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How do I get over him?
so for all of you that answered to my previous post: "Should i tell him the truth?" i finally spoke to him today at school right before class at the end of the day. so i went up to him and said: "hey, can i talk to you for a minute?" then he said: "sure" so i said: okay, i don't mean to sound annoying but about that msg i sent you on msn about prom, i didn't mean to say it like that." then he said smiling: it's okay, it's okay, who cares. then i said: no, i only said that because i didn't want to look desperate. but i didn't mean it." then he said: it's okay. then i said(blushing): i know this might not matter to you,(then i put my hands to my face and said "omg") then he smiled and said: "this must be hard for you to say" then i laughed and said: i'm gonna be honest with you, but you were the one that made my night" then he was smiling for the whole time then i said: i know you don't like me like that but i just wanted to be honest so yea...then he kept smiling then he said: ok well thanx...have a nice day, then i said: okay, thanx you too. so i guess i have to get over him for real this time:( i just don't know how i'm going to get over him
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what worked for me is just to-
1.find something else that you can think about or spend your time doing, keep your mind off him.
2.when you DO think about him, tell yourself your over him
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You don't have to get over him. I have a friend with a similar problem but it seems like he may like you. Not trying to give you false hope. Maybe he dose not like you. Try to talk to him some more. Maybe you two could atleast be friends.
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I don't see why you have to "get over him."
I think it was nice that he made your night.
I think you made him feel great when you told him that.
But, it's like your expecting him to take you into his arms and carry you off into the sunset.
He is sensing that you really want this, and he isn't ready to move that fast, so now he is scared to say anything to you because he doesn't want to lead you on. You're lucky he's a gentleman.
You need to stop freaking out around him. He can sence your anxiety, I can sense your anxiety.
You tend to think of every situation as of the utmost importance, and he's not up to so much work.
Just chill. He obviously likes you because he danced with you. It was like he opened the door to getting to know you. So chill, and slow down a little.
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