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what was he doing?
[i didn't know whether to put this under love life or sex]
so last night me and my boyfriend were making out and somehow i ended up straddling him. he took off my shirt then my bra so then i took off his shirt. he started going down on me (still had pants on) and started taking off my pants...there i drew the line and said "not yet"..then he looked at me and said that he wasn't gonna do anything bad, so i said well what were you gonna do? and he said "idk i didnt really plan it i was just gonna wing it" ...what do you think that means? im almost positive he was planning on having sex because we didn't have a condom and he said he wasnt gonna do anything "bad"
my second question is, we were kind of like dry humping...like sex with pants on...i wouldnt be able to get pregnant from this right?
thank youuu for answering any of my questions
and were 17/f and 17/m if that has anything to do with it.
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He was probably going to eat you out.
and no you won't get pregnant from dry humping.
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He may not have been thinking sex.. he could have wanted to take your pants off to, finger you or eat you out.. theres other things you can do without having sex.
no you can't get pregnant from dry humping.
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I've winged it before too... it always ended where you thought it would.
Even if you didnt mean to, that stuff can get outta hand.
You cant get pregnant from dry humping, but remember... Spooning leads to forking
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Ive done that. In the heat of the moment, the continued removal of clothing just kind of happens. You usually aren't thinking much at this point, just going on instinct.
I would say, that had you been ok with it you quite possible would have had sex. He wasn't planning on going further than you might have wanted, he wasnt planning on going anywhere besides forward from where he was. Forward was to play with intimate bits to whatever degree was ok with you.
Who knows. Ive been told to stop because things progressed past where a girl was comfy. The thing to focus on is that you've got a boy who stopped the second you asked him to. Good sign, good kid. He likes you, he wants you, and he wants you to want whatever he does.
As far as pregnant, not likely. Sperm has to get inside the vagina, and the chances of them swimming through multiple layers of clothes is akin to the chance of a tornado hitting a junkyard and assembling a working car out of the scrap.
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Well if he didn't have his pants off yet, then he was probably going to eat you out. He peobably didn't know how to for real do it so that's why he said that he was just going to wing it, or try it.
Also no, there is no way you can. I mean you both have pants on so there is no way that he could get cum anywhere near your vagina, right?
Well I hope I helped, (:
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He wasn't thinking with his god-damn brain. He was thinking with his dick. His dick didn't have a plan, just a general trajectory.
Don't read to deeply into it. If you trust that your boy isn't such a moron that he would play a game like 'just for a second hunny', then trust that and believe him when he says he didn't have a plan, just some vague boundary he hadn't really thought out. That is probably the truth. He just got caught up in heat of the moment and knew the trajectory his dick wanted was naked! He wasn’t thinking on a deeper level then that.
You can become pregnant when semen (and to a very lesser extent 'pre-cum') comes into contact with your vaginal fluids. Sperm are not smart and do not have vagina radar, they just move vaguely forward if they find themselves in a liquid they can move vaguely forward in. If his liquids and your liquids don't touch, pregnancy is impossible.
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