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why is she so mean?


Question Posted Tuesday September 4 2007, 5:28 pm

okay so at my school this girl who started crap with me last year and again on myspace over the summer. and i said stuff to her to defend myself. and she doesn't like me. and she gives me dirty looks now. and she's really mean & so are her friends. & no one likes them. & she does drugs and drinks all the time. and i heard when she was in 7th grade everyone found out she had sex with this one guy. and i don't get like why is she soo mean & does drugs when she knows she shouldn't be like that?

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icey0990 answered Friday September 7 2007, 2:03 am:
she doesnt sound like shes worth knowing or having on your good side anyway..so basically just ignore her and stick to your friends. i bet shes known as quite the..'slut..' soo its better off to not talk with her. not everyone is going to like you..and i know i want as many people as possible to like me because i think im a pretty nice person...but i know of one person who doesnt like me for no reason but who cares because i dont like her either haha. so just brush it off and dont worry. i dont get why shes so mean and does drugs either, but that her problem. always stay true to yourself

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Mr_Skittles answered Thursday September 6 2007, 10:25 pm:
She's mean and most likely does the drugs too because something isn't 'right' in her world. Things aren't working out, and using you as a punching bag makes her feel much better.

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blackrose13 answered Thursday September 6 2007, 10:00 am:
tell her to back the hell off of you and warn her if she makes fun of you again your gonna beat the shiznitz out of her make her feel scared man i scare people away cause of my face reactions and voice .. but only to the people that are rude..
this is why we have middle fingers
lol..
anyway
i prefer you tell a teacher about this
if it doesnt work
and let the teeacher work it out

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caramella answered Wednesday September 5 2007, 9:57 pm:
the answer to why she does drugs is because shes extreemly narrow minded and wants to look big and bad infront of everyone...she wants to start shit with people and knows noone will do anything back to her cuz"she does drugs and does all the bad things" she picks on people and starts random fights for the popularity of it.if she gives you dirty looks...give it back to her..dont be scared man shes not gonna murder you..even if it does end up with a fist fight..beat her ass up...its not like her hittin you is gonna kill you either!you need to stand up to her cuz her knowing that someone is actually not afraid of her and ready to bitchslap her anytime she starts with them will back her off

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munchie007 answered Wednesday September 5 2007, 9:22 pm:
who is this if you dont mind me asking?

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jamiehelpsyou answered Wednesday September 5 2007, 8:56 pm:
Well to tell you the truth the reason she is so mean is because she's sad on the inside...you never know what's going on in someones life....she could be going thru so much drama at home or she could have been raped or be getting beatin at home...or maybe her mother does drugs too or maybe her father beats her mother...well my point is you never know what's going on in someones life that makes them the way they are....she's probably a good person but doesnt know how to show it because of all her issues....I suggest you eigther ignore her because she's obviously going thru some things or you try and reach out to her when no one is around....the choice is yours but I suggest you think long and hard about what you're going to do because reaching out could mean her rejecting it and her being even more mean because she see's you've realized what's wrong with her and she might get scared you'll tell someone what you've discovered...so procede with caution.....goodluck....godbless......your friend/advicer......jamie

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