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messed up
i hooked up with my friends bf. yes it was stupid and i really regret it so dont tell me how bad it was. I feel terrible but i made a mistake. now everyone knows. what do i do. (we have the same freinds)
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hello darling,
maybe you should talk to your friend about "hooking up" with her boyfriend. and if she wants you to "break up" with him (or whatever slang you youngsters use these days) then you should take it into consideration. but if you are really in love with him, dont. but it depends if he was her ex or not.
-violet shroom
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well, you messed up and the least you can do is tell your friend if she doesnt already know. be prepared for her to not talk to you for a long time or maybe not ever, but this is part of the consequence. apologize as well, but if my friend ever did that to me, i dont think i would talk to the person again. it was a terrible thing, you cant change the past..so just do what there is left to do. there is nothing left to do except apologize and tell her if she doesnt already know
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Well, it sounds like the only thing you can do is apologize. Tell your friend how sorry you are, how bad you feel, how much you regret it, etc. And be prepared for the possibility that she might not forgive you. That's up to her.
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You have one options. Well, two actually, but you'll probably go to Hell for the second one ;)
Be honest. Tell your friend what you did, don't embellish, don't blame the boyfriend. Be straight up, it will just make things easier. Admit to her you were wrong, apologize if you are truly sorry. Expect her to yell, to cry, or to refuse to forgive you, thats normal. I'm proud of you for recognizing your mistake. But now its time to clean things up. With time, maybe things will move on. Maybe she'll realize that her boyfriend obviously wasn't right for her if he's willing to cheat. In the meantime, take your part of the blame, and deal with it the best you can.
Good Luck<3
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go up to your friend and explain what happened
and sure she'll be REALLY mad at you for a while, but if i were her, id rather hear it from you than from someone else, this way you can show her you know it was wrong and it meant nothing to you and you feel really bad
dont push her to forgive you, cause like you said, you know how bad it was.
xxtiffany
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