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Popularity and Jealousy
I really really want to be popular and I get so jealous at all of the pretty, popular, perfect gurls. How can I overcome this jealousy?
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I honestly don't think that a single person knows the definition of the word "popular" anymore.
"Regarded with great favor, approval, or affection especially by the general public."
Being popular doesn't mean you have nice clothes, a pretty face, and a small group of good looking friends, it means people LIKE you. Obviously you don't like these people, and i'm sure that you aren't the only one.
The kind of people you are discussing are nothing more than snobs. I don't see why you would be jealous of this kind of person anyway, but to put things simply, don't be. You don't want to be like that. Because in all honesty, no one will like you.
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they have there weekness. a lot of popular people do drugs and they go down on every guy! trust just think... in the real world there are no popular people besides like famous ppl haha amd probaly just think those popular ppl will probaly never make anything of themselves
JUST BE YOU,
Kylie
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Trust me, they are not as perfect as they seem. I bet you at least one of them has an eating disorder or something like that. Plus just because your popular, doesn't mean everyone likes you . . . it just means they know who you are. Maybe these girls are popular because a lot of people know them, and don't like them. I was never popular at my school and I never wanted to be because being popular meant changing yourself to please other people and giving in to peer pressure. As long as you know who you are and have a group of friends that like you for YOU (not the way you look), then you shouldn't be jealous. In fact, those girls should be jealous of you!
What always makes me feel better is renting a movie where the main character is unpopular but is protrayed as the good guy (and there are a lot of them out there). If you haven't already seen Mean Girls, I would definitely suggest that or Princess Diaries. Hope this helps!
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When you're still in school, being popular you think, is the most important thing but I've come to realize its not. It's all about having self-confidence in yourself. Talk to people, be nice to everyone, but don't be fake. If people see that you are a nice person to other people you will most certainly get respect, and most importantly you'll have respect for yourself.
And when you build self -confidence then you consider yourself popular. And also, noone on this world is PERFECT, their is no such thing.
++ Try talking to these girls maybe that will help break barriers, say hey. That's all you have to say or comment on their outfit their wearing. This can help.
Being popular isn't everything its cracked up to be. Just be happy with yourself and hang out with whoever your comfortable with. Hope this helps.
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most of them are fake anyways. and they only reason they're popular is because they pretend to be nice to everyone. but in the end they go and talk about. not of all of them are like that but most are. or you could always become one of them.
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