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SISTER IN LAW DRAMA!!!
my sister in law really hates me... ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months and he recently got kicked out of his house and is living with my family and me...it wasn't entirely my fault though is friend was in on it to and he wasn't forced into anything...but his sister has been threatening me and saying that i fucked up his whole life and just making me feel like shit [[she lives in Idaho,were in Anaheim]] but still evrything she says makes me feel bad my boyfriend says to ignore her because she hormonal and pregnant but like i realy feel like telling her to shut the fuck up because she doesnt know what living in his house was like [[he was adopted..and hated it there]] so yea i kinda wanna yell at her but then i dont because my boyfriend and i would like to get married and i dont want to have an "i hate you bitch" relationship with her...so how can i tell her to butt out in a way that straight but no like fuck you kinda way??
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Just ignore her. My man's sister hates me and bitches about me to all her friends, but she doesnt threaten me and shes really nice to my face. You dont have to deal with her on a day to day basis so just dont. Your boyfriends needs to step up and tell his sister to shut up!
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Um, why are you talking to her, like, at all?
She isn't your sister-in-law. She's just his sister, who lives in Idaho. Why are you even talking to her!
Next time she call your home, don't speak to her just yell "Boyfriend! Your sister is on the phone!" then put down the receiver and let HIM deal with it.
Also, remind HIM, that you two are planning to get married, so at very least, he should ask his sister very firmly to be respectful of you. It's fine if she doesn't like you, but she doesn't get to tell you off. It's HIS job to tell her to back off and butt out, NOT YOURS.
Your job is to ignore her, and be friendly to her, and to let HIM deal with HIS relationship with her. You just back out and let the two of them fight it out, and expect him to stand up for you enough to expect his sister to be polite, and no violence or name-calling. If he can't do that, seriously consider if you want to marry a guy who thinks it's okay for people to treat you like crap.
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You can tell her in a more caln way instead of like cussing her out. And be more genlte with it but at the same time tell her straight up of whats whats. Make her understand that you love her brother you wouldnt do nothing to hurt me.
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Tell her something like this:: You know your brother and I are hoping to get married one day, I really love him and he really hated living at the house to begin with. I dont want to fight with you or argue with you. I just wish you would give me a chance and get to know me, I dont want you to hate me.
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