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did i lose it?
15/f
so me and my boyfriend just had sex yesturday. Only im not sure if its considered sex. I was a virgin and he wasnt. and his penis did go inside me but he didnt finish. It was taking a while and it kind of hurt and i was tired so we stopped. So i dont know if that counts or not.
help?
thanks
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As everyone is saying, everyone has their own definitions.
What the people below didn't cover is that some people say if the skin inside didn't break, you're still a virgin.
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Yes , if he stuck his penis in your vigina ,
that is consideried loosing your viginity .
Everybody has there own definition ,
but this is what i was taught , and what i believe , so yaah,
you lost it .
xoxo
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yes that does count because he stuck his penis inside of you
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yes it counts, no matter if he finshed or not, his penis went inside of your vagina, and that is what sex it. whether or not you orgasm (though it is the "point" of sex) has nothing to do with if it is sex or not because you don't always orgasm when you have sex.
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Virginity means different things to different people, but the conventional definition of a straight person losing their virginity is that they've had intercourse.
It doesn't matter if he didn't orgasm, or you didn't.
Things you may want to consider for next time - were you using lubricated condoms? This can make things less uncomfortable, particularly if you combine it with a water-based lubricant (other types can ruin the condom's effectiveness). Also, did you take enough time before the actual sex to get your body and mind 'warmed up'?
Sex and virginity is something unique to how you perceive it. Even though you've now had sex, you can still change you mind and decide you no longer want to - or you can choose to continue.
I wish you the best.
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In my opinion, you are still a virgin unless you orgasmed. The whole point of sex is to orgasm, right? So if you didn't, then you are still a virgin.
Most people think if you went through the whole 'penis in vagina' thing you're not a virgin, so they might disagree with me.
If you ever read the Color Purple, you will see what I mean.
~Maria, 16
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if the penis enters the vagina, your not a virgin anymore, no matter if he finished or not.
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It doesn't matter if he didn't finish.
His penis entered your vagina (it doesn't matter for how long either) meaning you are no longer a virgin. :)
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