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an old friend we havent talked in forever
im invited to this girls 14th birthday party. she only invited 20 people. we used to be best friends in 6th grade and were in love with eachother she told me she liked me but i wasnt in the mood so i said i didnt like her. that was in 6th grade. over that summer we totally lost contact by the next party she hated me then a month later school, she didnt notice me. i dont like her. she is creepy she is the gothic skater but too hyper and im a preppy jock she said. so its now end of 8th grade. since then her and her best friend they are always with eachother and they grew up around eachother, they keep falling for eachother but their friendship stays. i havent really thought about her till now she gave ME an invintation. i havent really talked to her since 6th grade. she changed so much since 6th shes the total oppasite i guess. im not the one to go to parties i never was. she always is she just has fun and talks to anyone. but she looks so miserable when shes not with any friends you can see the very deep pain in her eyes but shes so good at hiding it. her other friend told me she just hates life and is having a rough time and he said i dont have enough nerve to hurt her but if i did... i forget what he even said but her guy friends are extremely close to her more than they should be she constintly flirts with them but they say its fine. i want to know what is with her but im afraid of what her friends would say to me or what shed do to me. why did she invite me we dont even talk. what am i supposed to do. should i go or should i not and what do u think is with her? anything else u think or i mentiond please help
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i think you should go, even though she hasn't talked much to you, even though she's changed (at least on the exterior), the fact that she's invited you means you're still in her thoughts. she may notice how you can sense her lonliness, it could be a message that she wants you there, or that you'd be a close person to talk to. since you've lost contact, there are many reasons why she's acting different, it could be her family you never know. so yeah go for it, don't expect anything, as in whether you're going to have fun or not, just go as a favor for a friend. i hope i helped. good luck!
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i would go and just see what it's like. you could end up having alot of fun and if she really having a hard time maybe she just needs an old friend to help her and yall could become good friends in the end again.
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Well try to reason with her friends. Work together to try to help her out. If she is that depressed then she needs help.
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