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15/f
so me and my boyfriend just had sex yesturday. Only im not sure if its considered sex. I was a virgin and he wasnt. and his penis did go inside me but he didnt finish. It was taking a while and it kind of hurt and i was tired so we stopped. So i dont know if that counts or not.
help?
thanks

yes that does count because he stuck his penis inside of you

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to use female condoms
and male condoms at the same time

beacuse i want to make sure i am safe
will that be okay using both

well if you use more than one condom, it is easier for it to break, i know that cause i went to a sex class over the summer they aid its not any safer because it make hem break easier, so i wouldnt do that if i were you, plus using 2 probaly take alot of feeling out!

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hi..me an my gf have been haveing sex when my penis goes up i put the condom on and it jus goes down again i really want to hav sex but it just goes down is there any way i can make it stay up an i dont wana use those pills that make it stay up..is there any oher way??..thanks

you should try 4 play

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17 f
So there's this boy who I use to have a huuuuge crush on and I still do but its just not as huge anyways I hadn't seen him in over three months until monday morning when I found out he goes to the same highschool as me now this is where the situation gets akward.....you see I really messed up ......instead of approaching him and saying "hiii!!!!!! How you been? You go to my school??" like I normally would I decided to be a little girl about it and just walk right by him like I didn't see him and now everytime we see each other we sortve just act like we don't know each other and he gives me dirty faces I feel so akward now because I realllly want to talk to him but I can't now because he thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not! How do I talk to him without making myself look stupid for not saying hi before? How do I talk to him? And most importantly how can I rebuild our friendship?

all you have to do is go up to him and say something like i havnt talked to you in a while what have you been up to, then the conversation will go from there

sept. 27
just talk about random things like what have you been up to and bring up old memories and stuff, youll have a couple of laughs then

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okay so i'm 15/f and i live in new jersey. My bf who i've had sex with once so far is 20. I don't want to hear about how i shouldn't be dating someone older then me b/c i love him, and yes i do know what love means. My question is he doesn't what to have sex any more cuz he thinks its illegal. What if i give consent, doesn't that make it fine? and if it is illegal, what is the punishment?

well yea it is illegal, and if you were to get caught he could go to jail cause i think itd be considered rape, but as long as know one talks, no one will find out!!

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Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!

no, i know many freshmen girls who date 8th graders, i did!!

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the other night i was fingered for the first time. i don't know if my friends saw, or if they know or not but i haven't said anything to them and they haven't said anything to me. i always tell my friends this kind of stuff and i kind of feel uncomfortable telling them now because i always said i would never get fingered and then i did... so what should i do if it comes up and they are there?

well just tell them you cant really predict what yo do, things happen and if they have a problem then thats their problem, but you didnt know it was going to happen and you mightve been caught up in the moment and that happend, if those people are your real friends then they would have your back if you ever tell them

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Hey well basically, the thing is i was going out with a girl for a year and 3 months. At first it was awesome, we loved each other so much, but as time went on we started having serious problems, arguing all the time, fallen out and it came to a point were we split up. After we split i was devastated but i knew i had to carry on in life, but after about 5-6 months of not being in contact she eventually contacted me, and she was acting really nice.
She wanted to meet up one night so we did and she slept at my house, we didn't have sex, but we kissed, and after that we are constantly talking online and shes always sayin stuff like "we are goin to live with each other in the future" all that type of stuff and am like what the hell, is this girl taking the piss or does she really mean it, but then other days she just acts as though we are just friends and i'm getting really mixed feelings someone help!!

yea, i think she wants you back! she probaly misses baing around you, you guys just probaly needed some space from eachother and now shes probaly fiening for you.

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My boyfriends birthday is coming upreally soon.
we have been together for one year on that day

so i am taking him out dinner
but i still dont know a present i can get him

there are no concerts coming up.
and he has every CD possible..
any ideas?

you can never go wrong with money and a card, or a gift card

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alright, well my friend is dating this guy that i like. and i have liked him for a loooonnng time. since the end of last school year, and she just started dating him last week. but, he always talks to me and like flirts with me. i know it sounds wrong on my part but me and the girl hes dating arent that good of friends, were more of aquantises(or however you spell it) but anyways, we both liked eachother the first week of school & we both knew it but we never told eachother. i just don't know if i i should tell him i like him or what?!!?
help.

i think you should tell him how you feel, epecially if you feel that vibe between you to, you should tell him before him and the other girl gets to close!!

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okay so me and this friend lets call her wendy have been friends since elementry school... im not 18... okay so my senior year we started getting closer as friends so we hung out more... well she started going out with a 13 year old... (she was 18)... well she told me this story that she have him "head" in her friends car and i was like okay i dont care...

so a week later she asked me a favor to pick up her boyfriend and take him to her house... well me and my boyfriend went to go get him and at like 1 in the morning she called me to take him home...

so we went to pick them up and i realized that i needed to let my mom know where i was going... so me and my boyfriend went into the house while they were in the car...

so i went outside and i walk into the car and i catch her giving him "head" in my car... i get pissed because i feel its disrespectful... so i cuss her out when we drop him off... and she denys that she did anything to this day..

so now its been like a year later... and shes trying to talk to me again and i still feel that it was really wrong
1. that she did it...
2. that she denys it...

what should i do should i let it go or keep her out of my life...
because i really dont want that kind of person in my life...

i don't think yo should ignore her, but if you don't want to be around anyone like that then just be an associate to her, because that was disrespectful to give somebody head in your car, thats' nasty, they shouldve waited till they was somewhere private or something.

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since i was 13 and got my period, i've been exactly on schedule every month when getting my period. i usually play school soccer in the fall, exercising every day at practice after school.. however this year i am not playing soccer and so my exercising activity has decreased dramatically this fall. can this affect my period schedule? because i'm a week late for the first time ever! however i've also been sexually active since june, (always use protection).. and never have had the experience of a condom ripping.. but since i'm a week late for the first time ever, i'm scared about what it might mean. is it just the sudden change of exercise level?

it's normal for your period date to change, it happens to me sometimes, but always keep in mind that condoms aren't 100% active, but you should have nothing to worry about

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ok how does a girl masturbate?? NO LINKS!!! just tell me here

you can either finger yourself or play with your clitoris

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When you are participating in sexual intercourse and the guy or girl cums, what are you supposed to do with it (wipe it off, leave it there, etc.???)

you should wash after any sexual activities and if you cum or bleed in his bed, he would be responsible og cleaning it up, you have nothing to worry about

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when people say that I'm really pretty for no reason does that mean that I am? Because I look in the mirror and I guess I look okay but people all the time say that I'm pretty and guys are always sticking thier heads out the window looking at me or yelling. But when I look on the mirror I'm not pretty at all. I'm just okay. I guess. any advice??? am I really ugly or pretty?

if people are telling you thay you're pretty, take it as a compliment, and don't put any second thoughts to it

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