It doesn't mean you're bisexual or lesbian, because generally any sexual activity will arouse you. Or you could be curious. And I can't answer the question about masturbation because I'm a guy.
what's the diference between masturbating, having an orgazum and cuming?
Masturbating is when you use your hand, or some other object, to pleasure yourself. Orgasming and "cumming" are both the same thing. It's when you reach a climax (or highest point) of sexual pleasure.
will getting ate out show up when i get my pap smear test?
Isn't a pap smear a test for cancer or disease? In any case, no, it won't.
ohkay so my boyfriend that is 21 and im only 14 wants my to do some itiment things with him. and i think that i am a little to unexpercince because he has banged before. also me and my best freind just kissed the other day and she is a girl. but i am not a lez. at least i dont think so??? im soo comfuesed! also i just threw up al of my dinner and i am 5 7 and only weigh 77 pounds. and tonight after dinner i wouldnt clean up so my dad threw on the gound and hit with the spatuala! but i love him i am his lil angle. addition to that somethimes he ask me to "suck it" and he bought me and my older some sex dice... i am under a lot of stress so my question is... do i have sex?? become by? start eating? tell a cop about my dad??? please help that would be so great i am soo dearly confessed??
This is serious. You need to start eating, and not throwing it up after. If you don't, this can eventually lead to death or serious health issues.
You also definitely need to contact the police or social services about your dad. When he's not home, call one of them and tell them what he does to you. They'll walk you through it. And whatever you do, DON'T let him find out what you plan on doing. I know someone whose dad got so bad he would beat them until they were spitting up blood.
And please, for your own mental health, don't have sex with your boyfriend. He's way too old for you. He's 7 years older than you. That's half your life of a difference.
Please, do this for yourself. Too many people wait too long before they do something.
how can u tell sum 1's a virgin?
If it's a guy, you can't. You just have to trust them. If it's a girl, the hymen - which is a thin layer of skin over the vagina - will still be there. When a girl or women has sex for the first time, it tears and doesn't grow back. Try looking up some diagrams if you're still confused.
what's an orgie or orgasm? i never quite understood what those meant.
An orgasm is the highest point (or climax) of sexual pleasure. An orgie (or orgy) is a party involving sex and usually drugs.
ok look this may come off kinda sick but i dont no who else to turn too. you see my dog is a chocolate lab and i love him to death. the problem is i think i love him too much. some times i sleep nude.... and he sleeps in the bed with me and like in the beggining of the month i woke up and i was wet and i think he "came" in me. i havnt had my period yet and it usualy comes the second week WHAT SHOULD I DOO!!!! I think i might be pregnate
Good news! It was proven long ago that humans and dogs can't reproduce! It's physically impossible for your dog to get you pregnant. Think about it this way: Humans have 23 chromosome pairs(46 chromosomes). Dogs have 39 pairs(78 chromosomes). Your DNA can't even combine to create a placenta. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine.
Im confused i wantto kno what dry sex is? i mean what is it? having sex with colth on how do you do that? with cloth on..it makes no scense..i feel so small
It's basically just being naked and doing sexual things without any insertion(vaginal, anal or oral).
okay so i am a complete white girl and my boy friend is african american. i love him more then anything in the world. we both wanna have sex but i am really nervous so i opted for giving him head. im nervous because my friend nahojay was like " you gotta kno how da black boyz like it" and i DONT! and i know that african americans have really big.. well you know. and like how do i do it? if its so big and what if i do it wrong. i dont want to look like such a loser please help? p.s hes like one of those bad boy types. like verii ganster. its hot :} ok help
First, I need to tell you something very important so you're not surprised. The whole, "black guys have big penises" thing, it's not necessarily true. It's actually no more true than saying that about any other race. It's a little racist of nearly everyone to think it is true.
Second, and I've had to say this to multiple people, everyone is different. It's actually racist to assume all black guys like it the same.
So this is my advice: Try to get over your prejudice thoughts.