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LONG RELATIONSHIPS
seems like everyone in this world can not just be with one person. they end up cheating. why are people like that?
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Though it doesn't happen often it does happen, I think that usually people, especially younger people, commit to soon and they don't have time to get to know one another. They dive right into relationships or marriage, then they lack communication and the relationship fails, because they can't talk about their problems and work through them. If any person works hard enough and wants to be with someone then they will.
I also think that it is this generation. People are never satisfied with what they have and they are more selfish. They worry about themselves and no one else, they are used to having everything to themselves and not having to work hard at anything. Relationships take time, effort, and unselfishness, and most people won't give it the attention they need.
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because everyone wants everything, especially what they can't have. people suck.
the end.
do whatever you want, everyone else is.
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Honestly, I believe there are people out there who can remain faithful. It can happen, trust me.
Sometimes people end up cheating because they lose interest in the relationship and fall out of love. It can even be out of boredom from being bored of the relationship.
Relationships are a lot of work, and sometimes people aren't willing to work at them, or try to and give up. The giving up can lead to cheating too.
There can be different reasons for cheating too. It varies from person to person.
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Not many cheat. Only the people without a conscience or a heart do. If someone does cheat, it's a given that they never loved the person they were with. Or they were just pressured.
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Whilst that isn't true, I guess some people are afraid of committing to just that ONE person without ever experiencing being with anyone else.
Commitment is a hard thing for a lot of people, even if they truly do love their partner.
On the other hand, you can get people who will just keep on doing it because they're selfish.
I'm sure a lot of things go through the cheaters mind at the time, so only they know a specific reason for why they do it.
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I personally think people are like that due to the fact that our culture doesn't put an important emphasis to sticking with one person any more. Even from an early age people are taught "not to get too serious" you have your whole life ahead of you. So kids think. "Okay maybe they're right." So people think Let me sow my 'wild oats' and do whatever i want and then later I'll be in a relationship with one person. But by then it's too late. Kids have been so programmed that If you find someone new you can throw away the old person. And now that's just a common way of life. Not that I'm saying kids should begin to get serious at say twelve or thirteen. I just think that If our society were to teach younger kids that it's okay to wait until later in life (late teens) to start dating then maybe the value of relationships would grow. Also I think there is way to much attention put on sex. In everything you see people everywhere are thinking about sex. Kids catch on. They're not stupid. And i hate to be the one to blame the media but how many shows are there out there have sex somewhat involved? After a while it just starts to get ingrained into your life. If people stopped for a second and worried about other aspects of a relationship besides sex I think the rate people break up and move on to someone new would be dramatically decreased...
But then again that's just my point of view. I know it was long but I've been thinking that myself. And came to that conclusion a while ago.
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i know there a re a lot of terrible people out there, but there are also good faithful couples as well. i think age,maturity, have a lot t o do with it. an 18 year old who isnt ready to settle down and wants to play the "field" covers a lot of the cheaters out there. there are plenty of couples deep in love who would never cheat though. if you;ve been cheated on keep your head up and leave the prick behind. dont forget there are still a lot of good people out there along with the terrible cheaters.
cheaters are selfish horny people who dont care about anyones feelings but their own and need their sexual needs satisfied. i know a couple friends who have never had a bf/gf they havent cheated on and its terrible..but watch they will always end up alone due to their cheating
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