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is there anyway I can get him to like me
There is this guy I have my eye on. I'm in 7th grade. Some what pretty. We talk and stuff and mess around. But he is going out with my best friend!!! So I know this is going to sound soo stuck up but is there anyway I can get him to like me, because i dont think she is good for him. We were doing a school performance and him and i were backstage hanging out and it was dark and he reached over and held my hand and scooted closer. and asked if i had a bf. I thought he liked me... what should i do???
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First off, figure out who means more to you. Your best friend- who will always be there for you- or this guy- who probably won't stay too long, guys come and go.
If you come to think that your bff is more important, then tell the guy you're really not into him.
If you think this guy is more important, you're gonna be stuck. You have to tell him you like him, and then break it to your best friend and hope she understands.
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ok, so your in a rut. Totally been there. I think it truly depends on how bad yo want this guy. I mean if you are willing to risk a best friend for him you must be head over heels. First decide who means the most to you. I am pretty sure he likes you to but do you feel like you should tell your friend what he did? I think you don't sound stuck up you really care about this guy in order for you to say that your bestie is not good for him. Tell them both how you feel..... good luck
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Please Don't do anything stupid, for two reasons. One you will have a bad rep as a "backstabber." Two You probably will lose your best friend by doing things like that. Do you want to lose your friend? I have been backstabbed like that before, it's not fun..or fair. He chose her ..not you. He might have feelings for you..So what you don't think there right for each other..maybe they won't but let them break up on there time. Don't try anything because I gurantee something bad will happen. Just be his friend.
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Emily <3
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I think that you should talk to your friend about this. He's not being faithful to her by being overly friendly to you. You're still pretty young in the dating world so you're going to learn a lot of things about guys like that the older you get. Just think of it like this, say you got your way and he dumped your friend for you, (this would of course hurt your friend and you'd risk losing your friend for a guy that won't be around for ever whereas maybe she would have been). But if things worked out the way that you wanted who's to say that he wouldn't turn around and do what he's doing to her to you. It's basically a proven fact that if you start seeing a guy while he's with someone else that he is going to do the same thing to you. He might even turn around and do it to his current girlfriend while he was with you. Sounds like you both deserve better than that.
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Have you ever heard the term "bros before hoes"? It goes for girls, too.
Is she really your best friend? Because I could never try to win over my friend's boyfriend, and would put him in his place if he tried flirting with me.
Really, the honourable thing to do would be to tell him next time he does something like that that you don't have a boyfriend, but he does have a girlfriend, and she's your best friend.
Even if he breaks up with her, you probably shouldn't date him, at least not for quite a while. These sorts of things are touchy.
Boys will come and go, but your friends (especially your besties) are forever! Don't ruin a friendship (or maybe more, because you could lose other friends if you do this) for dating some guy.
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I hate the be the bearer of bad news, but you can't have him.
He's dating your best friend, and whether you think they're good for each other or not, they're together. If you really cared about your best friend, you'd accept the fact that he is her boyfriend rather than try to make a move on him regardless.
I guess you could wait until they break up to try and date him, but make sure you ask her if it's okay first. Dating a friend's ex without permission is a pretty big unwritten rule when it comes to friendship & dating.
But to be honest, you can't get him to like you. If he does like you, cool, but if not, you can't change that.
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You should get your priorities straight. Who is more important to you, your best friend or this boy? You can only choose one.
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