So I've never been fingered until two weekends ago because i'm so self conscious about my vagina. I'm going to be honest..I feel like my labia hangs lower/is longer than normal. I didn't know if it was just me being insecure or if they really were (I think they are). Well when this guy fingered me it was fine and then all of a sudden he goes: oooooh extra long. and i was like umm what? and he didn't really say anything. So then I was so embarassed because i'm almost positive he was talking about my labia, the only thing that i'm self conscious about. But he still offered to go down on me- I didn't let him. I'm a bit embarassed to see him now because was that a turn off to him? Was that what he was even talking about? Should I be worried? I just don't know..
Do I let him do it again, he was definitely good at pleasuring me but now I'm worried to have him touch me again because of my insecurities about it! But he didn't seem too bothered by it, he just made that statement and kept going??
bliz answered Sunday August 8 2010, 8:02 pm: Labia are like noses and ears - they vary widely and they are all normal.
Some women have inner labia that do not extend beyond the outer labia. Some women have labia that extend way below the outer labia. Some inner labia are very think, and some are very thin.
If some guy really loves you, your labia length will not matter to him. If he's put off by this he's not interested in you. [ bliz's advice column | Ask bliz A Question ]
aybabtu answered Sunday August 8 2010, 4:57 pm: Don't worry about it. From the way you described the situation, it sounds like he liked it. Otherwise he probably would have started acting like he was uninterested or just stopped all together.
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