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what should i do, he wants me back
alright. me and my boy dated about two years..so so so amazing the first 6 months... then got a lil bumpy, then went down hill slowly ater a year kinda, then crashed close to two years. we fought a lot, i had a ton of anger because i would hear things about him, i didnt know to believe it or not, all i know is when we were together we were always fine thats why it was hard to let go. but we fought a ton.. and one day, it was over the limit and i just broke up with him told him i fuckin hate him never wanna talk to him again because he ditched me basicallyy...
that night he made out with another girl. the night we broke up over a text i was furious did nottt talk to him once period for over two months
i ran into him a few weeks ago.. he saw me, and ever since then hes been wanting me back bad.. he is always talking to me, hsa basically cut of all contact with girls.. he invites me everywhere, even though i dont go, ive been such a bitch and hes still staying around... i know how that the things i used to hear had to not have been true cause he came clean on everything.. thing is, he had sex with two people, one of the girls he double teamed with his guy friend... its bugging me. it replays in my head..
anyways i went over to his house the other dya, ended up stying longer than i expected, we talked about a lot.. i was not nice, he kept trying to kiss me hug me all that i was like no.. but he bought me food, bought us a movie, and i left halfway through it, he offered to give me massages offered to take me to get ice cream. even though i didnt show it at all i felt so bad caue i was being so mean to him cause of everything he did.
thing is, idk what to do. if he even deserves another chance, if i even wanna be with him again.. idk anything. im lost, hes already acting like towards me like were together again, i think its cause hes trying haard and thats the only thing he can think to show hes interested. i just dont know what to do.. any advice would be sooo awesome. thank you
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Women have amazing instincts. Listen to yours. They're obviously telling you that this guy is bad news and to back away. Those feelings of "ickiness" you have aren't because you're a b--ch or a snob, they are because your heart and your head are telling you this guy is selfish and isn't really interested in you as a person, but just in what you can "do" for him and his self-esteem. Run, don't walk, in the other direction and do NOT let him manipulate you into feeling guilty. Trust your gut, it sounds like you have a good one!
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i dont think you should. if this guy did that kind of stuff and your not over it then you shouldnt because it could cause problems in the futer. as for the guy try just being friends and see if in a while your ok w/him and see if hes honastly changed or if hes just doing the act to get you back
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