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my love life
im 13 years old i need help because i went out with a girl and we dated for a little while we were friends before we went out but then when we broke up things were not the same i kept wanting to be her friend and she did too but then one dayshe suddenly
stoped talking to me. i want to be her friend but she does not return any of my textmessages what should i do?
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just give her some time.
it'll be hard - but she's probably still hurt from what happened.
it'll blow over very soon.
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hey i think its because she is still hurt for what happened between you two give her time and she will come around somtime promise. But let her have time to think leave her alone for awhile and see what happens and if she doens't want to be your friend just stick with that you don't want to make someone be your friend!
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A lot of guys would rather be friends with a girl they still care about, but for girls its a lot harder to be friends, and its easier to just forget you even exist. Especailly if they still like you but know that it wont work.
But talk to her and ask her if you could please still be friends. You would rather have her in your life as a friend than nothing at all. Tell her that you dont have to hang out all the time or anything but you would just like to talk to her once in a while.
Hope i helped =]
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I agree with venom, I wouldn't keep contacting her. There are probably a lot of really nice girls in your school, so why concentrate on the one who doesn't want to talk?
But, if you do see her in person, one day, you could ask her if there was something you did on that day that made her not want to be your friend, anymore? She must have a reason, even if it is something you don't even realize. Ask her why, and then accept her answer. She knows your number.
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I am sorry for your break-up and the fact that she is ignoring you. First, you have to understand that you can not force anyone to talk to you. If she doesn't want to talk to you then let it be..sit back, and wait. Normally when you ignore someone they want to talk to you more. If you stop calling and/or texting, she just may call or text you. If she doesn't, then she doesn't want to be your friend. You are 13 and have much time for relationships and friendships.. if you two don't work it out or become friends, you will look back on this and laugh about it.I encourage you to learn from this experience and use it for the rest of your life.. the lesson is this: Don't keep contacting a person who doesn't want to be contacted or doesn't wish to contact you back. It leads to future issues as you grow up and I know you aren't going to be a stalker or someone who harrasses people, ending up in court. "smile"
Good luck dearheart, keep your head up and keep it movin' baby! The world is yours...
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I am sorry for your break-up and the fact that she is ignoring you. First, you have to understand that you can not force anyone to talk to you. If she doesn't want to talk to you then let it be..sit back, and wait. Normally when you ignore someone they want to talk to you more. If you stop calling and/or texting, she just may call or text you. If she doesn't, then she doesn't want to be your friend. You are 13 and have much time for relationships and friendships.. if you two don't work it out or become friends, you will look back on this and laugh about it.I encourage you to learn from this experience and use it for the rest of your life.. the lesson is this: Don't keep contacting a person who doesn't want to be contacted or doesn't wish to contact you back. It leads to future issues as you grow up and I know you aren't going to be a stalker or someone who harrasses people, ending up in court. "smile"
Good luck dearheart, keep your head up and keep it movin' baby! The world is yours...
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