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Will it last?
i am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend. i have never met a guy as amazing to me as he is. he is the definition of perfect in my eyes..and he says hes in love with me. he shows me all the time how much he cares for me and i know its not just some little fling..it cant be. ive just been thinking lately how long can this honestly last? we were best friends before we dated..and we have been dating for two months now..it feels like we have been together forever and things only get better. but i mean ive been worried that things are going to turn for the worse because ive never had a guy like this.. what are the chances that we will stay together? we are both 16..i know its young but i can honestly say i love him and it would kill me if i lost him..it feels so real..could it be?
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All good things they say, never last.
It'll come to end sooner or later. You may be 18 and you may be 95. But enjoy it while it's here.
I know people who got married for the first time at 40 and people who got married at 18. DOn't worry too much about it. You're young. Enjoy the moment because you don't know how long you'll even be on this earth ya know? Just enjoy today.
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i think it would last if you guys like each other soooo much. i suggest not to worry on those things. just enjoy the time you have with him now because i think it would be worth while.
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Obviously most teen romances don't end up at marriage, but of course some do. I know a married couple who have literally been dating since sixth grade. And, look at Corey and Topanga on Boy Meets World :).
As long as you continue to love each other, there's no reason why anything should go wrong. Don't worry yourself thinking about what MIGHT happen, just focus on how happy you are right now.
Good luck!
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You say you've been worrying that things are going to turn for the worse because you've never had a guy like this - to me it sounds as if you're worried that it's too good to be true.
And I know how you feel, like surely life can't be this good, something bad's going to happen soon, right?
But you have to stop thinking like that.
Think to youself that you deserve a guy like this. I don't know you and I don't know your boyfriend, so I can't really say whether your relationship's real or not, but if it feels so real...be happy with that, if it feels real to you just make the most out of the relationship and have a great time with your boyfriend. If things are going great for you at the moment, make that carry on. I'm sure the relationship will continue to feel real, and if you carry on with it; I'm sure you'll find out whether it definitely is or not. But if it feels real to you and him at the moment, I think that's all that matters.
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Maybe.
There's no magical way of knowing what's going to happen in the future. Which is why it's bad to think about it in the way you are.
So instead of worrying about what the future holds, just enjoy the present and take each day as it comes. If you love him as much as you say you do, don't do anything that would hurt him or push him away, obviously. It's all you can do. and hope he does the same for you.
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It will only last if you play the right cards. Remain in love with him and as he is love with you, and never let anything can get in the way of it. What the two of you have is something which some people want and some dream about; you've got a guy which you realy love and you want the relationship to last and it's perfect. As long as the two of you talk to each other and if any issues arise (which i doubt there will, but in case), then the two of you should talk and listen to each other and work through the issue together, as one.
16 isn't too young to have a relationship, it's the right times because you're learning about who you are and who you want to be with and this is the right time to experiance love.
Good luck with the two of you in the future,
triquetra
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I feel exactly the same, and thats what I feel like, Im always wondering how long we can last.
The only thing is, when you think this, it brings you down all the time, cos instead of focusing on the good things you focus on the bad things.
Which can cause arguements. Im suffering the same things. Its very difficult, but you gotta think, I love this guy and Im going to make it last as long as I can.
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