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How do guys really feel about virgins?
okay, so I am a 17 year old girl and a virgin. I've been in two relationships, only one of which I made out with the guy. Whenever we talked about sex he said that the fact that I was a virgin attracted him. I don't understand why he would say that. Do guys really think being with a virgin is attractive, it seems to me like it would be worse because, well... we have no experience.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Partly, its a feeling of accomplishment. If a girl gives you her virginity that puts you above the ranks of "normal" guys because you got to be first.
Its also kind of a possession thing, because guys like knowing only they have had you.
Its very, very common in younger guys because of reasons mentioned before. A girl who is a virgin has no clue what she's doing. Its easier to be confident around a girl who knows nothing, because you don't have to know much to beat her. You can screw something up or just generally not be that great and she probably won't know.
Older guys and guys with more confidence in bed will skew towards the same. People generally like being with inexperienced people when they themselves feel inexperienced. As you get to know what you're doing, it matters alot less.
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Yes guys do think that is attractive because they like being the only one. They like to know that you don't just give it up to any and everyone.They like having a girl who knows what she wants and not having any experience is partly the good thing for them. Most guys want to be in control when it comes to sex and you not having any experience can help them with that. But if you plan on giving it up to your guy, make sure that he is trustworthy and able to treat you with respect and like a woman before, during, and after the sexual encounter.
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Thanks for this question, i think the reason guys get attracted to virgin girls is because guys like girls who dont fling themselves anyhow and who dont just date or kiss any boy they meet
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Im a 16 year old dude virgin and proud of it. Yes, that is more attractive because guys (especially me) dont want to be with a girl who likes to fling herself around all the time. It also puts doubts in your relationship if your not a virgin. I know its harsh but true. You dont know if that person is gonna be honest with you because there into sex and your not. Keep strong and dont give in if its not what you wanna do.
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Some guys tend to think that virgins are hot, some prefer experience... it just depends on the guy.
Is he attracted to you and waiting for sex just because you are a virgin or is it the fact that he'll stick around once he's popped your cherry?
for your sake, i do hope that he's not just after the sex aspect (unless you are just after that too).
Don't worry about the experience bit, men will try and give you technique advicce to suit thier liking, (remember all men are different and they all like different things).. no one can expect you to know what you are doing on your first time, experience is just when you have done it for a while and gaining that
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all guys like virgin's better. first off, because virign's are tighter, in reference to the vagina. this makes it feel better for the guy. nice guys will like being with a virgin because it's an honor, the girl choosing to have their first time with that guy. a jerk will take pride in it, and think they're cool because they popped your cherry. either way, virgins are "clean" so to speak. guys like the fact that they can keep their legs closed.
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You're not a 17 year old skank... that's a turn on at any age
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Most guys I know like virgins better because virgins are "tighter" which pleasures the male more during intercourse. Some of them just like the idea of being your first. However, it really just depends on the guy. As for virgins having no experience, that's usually not a problem to guys. Any guy I would ask would say he'd rather "teach" you ha ha :) Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
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A good guy is going to feel honored if he is with a virgin. A jerk is going to think, "hey, I popped her cherry." You sound like you are smart enough to figure out who is who. One of the big reasons that your boyfriend told you that your being a virgin made him more attracted to you is because it shows that you have respect for yourself. You weren't taken in by all of those guys who wer trying to get in your pants, or all of the girls who were telling you it was so great. Virginity is a huge turn on.
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