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I went out on a first date with this guy. He is really nice and everything, but I'm not really looking for a relationship. During the date, he asked what I'm looking for and I explicitly said "nothing serious".
He has called me every day since the date (which was 4 days ago) and has even invited me to spend the night.
He's a nice guy and I wouldn't mind spending time with him, but I don't want a relationship with him and I don't want him calling all the time!
What do I do? I hate being mean to people. (link)
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you could make up an excuse to why you're not ready for a boyfriend or anything. like you just got out a bad relationship.
or you can be forward with him and just tell him how you feel. that doesn't always work thoughh.
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so my boyfriend is like a reeally good kisser. and i no im not a good kisser. how can i be a really good kisser? what should i do with my tongue? how do you suck on someones lip and how do you nibble on their lip? please tell me everything you no. thanks! =} (link)
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okay well at first you might just want to kiss him a couple times and then open your mouth and try stick your tounge in his mouth, it'll come naturally. it's hard to explain what to do. or you could also spell your name with your tounge. i wouldn't try nibbling on someones lip, you might bit it on accident the first time so i wouldn't do that until i was really comfortable around him so incase you do yall can just laugh about it. most of it just come natural and you don't really have to think about it. but while yall are making out run your hands through his hair and hold him close to you.
hope i help.(:
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i really really like my ex still but he has a new girlfriend. all my friends say i should tell him that i like him. i broke up with him so im wondering if i should tell him or not. (link)
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you might as well, what have you got to loose?
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okay. i have no idea like how to flirt. i'm terrible at it, i never really tried because i don't know what to say. how can i like learn how to flirt? i use to be kind of a tomboy before and i hang out with guys sometimes, but i am girlyish too. it just always feels weird if i would try to flirt. any suggestions? (link)
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Try teasing the guy alot, and laughing at most things he says. Acting disty can be flirting in ways too.
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I have never had a boyfriend before. I am thinking of asking a guy out soon. But how do you ask a guy out? and if you're going out ... what do you do?? all of the relationships ive ever seen have been horrible to say the least, so I haven't even been able to see it before... So I am really in the dark... I hate feeling this way when im already 16 years old!! thanks for any help... and for not thinking I'm a complete loser! (link)
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it's kinda weird for a girl to ask out a girl.
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Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now and i'm his first proper girlfriend, we're really close but we just kiss and hug and stuff, How can I make the first move to take our relationship further? :/ (link)
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try talking to him about and see how he feels about it before doing anything else.
he might not be ready about it.
don't try pushing anything.
communicate with him. and if that's not something you want to talk to him about then just go for it.
like;; unbuttoning his pants to give him a blowjob or a handjob.
and if you want him to do something with you while yall are making out put his hand where you want it to go, like down there or on your boob if you want.
i hope i helpedd.
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ok. well, i'm like madly in love with this guy name Jacob & like EVERYONE knows it for some reason[i gess its obvisious] & he even knows i like him bkuz of all his friends screaming it in his ears every single day -.- loll.& like yeah. so in math class[4th period]. this guy name Jerry he was holding me[i wanted to let go] while the teacher was teaching.she got annoyed to said to let go on to "get a room"[loll.] everyone looked my way i felt so embarassed >_<
it just so happened that Jacob is in that class. which means he looked at what we where doing.but he only saw me getting away not the hugging part.& near the end of the period, he looked quite sad.
So then in History class[6 period], jacob sits next to me then he all of a sudden he asked what me and jerry was doing that made the teacher say get a room? i told him. cause he really wanted to know. like he wont take nothing as an answer bkuz i told him it was nothing & he was like. oh! it was a somthing alright.
but i wanna know. is that a hint that he likes me?
its been on my mind like crazy! xD
it kind of feels nice having him seemed wooryed about it though hehe.
im 14 btw. so that means im an 8th grader (link)
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just ask him if he likes you.
it seems like he does though.
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im invited to this girls 14th birthday party. she only invited 20 people. we used to be best friends in 6th grade and were in love with eachother she told me she liked me but i wasnt in the mood so i said i didnt like her. that was in 6th grade. over that summer we totally lost contact by the next party she hated me then a month later school, she didnt notice me. i dont like her. she is creepy she is the gothic skater but too hyper and im a preppy jock she said. so its now end of 8th grade. since then her and her best friend they are always with eachother and they grew up around eachother, they keep falling for eachother but their friendship stays. i havent really thought about her till now she gave ME an invintation. i havent really talked to her since 6th grade. she changed so much since 6th shes the total oppasite i guess. im not the one to go to parties i never was. she always is she just has fun and talks to anyone. but she looks so miserable when shes not with any friends you can see the very deep pain in her eyes but shes so good at hiding it. her other friend told me she just hates life and is having a rough time and he said i dont have enough nerve to hurt her but if i did... i forget what he even said but her guy friends are extremely close to her more than they should be she constintly flirts with them but they say its fine. i want to know what is with her but im afraid of what her friends would say to me or what shed do to me. why did she invite me we dont even talk. what am i supposed to do. should i go or should i not and what do u think is with her? anything else u think or i mentiond please help
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i would go and just see what it's like. you could end up having alot of fun and if she really having a hard time maybe she just needs an old friend to help her and yall could become good friends in the end again.
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I like to curl my hair but whenever it does it turns out terrible. My hair is kinda thick so I don't know if that is it. But when I do curl it nice it comes out, I use hairspray too. I don't know what I should do about it. But if any of you guys have advice on come cute ways to curl hair then let me know or if you have any idea how to fix my hair thanks. Oh if it helps any I am 13/f and I use a curling iron. Thanks! (link)
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i use moose ((idk how to spell it)). i put it in before i go to sleep with my hair wet and when i wake up it looks good. and i hairspray it right before i leave. it works for me and i have kinda thick hair too.
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i would like it if guys would answer thiss :D
okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months (we are both 14) and all we have done is makeout and he has put his hand up my shirt but not inside my bra. we both started talking about going a little farther and we are both okay with it. but the problem is some things would be kind of awkward since we are like best friends. so don't say like "talk to him while giving him a hand job" because that is incredibly awkward and we are both silly and can't really be sexual like that..it's just weird. come on, were 14! haha. but we don't want to go to fast...soo it like just feeling his dick from outside his clothes weird? like do guys like that? because i don't really want to go in his pants for a while..kinda of gross. and guys don't get embarrased if they have a boner, right? what's some other "sexual" things that i could do besides going in his pants? thanks a lot!
oh yeh, do guys like TOTALLY shaved pussies or just a little hair? only for like fingering, feeling, etc. not eating out
THANKS IN ADVANCE! i'm totally clueless =/
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i had the same problem, with my boyfriend we didn't end up going out as long as yall have though. i would feel his dick from the outside of his pants all the time he was kindof shy and didn't seem like "that kindof guy" but he never said he didn't like it, which must mean he did. and some guys don't really care if they get a boner espicially if they're with they're girlfriend because it can give her a hit too that he is turned on.
and guys will most likely like a girl that's all shaved but if he really likes you and stuff, since you are waiting and stuff, then it shouldn't really matter.
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well im 13/f and all my friends have made out, or been fingered and i havent. i really want to, but when your being fingered what are you soppose to do? if i do it to myself is that how it will feel when a guy does it? (link)
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don't feel rushed to do stuff that your friends have. if you find the right guy and are willing to i guess thats okay, but it's not the same when you finger yourself and when a guy fingers you.
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can someone please give me step by step. lol
like u lean in thenn.....
lol thanks (link)
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you should probably kiss a couple times first. then if you start opening your mouth he'll get the hint that you want to make out and open his mouth then your tounge goes in his mouth it comes natural from there. trust me. i thought it wouldnt but it did.
theyr not a wrong way to make out. everyones different.
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does it hurt? (link)
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It might if they guy has long finger nails.
Make sure hes nails are clipd.
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well im thinking about going tubing with my best friend and her boyfriend(who is also my best friend) and my boyfriend.we are all like really close best friends and i think my friend looks better in a bathing suit than me. i have talked to my boyfriend about it and he says you know idc what she looks like its no big deal.but what if hes just saying that.help ): (link)
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He most likely isn't just saying that. If you know he has cheated on you before. Or you know that he has cheated on anyone he might be just saying that. But if he said that it means he really cares about you and you wouldn't want to hurt you. And if he thinks that she lookes better he would tell her. And if she was really your best friend she would tell you.
jenny
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I really really want to be popular and I get so jealous at all of the pretty, popular, perfect gurls. How can I overcome this jealousy? (link)
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most of them are fake anyways. and they only reason they're popular is because they pretend to be nice to everyone. but in the end they go and talk about. not of all of them are like that but most are. or you could always become one of them.
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well i was dating this guy and then he broke up with me then we got back togther 3 times.
The third time he told me that he likes someone else.i kinda of freaked out but didnt care after awhile.He went to dallas for a baseball tournament and while hes there he meets this girl and they go out and they have known eachother for about 2 days.she gives him a handjob and they makeout all the time.im not a total slut so i wouldnt do that with him.he wont talk to me but when he does he acts like im not important that im just some dumb girl. i want to get over him so bad but its really really hard to. no matter what he does to me i still want to be with him.how do i make him feel what hes done to me? (link)
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kick his ass.
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