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To be friends or nat to be?
I'm super pretty. Super skinny. All the boys drool over me. But I'm nawt popular, because in 5th grade, i was a total LBR and i befriended the lamest girl in my class. Now,were still friends and shes still and LBR. Most of my friends are super popular and i would luh-v to hang with them instead I'm expected to hang out with my LBR. So how do i gradually drop her without hurting her feelings?
Thanks!
xoxo Kellie
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Pull your head out of your ass, love.
If you want to ditch an old friend because you think you're super pretty, super skinny and want to be popular, you don't deserve her friendship anyway.
Why even go a nice way about it? She's going to be hurt either way. Just stop seeing her and go hang with your new chums.
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You're a low life, seriously, what a waste. Grow up and if you're younger than thirteen which is what it sounds like, then get the f off this site. I hate people like you.
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Wow that sounds really shallow.
Most intelligent guys find girls who are so willing to change themselves and hang out with the most popular people to be pathetic.
My advice, ditch your "super popular" friends and start making quality friends that will stick with you when you aren't so "super skinny" and "super pretty."
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Tell her that you're actually the loser because you seriously posted this question.
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Sorry hun, but there is no 'nice' way to ditch a long time friend.
If that's what you wanna do, that's cool. You shouldn't hang out with someone just because you feel like you have to, but don't fool yourself: Ditching her is going to be mean no matter how you try and do it.
The most decent thing you can do is give her the 'we've grown apart' bullshit line, and hope she meet some people she has more in common with then you.
If you are going to cut her out, be an honest bitch about it, and not a fake-nice-to-your-face bitch. Don't dress it up as though it's something it's not. That just makes you look fake and you'll hurt her even deeper with the confusion of why things have changed.
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Dont stop being her friend just because you want to hang out with the popular kids. If they cant accept who your friends with than they are true friends. Put yourself in her shoes, if you were "gradually dropped" just for the hell of it how would you feel? Unless she did something mean or annoying or some legitimate reason then dropping her as a friend is just mean and she could probably get a better friend. True friends are more important then popularity, remember this, most of those people you will never know again after high school, how about keeping at least one good friend even if she is considered lame. Dont let others pick your friends, you pick your friends.
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