Member Since: April 22, 2010
Answers: 12
Last Update: April 30, 2010
Visitors: 1146
|
| |
|
There is this guy I have my eye on. I'm in 7th grade. Some what pretty. We talk and stuff and mess around. But he is going out with my best friend!!! So I know this is going to sound soo stuck up but is there anyway I can get him to like me, because i dont think she is good for him. We were doing a school performance and him and i were backstage hanging out and it was dark and he reached over and held my hand and scooted closer. and asked if i had a bf. I thought he liked me... what should i do??? (link)
| |
I think that you should talk to your friend about this. He's not being faithful to her by being overly friendly to you. You're still pretty young in the dating world so you're going to learn a lot of things about guys like that the older you get. Just think of it like this, say you got your way and he dumped your friend for you, (this would of course hurt your friend and you'd risk losing your friend for a guy that won't be around for ever whereas maybe she would have been). But if things worked out the way that you wanted who's to say that he wouldn't turn around and do what he's doing to her to you. It's basically a proven fact that if you start seeing a guy while he's with someone else that he is going to do the same thing to you. He might even turn around and do it to his current girlfriend while he was with you. Sounds like you both deserve better than that.
|
Hello,
I have a car charger for my 2001 mitsubishi eclipse and i plugged it in the lighter, it worked for about two seconds then the clock on the dash went out, and so did the lighter. The radio still works, but i cannot see the time or radio station. I checked every single fuse (on the left of the drivers side and under the hood) and the fuses are fine..What could this be? Any solution?
Thanks (link)
| |
if it isn't a fuse then it's probably a short in one of the wires. i'd take it to a car shop and ask them to take a look at the wiring under the dash board maybe?
|
I just moved here 2 months ago from New Jersey to Texas and barely anyone knows me.. I was thinking about going all out with a big campaign, introducing myself to many people, putting up funny posters, and handing out flyers. Theres 2 other people running against me.. I talked with the principal and there's only the Secretary position left that nobody's running for, but I know I will make a great president because I have a lot of great ideas, and Im dedicated, creative, and a good leader. We arent doing any speeches so I was thinking about going around lunch introducing myself to everyone and stuff.. Im a bit worried though since a bunch of people's first impression of me running is me camapigning. but im nice and everything.. i wont just say hi to them now and ignore them later. im just a bit shy now. i want to represent what they want fixed in the school.. I already have some ideas of what I can do, like with a suggestions box and taking polls and stuff like that. I've been to 8 schools in 3 different countries, so Im more cultured and everything than my opponents who may not have even left America, much less the state, or lived in oter places. Its a great advantage. I want to do a career in International Relations when Im older, so being president could help me get into college too I guess.. more than Secretary. Because we'll be the same people running for next year, so I'd rather run for president now than run against someone when we'd been working together throughout the year.. and then i like backstab them and try to get their job. Its the schools FIRST ever school election.. im worried about if people are like "whos this new girl from new jersey coming to change everything about texas, what does she know about life here" but im not gonna be like my way runs everything.. would you think that if someone new came to your school and ran? Blahhh.. please help. I have to set up everything this weekend before school on Monday. People so far know Im good in school.. overachiever i guess.. idk about my other classes but I have 96s in Math & English, and next year Im taking all the Dual-Credit classes I can (no AP), and then Honors everything else. Gosh please give me advice! Or call me a fool and tell me I should just run for Secretary? Idk! Ive never done this before but I know I can do it and I have the opportunity.. so why not right?
*Its a small school btw (link)
| |
You're obviously a really smart girl and just by reading this I'd vote for you ;)Maybe since nobody is running for secretary yet you could talk to your principal and see if there is a way to do the voting and campaigning seperately so if you weren't able to become president you could compete again to be secretary afterwards. Other than that I think letting people know that you've got a lot of experience in different schools around the world is a huge benefit compared to other people running. The only thing that I can think of that might be to your disadvantage though is that being a new student a lot of kids are probably just going to vote for the person that they know instead. Definitely make yourself known and get out there and introduce yourself a lot. Maybe even put together some kind of a party that you could invite the classmates to if at all possible? Best of luck to you though :)
|
|
I'm gonna trim around my eyebrows and before i do i was wondering if theres any tips that may be out ther for me? BTW my eyebrows arent too bad, the hair doesnt grow so much/often,thanks in advanced (link)
|
Try this website, it's similar to how I learned to do my eyebrows...
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/hairstyles-beauty/skin-care-makeup/how-to-shape-eyebrows
not sure if it will show as a link or not so you might have to copy and paste it ;)
|
This is super pathetic:
So I dated this guy for three weeks. We only really knew each other for like, a week and a half, but we started things really fast. Everything was going really well and i was super happy. But then randomly two weeks ago, he dumped me and i didn't really get an explanation as to why. It's been two weeks and im STILL stressing about it. I know we barely knew eachother (which is probably why it didnt work out), but its been a while and i still like him. He said we could be friends, but when i try to talk to him he totally blows me off. How can i stop stressing about him and move on? Thanks so much ♥. (link)
| |
Well the other two answers so far are really good reasons as to maybe why it happened so I'll just stick to your questions on it. I'm also assuming that you slept together based on moving really fast so in that case, I think the best thing to do to stop stressing about it is to think of it like this, he doesn't respect you enough to give you a reason why you aren't together anymore therefore he's not really worth your time anyways. If he did respect you he would have told you or he would at least have the courtesy to not blow you off everytime you see him. Just think of it as lessoned learned and take things slower next time and get to know the guy better before putting so much emotion and feeling into it. Not saying to take things slower than a turtle walks necessarily but when you take your time and make sure that you know the guy good and that he knows you good as well then the guy will be a lot more likely to respect you and treat you with the dignity you deserve. Good luck with everything :)
|
|
My friend was in rehab for a few months and I was not allowed to have any contact with her. So, in that tine frame, I kind of have a new best friend. I got really close to this one girl, and she's probably a better bestie then theo ther ever was. My old bff was secretive, a liar, and ha horrible mood swings. She had a lot of great qualities too, but I'm just worried if anything will be remotely the same. She was my best friend, but I've kind of moved on. I still will befriends with her but not really bffs.. I'm also one of her only friends. She has like two others besides me. How do I handle this? Should I stick with her even though I don't really want to? (link)
| |
Considering that she went to rehab I'm assuming she had some mental or addiction problems. Either of these issues can effect a person's emotional well being and being in rehab may have helped her to find other ways to deal with situations that she may have been secretive or lied about as well as her mood swings. I definitely say give her another try, that doesn't mean that she has to be your best friend again but she was your friend for one reason or another even with her negatives so at least give her another chance. She probably needs healthy friends to be healthier herself. If things don't seem to be better with her after some time then decide what to do from there. No one expects you to surround yourself with an unhealthy person that might bring you down either. But definitely give her a shot.
|
17/m
So I live alone with my mother, and I am more so an independent spirit.
The thing is my mother is
~nosy, she has to know every minute detail...if I go upstairs she always has to know why, etc...
~Stubborn, I try to help her, I try to advise her with what i know will help, but she is too stubborn to get help sometimes.
~Picky. Its like she chooses everything I wear and each decision I make, she told me to ask for a higher amount on my hourly wage than minimum, and that shot down my chance of getting that job.
I know they say mothers know more than teenagers think they do but at a point it just gets overbearing.
Its almost like we never talk, or whenever we do its naggy. I'm fed up and ready to say good riddance when I graduate Sr. year.
So what do I do?
(link)
| |
I agree with OhMyLucyDarling, if that doesn't seem to help the situation then maybe it is time to become a little more independent? Try looking into a college after graduation that has dorm rooms but still remember that just because mom isn't there doesn't mean that she won't still be your mother and looking out for your best interest. Someday once you're out on your own you'll miss it ;)Hopefully talking to her works though. good luck!
|
Ugh it's so annoying; my ears have been all blocked up since a school trip on Wednesday. We took a plane and my ears, of course, got blocked up. Really bad. It's getting pretty hard to hear.
And on top of all that, I have a cold. My mom says it's from my cold, I think it's from the plane....anyways...owN
How do you pop your ears? Other than holding your nose and blowing, cuz that hasn't helped. Also, a way to decongest yourself.
I apreciate all comments :]
-M (link)
| |
yeah, it's probably a combination of the 2. Try tylenol cold and sinus and a hot bath.
|
|
M/18. I suffer from deep depression everyday of my life, nothing makes me happy and everyday I think about suicide. What should I do about this? (link)
| |
18 is a difficult age, there's a lot going on in your life- even if it seems like there isn't anything going on (if that makes any sense). I'm 22 and when I was 18 I felt like that alot of the time too, even now sometimes I still do. But one thing that I've learned with depression is that although you're feeling negative emotions and just really down that at least you're still feeling something. Practice being optimistic looking at things from a different perspective if at all possible. In my circumstance I know that you're constantly thinking, almost like you're in your own head too much and maybe evaluating things a little too closely. I think that you should definitely find someone to talk to about your thoughts and feelings, and if you don't feel close enough or comfortable enough to talk to someone you already know reach out to your community like a therapist or even a hotline. Talking helps, it really does. And just know that even when you feel really horrible that someday things will be better. Things always get better even when it seems that they won't. It's been proven to me over and over again. I hope that even one sentence in this helps you. Also a hotline to try is 1-800-273-TALK (8255). It's totally free and confidential. Think about some of the things that you used to enjoy doing or that made you feel good and try to get back into the habit of doing those, eventually you might find that you enjoy them again. Good luck hun, and keep writing :)
|
Hello, I am very shy around girls typically. Im in highschool and I play football(Im pretty built- just to describe myself- not to act conceited). Anyway,Im very shy around girls, and cant even talk to girls. There is a girl that I have my eye on, I see her at school and in the halls (she isnt in any of my classes). Also,I see her at the gym every now and then and she walks by me twice while im lifting. I dont know if thats her way to walk or if she is giving me a signal. I have never talked to her, but I think she knows my face because I see her at school and the gym. Also, I cant stop thinking about this girl. What im asking is, should I talk to her? if so where(gym or school)? what should I say? I dont want to come of as weird although im very shy. Please help me change my life for the better.
I really appreciate it. (link)
| |
Definitely talk to her! If you see her at the gym often then maybe do a machine or an exercise close by her while she's also working out and start a conversation with her about her work out and just keep the conversation flowing if you can't think of anything good to say then ask her questions after all you're trying to get to know her. See how the conversation between the two of you goes and then the next time you see her at the gym you'll feel more comfortable to say hello and talk to her and possibly bring up something like inviting her to your next football game or even ask for her phone number. good luck :)
|
My long-distance boyfriend and I broke up last friday, a week ago today. We both want to remain friends, but obviously it will take time. I decided what's best for me is no contact for awhile. At least until I'm a bit stronger, and can handle talking to him without crying everytime.
I've been doing okay, the only thing is..I have him on facebook. And he's added loads of new girls, and talks to them constantly, and blah blah. He seems like he's doing completely fine, while I'm struggling. But I'm the one who really wanted the break-up..he wasn't a nice person, and I was finally done with it. But I can't help missing him, we were together for a year.
Will this get easier? Should I keep not contacting him until I feel completely ready..even if that takes months and hes gone by then? Any tips on how not to think of him? I've tried avoiding the computer, obviously, since that's where I spent all my time talking to him. Please..any advice on what to do would really help. Thanks. (link)
| |
I read a quote one day that said something along the lines of "there's a reason the people from your past didn't make it to your future". If he wasn't a nice person and didn't treat you with the respect that you deserve then you obviously made the right decision and the hardest part about leaving that kind of a relationship is the after effects and staying strong. Negative relationships have a way of keeping people down one way or another, so I think that the best thing for you to do is to continue on without contact from him for as long as it takes you to get over him, regardless of how long that takes. If you've agreed to stay friends you'll find out how good of a friend he really is as well. Maybe you just don't need this guy in your life at all or only from a far distance. Definitely give it more time though, and ignore what he's doing on facebook if anything use it as a reminder for the reasons that you aren't in the relationship anymore. Stay strong, good luck :)
|
|
Ok me and my boyfriend just had sex 2 weeks ago and I don't get my period till next week. We didn't use protection and he cummed inside of me. When he told me he did I ran to the bathroom and tried to clean it out because I got scared. Can I end up pregnant? Please help me because I am really scared! (link)
| |
Everytime you have unprotected sex you run the risk of becoming pregnant, and although you tried to clean it out there's not really any way to get rid of it all. So yes, there is a possiblity that you could be pregnant but it'd be too soon to tell still. I say wait until the week of your period and if you don't get it within a week from the time you should then take a test. Until then there's nothing that you can do so there's no point on beating yourself up about it or stressing too much. It seems to me that you don't want to be pregnant so I hope that everything works out for the best for you, I know that feeling myself. All I can say is maybe take it as a lesson and remember protection next time ;) good luck.
|
|