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slut rep?
ok 15/f..if that helps. im not a slut ((for lack of a better word)) right now, but i kinda want to have a slut reputation. I know that sounds totally bad but I kind of do. I don't mind being called a slut or being known as one either, is that bad? or what?
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I've never wanted that reputation and never aspired to that, however, I understand what you are talking about. You want guys to want you, and you want girls to be jealous. You want some action and you want people to know your expiercenced. (If any of that you said a no to, then you don't want to be a slut haha)
However, you are 15. And when someone is 15 and get's around a lot your peers will be grossed out a little, and actually be turned off by it in a way. Because once a guy gets some in the "friend with benefit" sort of way, he will always just think of you as a quick fix.
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I've never heard of any girl wanting to be called that. I know, how it feels to be the slut in school. You don't want it, love. I wasn't a slut. At all. Yeah sure, I had done things that most people have done before, inless they were prude. Anyways, I had this one really mean backstabbing friend. She made alll these lies about me. She made fake IM conversations. Posted it on EVERYONES locker.
So then, I lost alot of friends, because they didn't wanna hang out with someone, 'that couldn't get a guy, inless she slept with them' or something like that. I however, never did anything like that. Guys started not to like me, inless I did things to them. When I'd be in the halls, some girls would go, "Ew she stole my boyfriend, because she gave him a blow job, I guess I'm just not that low, to do something like that!!" People all believed I did all these horrible things too, because I had alot of boyfriends. It was only because I was considered pretty.
Do you still want to be called a slut? I mean, I've never really known anyone that had a brain, to be wanted to be called something so low. If you want to be made fun, and for no guys to actually like you for you, then sure go for it?
Have fun being the biggest loser slut in school, I guess??
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To want to viewed as promiscuous and having multiple relationships at once with a lot of random people is nothing healthy to want to aspire to. The term slut (see Webster's Dictionary) is also a term for prostitute.
Why in the world would you ever want to be viewed as being on par with one or called one? It isn't logical. It's not healthy for you mentally to even be thinking these thoughts. If you want to aspire to be something or be viewed as something by others do something good for that attention and not resort to acting out this idea or fantasy.
I could understand the curiosity about what that lifestyle is like but not as something to aspire to, want to be, fantacize about. Girls who are called sluts or are sluts have a multitude of problems so don't follow their lead.
No offense, but I think you ought to discuss this kind of thinking with a psychologist or liscensed therapist to see where this idea and desire to be viewed as a slut or have the reputation as one comes from or what greater meaning it may or may not have in terms of how you view yourself and or sexuality.
I'm saying this having met a lot of people with mental health issues and thoughts that you are thinking and expressing here as it's just not healthy thinking.
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Hi.
Not strange really to me but it IS a bad thing. I know that a lot of girls look around and see how all the 'sluts' seem to get ALL the attention and all the hot guys and the popularity and all the dates but you need to take a step back and look at what this popularity has cost them. To these guys that person is nothing but a slut to them. Someone they can use and abuse because she will let them simply because she wants that attention and she feels important and thinks that it's all it's about. It's not. A friend of mine was a slut. She even now admits it being in her 20's now and when she was 17 she had to legally change her last name. The only reason she did that was becuase she had become known as the biggest slut of where I lived. She had all the guys after her not because they loved her personality or because they thought she was really pretty or popular. It was all because she was known by everyone as a slut (aka. easy).
Trust me it may seem like a small sacrifice to make now to have all that popularity but it wll leave you very empty. I mean come on... guys saying they like you and love you just so they can get into your pants. I know it happens a lot anyway but when you becomes known as a slut to everyone (as well as a self proclaimed slut) do you really think any half decent guy will even look at you seriously? I consider myself decent at least to a degree and I'm not exactly awesome looking either but I can honestly tell you now that a slut doesn't stand a chance with me at all. I just refuse to go there (especially given one of my last girlfriends I had gone out with who proved that once a slut - always a slut).
Take my word for it you don't want to be known as a slut. It's a title that will stick with and haunt you later.
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yea... im sorry hun but being known as a slut actually is a pretty bad thing, and people might get annoyed of you and start spreading rumors about you if you are..
maybe for now you should just stick with like a flirt reputation.
flirt with a lot of guys, only if they are single, cause you dont want their girlfriends to hate you and gossip about you and stuff.
so yea just flirt with a lot of guys and be physical with them like touch their arm and stuff.
if you really wanna be known as a slut though, then wear revealing clothes like short skirts and shirts that show a lot of cleavage and stuff, and flirt with guys a lot and just be really sexual.
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I am snorting in laughter at the stupidness of this "question". I hope you are aware that being a slut has ALOT to do with SEX. You know, the thing that gets you pregnant, dumbass. And sure, if you want to steal your friend's boyfriends, and be a hooker at Hooters will do good too.
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