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i love this boy and he says he loves me but he wont date me.
I am a 13 year old girl.I like this guy who says he loves me but when I asked him out he said no. I asked why if he loved me so much and he said its because theres this other girl.
I love this boy and cant seem to get over him no matter how much he hurts me (emotionally.) I hate how all of my friends say to just get over him when its not that easy, i need help figuring out what to do!
-Morgan<33
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oh gosh, i know exactly how you feel. When your friends say to get over him, but it's so hard to, especially when you like him a lot. But this guy doesn't love you if he's seeing another girl, and if he does he's trying to make you jealous for some dumb reason. But he's being very immature. He doesn't deserve you, and I know hearing that doesn't help because it never helps me. But the best trick to getting over someone is finding someone else :) So if he's with this girl, maybe you should try to find someone else to have fun with! Just a suggestion. But i hope this helps and it works out for you.
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hey. im almost 16 years old, so maybe you might know where im comming from. as you most likely know, boys mature slower than girls do. so when he tells you he loves you and all the other lovey dovey stuff, hate to break it to you but hes most likely lying because hes too immature and he wants to keep his status. i hate to agree with your friends but i think you should find a better guy. i hope i helped.
sarah catherine.
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wow im going through the same thing almost my ex boyfriend and i say i love you and stuff when i asked him to get back together he said no there's another girl and i want to get over him to.. and it's so hard so what i do is i have to erase him from my life how you do that cry it burst break down just let it all out then move forward take anything that would remind you of him and throw it stop contact with him and you need your friends you gotta go out have fun find a hobbie or do chores around the house get yourself moving to get your mind off him maybe do outside activities soon enough he'll slowly fade it might hurt alot but time will heal everything and who knows maybe with you doing activities and stuff you might find another guy at the same time (;
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You shouldn't waste your time on him! Yes, he may say he loves you. But obviously he's playing games. I know it's hard to just get over him so easily because you like him a lot, but it's something you must try to do. He's not worth the pain. You will definitely find someone a lot better!
Good luck!
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He may be nice but he has no clue what he wants. He's bad news for you and also for the other girl he supposedly likes. It's almost certain both you and the other girl are going to get hurt by the games he is playing.
He's immature and at 12 or 13 has no idea what he wants and is looking to have his cake and ice cream here. You can't let him screw with you and your emotions. Tell him flat out to make up his mind on who he wants to date or leave you alone. Be firm!
If someone loves you and wants to be with you they don't tell you this and then say the same to some other girl or go after her. What he's doing isn't fair and you should confront him.
It's hard to get over someone you like especially when you wanted a relationship so bad. Nobody said it was easy to forget and move forward. You have to do it though because the situation isn't right and you don't want to get hurt. Confront him, be firm and then tell him to leave you alone. That's about your only option for dealing with him. Lean on your friends for support.
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Hey Morgan..the truth is if a person truly loves you that "other girl" shouldn't matter and it shouldn't get in the way of you two getting together. I know its very difficult to get over someone who you like so much, but maybe its better if you try to move on. It may take some time but here are some things you could do:
1. Explore the field-meaning look for other guys out there...im sure there are some great people you've never noticed.
2. Hang out with your friends more, maybe having fun with your friends is all you need to move on.
3. Enjoy being single...its much more easier than being in a relationship.
HOPE I HELPED!!!!
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